So I got thinking the other day about these 2 types of guys. The first is the guy who lives for the moment and doesnt worry about tomorrow. He's the guy that get wasted on a Tuesday night and barely manages to get into work the next day, or spends all his money on a spontaneous party and has to borrow money to pay his light bill. He's fun, wild and exciting to be around.

The other guy doesn't have to be an athlete, he's just a very level headed guy. He cant be up drinking late on nights, he goes to the gym at 6am most morning. He eats a controlled and healthy diet so he can perform better at a sport. He's good with his money, budgeting accordingly and knows when to say no to going out.

I'm asking because I've been both of these guys. Age 16-22 I was the party guy. For the past 3 years though I have cut all drugs and drinking out of my life, I eat healthy, I sleep lots, I perform better at sports and at work. I'm just worried because is this an unattractive lifestyle to have for women?

Compared to other guys I'm not fun. I dont go out in the week to get hammered or even stay out late, I'm in bed by 9pm most night. Drinking on the weekend is a rare occasion aswell. I'm normally busy with boxing or BJJ or the gym, I cant afford a hangover or being too tired to train.

Whats your opinions on this? Can the athlete have the same level of attraction with woman as the rock star? How can going to bed early every night beat going out dancing into the night?