Awkward silence

lazarus39 · 2020-08-13T15:05:39+00:00

Ask her questions that she'll love to answer (become genuinely interested in her). If she says she's a swimmer, you can ask her things like "where did your ambition for swimming come from", etc. Ask her open-ended questions. Avoid 'yes' or 'no' questions. Good luck!

lazarus39 · 2020-08-13T15:23:13+00:00

In general moments of silence are not a bad thing. The closer two people are, the longer moments of silence they can handle, because they feel good in each others presence alone.

Too much silence on dates can be a negative thing, but you should be able to handle a little bit of it. This way you show that you are a relaxed guy.

You can address the silence and talk with her about "silence in conversations" and your feelings towards it ...

TuckerTheCuckFucker · 2020-08-13T15:23:50+00:00

Make an assumption about her for her to correct or confirm.

I would refrain from asking too many questions as that can start to sound robotic and stale like she’s being interview.

But for example, if you notice she’s wearing horse earrings, you could say: “I bet you are a champion horse rider” with a little smirk. This will giver her the opportunity to say something like: “yes! How’d you know?? Horse riding is my favorite thing”

OR

“No haha. I just thought these earrings were cute.”

Horse earrings are kind of a bad example but I bring that up because sometimes there’s really almost nothing to talk about so you gotta be quick on your feet and find something in her appearance that you can use to make an assumption

STD_Tyler · 2020-08-13T15:31:56+00:00

You panic from silence because you are trying to please her and care too much. Be a man of high value and silence won't be a problem.

NateHate1402 · 2020-08-13T17:11:29+00:00

If you want to say something just start a sentence e.g “you know what I love” “what?” And now your forced to come up with an answer quickly making it more likely to be genuine rather than something you think she would want to hear.

Title	Awkward silence
Author	lazarus39
Upvotes	6
Comments	12
Date	August 13, 2020 2:47 PM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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