A reminder from The Art of Seduction by Robert Greene:

"Remember: it is the form that matters, not the content. The less your targets focus on what you say, and the more on how it makes them feel, the more seductive your effect. Give your words a lofty, spiritual, literary flavor the better to insinuate desire in your unwitting victims."

She will not so much remember what you said, but she will definitely remember the way you made her feel. Spark an emotional reaction using your frame. Slow down your words, emphasize points, show passion in understanding. Meditate.

Good luck out there boys.