Now I am trying to keep this impartial but also wanted to here seddits views on the topic, in my previous post I discussed my views on AA in reference to a girl on holiday.

Now just over a month on I can successfully say that I haven't laid that girl, despite meeting her twice since returning home the level of attraction that was there has almost completely dissapeared.

Which upon reflection leads me to beleive that at the peak level of attraction (likely when we shared a bed spooning on the last night) by not "pulling the trigger" so to speak I have essentially friend zoned myself?

Now in that particular case there were many other contributing factors, for example tinder had recently dried up so wasn't speaking to many girls on that, had been very busy with work so wasn't going out and meeting many new girls either, this no doubt made me a bit needy further pushing her away, thus knocking my confidence slightly, I realised this when I went out the other night and had a girl eyeing me up in the club, approached and opened pretty poorly so just ejected, big mistake! Luckily I have managed to curb my recent needy streak by getting a lucky with a couple of tinder girls and have dates set up, work is easing up and just concentrating on having fun with the lads rather than chasing girls.

But it does leave the question above that seems to be the answer from most PUA's on my situation, "attraction has an expiration date", I see it almost as a girl would rather reject you first if you don't sleep with her soon enough than not know whether you like her or not and possibly get rejected herself.

Would love to here comments from guys that have been in a similar situation and any seddit girls that have maybe done this or understand it better...