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| 1 | Women Who Say They Don’t Want FWB but Do…Why don’t you just tell us why? Haha | /r/seduction | 17/07/26 11:43 PM |
| 1 | How do I become a top notch fuckboy?Oh word thanks. Do you feel like your game improved dramatically to where you didn’t really need it? Or whats it like? Similar to phenibut? | /r/seduction | 08/07/26 08:37 AM |
| 1 | How do I become a top notch fuckboy?Where do you get emoxypine? I’d be curious to try it | /r/seduction | 08/07/26 06:19 AM |
| 3 | What's the most "controversial", yet effective, advice you've been given?We also didn’t have bullshit buzz words like “toxic masculinity” Those were the days | /r/seduction | 03/07/26 06:04 AM |
| 1 | Cold approach has changed my lifeTruth. You automatically become more attractive to a woman if you confidently shoot your shot, assuming she at least finds you somewhat attractive to begin with And if she doesn’t, you can’t take it personal because women’s types are weird Men have different ideal types but most of us can agree that a woman is beautiful Most women find their friends’ boyfriends completely unfuckable So chalk it up to the game. You might get rejected on a warm up set with a 5/10 and then later in the night, have … | /r/seduction | 18/06/26 03:40 AM |
| 4 | Cold approach has changed my lifeStart flirting when someone pets your dog “Oh man he really likes you. I think he’s looking for a mom” The key to approaching is to not sit and wonder what to say next. It’s to be in the moment totally present with the other person. You’re not trying to impress. You’re just being yourself, but with a slightly flirty edge Could even say “okay that’s enough. you’re not allowed to touch my dog anymore bc I’m starting to get jealous” Just make convo with them while they pet your dog. “Whoa that’s a … | /r/seduction | 18/06/26 03:38 AM |
| 3 | Cold approach has changed my lifeMost of the stuff online is staged for content farming But @Tristan.social is a big page and you can tell he doesn’t do staged shit @thedeeceejay is a smaller one and he does real approaches They focus on being genuine and just having a conversation | /r/seduction | 18/06/26 03:31 AM |
| 1 | Cold approach has changed my lifeThat’s how my future gf needs to act tbh | /r/seduction | 18/06/26 03:29 AM |
| 1 | Cold approach has changed my lifeRelying on dating apps… you will never know true game | /r/seduction | 18/06/26 03:28 AM |
| 1 | You can see women as equals and do wellYou’d prob have to ask women that lol | /r/seduction | 16/06/26 12:11 AM |
| 1 | Is making a girl jealous a net positive?My night will be amazing whether or not my FWB pulls up. I do enjoy her company a lot. But she’s a single mom and that’s not something I want to date Really, the only hesitation is that I don’t ever take her out to do things. I just have her come to my place and we sometimes go to the gym and then come home and fuck and chill for a bit before she has to get back to her kid More over, I sort of get the sense she might be getting a little attached/catching feels. So I worry taking her somewhere co… | /r/seduction | 12/06/26 07:59 PM |
| 1 | Is making a girl jealous a net positive?She had no idea that I know she’ll be there. I overheard a conversation about it that I was not necessarily included in | /r/seduction | 12/06/26 07:55 PM |
| 1 | Is making a girl jealous a net positive?Naw I already have a guest list slot and was planning on going before I knew she was even going She’s showing up with the group of girls from a mutual friend group. I assumed that group would likely be there, but not her | /r/seduction | 12/06/26 09:34 AM |
| 0 | Is making a girl jealous a net positive?Wdym entangled? I don’t know her that well. We spent some time the first weekend together. Then again the following weekend, but we were more isolated from the rest of the group and chatted the night away. Connected pretty deep. But then she left town and I’m not really a big texter or pen pals type person | /r/seduction | 12/06/26 09:32 AM |
| 2 | I can get "good girls" but not "bad girls"Good man Always leave women better than you found them if possible | /r/seduction | 25/05/26 03:39 PM |
| 1 | I can get "good girls" but not "bad girls"A virgin isn’t exactly ideal for me, but I’d be willing to if it meant I had a good one I’d take things very slow though and ensure I had built a very solid foundation for a relationship with her before I ever got sexual | /r/seduction | 25/05/26 03:23 PM |
| 9 | I can get "good girls" but not "bad girls"I have ADHD so I naturally am more impulsive and don’t have a filter It sucks that I attract bad girls bc I would prefer to meet a good girl and casual sex has sort of gotten old | /r/seduction | 24/05/26 10:10 PM |
| 71 | I can get "good girls" but not "bad girls"They are usually straight up crazy and have all sorts of STD’s, and will ruin your life and/or cause all sorts of unnecessary drama Promiscuous women are usually fatherless and it’s not so much that you can’t have a good time with them… it’s just that nothing beats having a woman you love and cherish. Making love is way better than hookup sex Once you been with enough chicks, you realize that But I do understand most young guys gotta ‘get it out of their system’ | /r/seduction | 24/05/26 10:08 PM |
| 32 | I can get "good girls" but not "bad girls"Preach | /r/seduction | 24/05/26 10:05 PM |
| 19 | I can get "good girls" but not "bad girls"Jesus Christ dude. That’s a great thing. I’m tired of bad girls | /r/seduction | 24/05/26 10:04 PM |
| 1 | What are the most distinctive signs of interest women show?“I tried to make him jealous by kissing his friend, wasn’t it obvious I was into him??”” 😂😂 | /r/seduction | 23/05/26 07:42 PM |
| 2 | What are the most distinctive signs of interest women show?I’ve had girls approach but the ones who are very overt and direct are either very ugly, or cute, but quite drunk and worked up the courage (liquid confidence) to say something | /r/seduction | 23/05/26 07:40 PM |
| 3 | What are the most distinctive signs of interest women show?Tbf, the only people saying “women don’t usually do that” are other women, who are likely just jealous that you had the balls to take dating into your own hands FWIW, chud ass men do the same thing and think “you’re not supposed to do that” but they’re really just jealous Also, regarding point #2, there is never a right time. There is only a wrong time, and a wronger time. At least that applies to approaching women lol | /r/seduction | 23/05/26 07:39 PM |
| 1 | Something I noticed about men who sleep with alot of women.Yup lol | /r/seduction | 23/05/26 07:13 PM |
| 1 | Here's how I've successfully gotten my dates to come over to my place. Quite simple.I mean, if you really thought he was a danger to you, I don’t see why you would even go to his house to begin with Also, I still can’t see how having sex to “quell the man” is a positive thing because 1. He doesn’t learn anything. 2. You are creating an imaginary scenario in your head that you’re in danger if you don’t have sex, when you quite literally don’t know whether or not saying “let’s save it for next time” would be effective | /r/seduction | 22/05/26 08:57 AM |
| 1 | Here's how I've successfully gotten my dates to come over to my place. Quite simple.I mean, I don’t see the harm in saying “you said we weren’t going to have sex” and letting them explain themselves | /r/seduction | 22/05/26 12:03 AM |
| 4 | Here's how I've successfully gotten my dates to come over to my place. Quite simple.he tries to kiss you and touch you and you … have to relent and give in being direct to maintain plausible deniability … very manipulative I can empathize to a degree. And do you see how the woman not being direct and shutting down the sex she’s not interested is no different? If a woman goes to a man’s house, it’s her job to advocate for what she wants or doesn’t want A man is almost always going to try and escalate. And most would back off if she shut it down very clearly Society at large teac… | /r/seduction | 21/05/26 05:54 AM |
| 6 | Here's how I've successfully gotten my dates to come over to my place. Quite simple.Well that, and… the only reason men did that was to combat female psychology because they also thought it was ‘stupid af’ | /r/seduction | 21/05/26 05:44 AM |
| 1 | Why is it that most guys naturally learn and figure out the whole dating/seduction thing, how to attract and talk to women correctly without ever having gotten help from a dating coach or pick up artist, or is it False? Did most guys have some help along the way?Fr when I talked to women without sexual intent, I would never get anywhere with them | /r/seduction | 12/05/26 08:55 AM |
| 1 | Something I noticed about men who sleep with alot of women.Truth He pulls with less effort, but he’s envious that I have the balls to approach so many baddies Plus, the girls he pulls keeping his mouth shut aren’t as hot as the ones I open my mouth to | /r/seduction | 01/05/26 06:01 AM |
| 7 | Something I noticed about men who sleep with alot of women.I mean he’s not ugly. His face just isn’t pretty. Solid 6 face. But his physique is def in the top 20% of male physiques. He’s not bodybuilder big. Just jacked and lean | /r/seduction | 01/05/26 05:56 AM |
| 19 | Something I noticed about men who sleep with alot of women.Eh. His looks are abysmal if you just take his face alone. But he’s shredded with like 9% body fat, and tall He doesn’t have the courage to cold approach any women. He just scans the dance floor until he makes eye contact with one. If she smiles, he starts dancing on her. They hardly say a peep to each other, if at all, in the club. But then he brings them home and they have their first real conversation during pillow talk | /r/seduction | 30/04/26 09:40 AM |
| 5 | Something I noticed about men who sleep with alot of women.You’re still not getting it The final boss level is when you don’t try to disarm the Chad, instead… you seduce him | /r/seduction | 30/04/26 03:44 AM |
| 13 | Something I noticed about men who sleep with alot of women.Specifically… the ‘having sex with you’ part In other words, you’re not being polarizing enough. You’re not turning them on. You’re treating them like a friend rather than seducing them Most times, the issue boils down to talking too much about yourself instead of letting her do 80% of the talking making it feel like an interview rather than fun banter not teasing her enough (treat her like a bratty sister) being too agreeable being too soft spoken not making a move not being sexual soon enough … | /r/seduction | 30/04/26 01:40 AM |
| 11 | Something I noticed about men who sleep with alot of women.That’s what I did at the new gym I joined lol | /r/seduction | 30/04/26 01:30 AM |
| 137 | Something I noticed about men who sleep with alot of women.I mostly agree but I have this one friend who has zero rizz. However, he has a great physique and is decently tall Anytime we go to the club, he just makes eye contact with girls, then starts dancing with them They don’t say a word to each other. At the end of the night, he’ll just be like, “you wanna come over?” And boom, he gets laid Although this won’t work for 99.99999% of men, including me I always joke that I have to open my mouth to get laid | /r/seduction | 30/04/26 01:30 AM |
| 10 | Something I noticed about men who sleep with alot of women.He means he’s going to pipe down the Chad, rather than having sex with women Real alpha shit to establish Dominance, you wouldn’t get it | /r/seduction | 30/04/26 01:27 AM |
| 11 | Something I noticed about men who sleep with alot of women.I think what he’s saying is that girls don’t want to do those things with you or have sex with you (Inferred from your previous comment), so you aren’t quite there yet But where you’re at is a good start | /r/seduction | 30/04/26 01:25 AM |
| 1 | How to pull same night laysYou gonn elaborate? Lol | /r/seduction | 18/04/26 07:58 PM |
| 4 | How to pull same night laysI’m both of those lol | /r/seduction | 07/04/26 06:40 AM |
| 1 | Years in seduction space, Practical tips for you guysHow do you become friends with girls I only know how to approach them for game I would think if I just went up to one for friendship, she would be sussed out because I just go up and start flirting | /r/seduction | 07/04/26 04:49 AM |
| 1 | Where to find hookups on the weekday?Can you share daygame venues with better volume? | /r/seduction | 07/04/26 03:37 AM |
| 2 | Is it weird to hook up with your ex?Yeah this is pretty much the situation. She’s BPD but refuses medication. So when she’s stable, she’s a lot of fun. But when I notice her crashing out, I stop seeing her I already detached long ago and have no interest in a relationship with her. I’ve made this clear to her that she should date others, but she says no one knows how to give good dick so she wants me to fuck her right sometimes Sort of same for me. And I do see other people while I’m fucking her. If I met someone I saw potential w… | /r/seduction | 24/12/25 01:43 AM |
| 1 | Is it weird to hook up with your ex?Story time? | /r/seduction | 24/12/25 01:41 AM |
| 1 | Is it weird to hook up with your ex?Don’t blame you. I wanna hook up with yours too | /r/seduction | 24/12/25 01:40 AM |
| 3 | What are flirty signs guys miss?What video? | /r/seduction | 21/12/25 11:13 PM |
| 1 | As a guy in his 30s, is it easier to get dates with women in their 40s or women in their 20s?Maybe. It wasn’t until my patchy beard grew in that I started getting girls to take me seriously. But even then, most women guess I’m 25-27. I have a beard but very youthful face | /r/seduction | 18/12/25 12:48 AM |
| 2 | Does getting older make game harder? Will it be harder to get dates?Dating apps aren’t really a good measurement Girls in their 20’s can have their pick of the litter on dating apps If you want to reap the benefits of younger women being int older men, you need to approach irl | /r/seduction | 18/12/25 12:19 AM |
| 1 | Does getting older make game harder? Will it be harder to get dates?I’m in my 30’s and getting laid has never been easier Remember when you were 18-24 and unable to get laid to save your life? Who do you think those girls were fucking? The 30 year olds In your 30’s, you reap the benefits your forefathers enjoyed I’ve found most women specifically go after older guys I don’t usually ask age, I just talk to girls who are attractive to me and often times they end up being in their 20’s | /r/seduction | 18/12/25 12:14 AM |
| 1 | As a guy in his 30s, is it easier to get dates with women in their 40s or women in their 20s?Naw. Just stay in shape and wear sunscreen and you’ll stand out. Most dudes gain weight and let themselves go in their 30’s I’m near your age and I just made out with a 21 year old, a 23 year old, and a 24 year old on Saturday at a rave I asked the 21 year old her age and when she told me I said “idk, you might be too old for me” she asked how old I was, I told her and joked that I’m an old man. She told me 30’s is still young and that I look hot and proceeded to stick her tongue in my mouth Jus… | /r/seduction | 17/12/25 07:13 AM |
| 9 | As a guy in his 30s, is it easier to get dates with women in their 40s or women in their 20s?Bruh. 21 year old single mom is almost a sure lay. They’re single moms | /r/seduction | 17/12/25 07:09 AM |
| 3 | As a guy in his 30s, is it easier to get dates with women in their 40s or women in their 20s?Hard to see how old you are when their eyes are always squinting from laughing so hard | /r/seduction | 17/12/25 07:06 AM |
| 20 | As a guy in his 30s, is it easier to get dates with women in their 40s or women in their 20s?Bruh. Younger women love older men. Tale as old as time Remember when you were 18-21 hornier than god tryna smash and no women would fuck with you? Who do you think they were fuckin?? It was the 30 year olds. Now that you’re 30, you get to reap the same benefits your forefathers once did | /r/seduction | 17/12/25 07:03 AM |
| 27 | Curious, what was your easiest lay?Ovulation is a helluva drug for most women | /r/seduction | 14/12/25 06:30 AM |
| 5 | Curious, what was your easiest lay?Most my easy lays are the ones I’m least proud of lol Basically either she shot her shot directly with me, or she told someone else she wanted to fuck me and they told me One time I was introduced to this girl. Didn’t chat with her at all bc it was with a whole ass group I was meeting at a club Like 15 min later, the homie who introduced us came up to me and told me she wants to fuck me I was like wtf. I haven’t even said any words to her But once I knew she was bout it, I isolated her for a few… | /r/seduction | 14/12/25 06:30 AM |
| 19 | I hired a dating coach after years of failing - Here’s the best flirting advice I gotFunny you should ask. I’m actually running a Holiday special at $420/month to join But WAIT. If you act now, I’ll throw in my free get laid by 10’s protocol script that GUARANTEES hot milfs for only $69/month Someone here, eventually | /r/seduction | 12/12/25 09:43 AM |
| 3 | I hired a dating coach after years of failing - Here’s the best flirting advice I gotWym? | /r/seduction | 12/12/25 09:42 AM |
| 1 | Most approaches you’ve done in one day? How did you feel afterwards?Teach me your ways grand master | /r/seduction | 10/12/25 10:29 AM |
| 61 | My biggest success with women have always been those I haven sometimes taken 3 days to respond to on Snapchat... WHY?Girls are attracted to men who aren’t desperate When you’re indifferent about a woman and could take it or leave it, her interest level raises. This is backed by science Treat all women the same Which is to say, treat all women like a 6. You’d smash, but not to the extent that you’d tolerate any bullshit from her, and only if she makes it easy | /r/seduction | 08/12/25 10:27 AM |
| 4 | How do you actually attract the calm, grounded guys instead of the high-energy party types?Username def does not check out | /r/seduction | 03/12/25 07:09 AM |
| 2 | Yall misunderstood what game isDating Essentials For Men by Robert Glover. Read it | /r/seduction | 02/12/25 01:20 PM |
| 1 | Your attractiveness is largely dependant on your social validationHow do you become friends with women when their guard is always up | /r/seduction | 30/11/25 08:50 PM |
| -17 | How many of you are using condoms?Pullout game strong ig | /r/seduction | 24/11/25 12:01 PM |
| 2 | How many of you are using condoms?See. I appreciate your honesty. Everyone online says they use one but I find everyone hates them in real life I try to be safe, but damn some girls make it hard when they pull it off and start teasing it | /r/seduction | 24/11/25 12:00 PM |
| -1 | How many of you are using condoms?ime, girls who are into fitness are trying to look sexy because… they want to have lots of sex | /r/seduction | 24/11/25 11:58 AM |
| 2 | 35M virgin, quit my job to focus on game. Where do I start?This is diabolical. I love it I always respond with humor when asked about my job I say I’m a janitor at McDonald’s | /r/seduction | 24/11/25 02:36 AM |
| 2 | 35M virgin, quit my job to focus on game. Where do I start?It would’ve been better to keep your job and travel to a new city each weekend imo That way you aren’t worried about your reputation because you’ll never see these people again Ideally, you get a solid wingman | /r/seduction | 24/11/25 02:34 AM |
| 4 | 35M virgin, quit my job to focus on game. Where do I start?Honestly, if I were in your shoes, I’d pay a couple hookers to help get you comfortable with women Future women you date to not need to know about it. Just pay some hookers to help take the pressure off about having sex Anytime I’ve been in a dry spell, I try and get laid by less attractive women to help get me back in a solid state where I have girls simping over me I use this confidence of getting laid to give me the momentum to go after hotter girls If you’re looking for a solid way to start … | /r/seduction | 24/11/25 02:33 AM |
| 3 | 35M virgin, quit my job to focus on game. Where do I start?Bullying? Holy shit dude. Chill tf out | /r/seduction | 24/11/25 02:18 AM |
| -2 | Change my view: leading women on is the most effective way to be a man who sleeps around.My daughter will be an angel | /r/seduction | 19/11/25 09:39 AM |
| 1 | Direct or indirect?Fair. But direct can be as simple as “hey, you’ve got a great vibe. Whats your name?” | /r/seduction | 18/11/25 09:42 AM |
| 3 | Change my view: leading women on is the most effective way to be a man who sleeps around.My daughter will be taught to save herself for marriage lol | /r/seduction | 18/11/25 08:24 AM |
| 80 | Change my view: leading women on is the most effective way to be a man who sleeps around.I agree slightly but usually the “what are we” talk doesn’t come up on the first fuck So after you fuck and you’re lying in bed, you just casually find a way to fit it in convo that you’re enjoying being single and usually if you piped her down good… she’ll keep coming back around | /r/seduction | 18/11/25 08:20 AM |
| 23 | Why do some men lose interest the moment a woman actually likes them back?Agreed. Getting blue balled is corny. What are we, teenagers? | /r/seduction | 14/11/25 07:12 PM |
| 32 | Why do some men lose interest the moment a woman actually likes them back?If a chick blue balls me even once, I’m out I make it clear that it’s fine if we don’t have sex, but that also means no grinding, no touching, no teasing If she riles me up like we’re gonna have sex and then doesn’t deliver, I just walk No pussy is worth blue balls | /r/seduction | 14/11/25 12:06 PM |
| 6 | I had a fun convo with a girl for an hour straight but then realised I actually messed up“Hey, you seem chill. We should hang out some time” | /r/seduction | 09/11/25 02:20 AM |
| 7 | Nightclub game?No sir. What do you recommend? | /r/seduction | 05/11/25 11:06 AM |
| 1 | 50 rejections in a row wtf am I doing wrongIf it works for you, great. But I see no reason to say sorry or excuse me. 9 times out of 10, my opener is drastic like: “ugh… move!” I say it to them abrasively and They usually look up at me expecting an irritated guy but then I just give them a big playful smile to indicate that I’m joking and most the time, they say something playful back to me. | /r/seduction | 14/08/24 05:52 PM |
| 2 | 50 rejections in a row wtf am I doing wrongWomen don’t go for overly polite guys. Besides which, it’s not like it’s impolite to NOT say sorry. You shouldn’t be sorry. You should hold the frame that you are blessing her day with your energy. She’s lucky you had the balls to approach. You are doing her a favor. | /r/seduction | 14/08/24 09:54 AM |
| 2 | Why you shouldn’t care about ghostingWell that’s the problem. You don’t ask why. You say “okay np lmk when you want to reschedule” and leave it at that. Asking why is a beta move | /r/seduction | 29/05/24 08:49 AM |
| 1 | How to become more arrogant?It’s pretty arrogant of you to say you’re humble lmao you’re doing great | /r/seduction | 27/05/24 10:18 AM |
| 14 | How can I become a smooth talker?God | /r/seduction | 26/05/24 04:07 AM |
| 3 | Guys who get laid every time they go to a bar, what is your secret?Hook up with 3’s lmao | /r/seduction | 24/05/24 10:52 PM |
| 1 | Do you guys rack up bodies with girls you aren’t extremely interested in?That’s interesting. I had the opposite experience where I used to smash whatever I could get. But now that I understand game, I’ve become much more picky. Recently had a woman lay in on thick and follow me back to my RV at a music festival. I politely walked her to her campground and spent a nice peaceful night getting sleep in lieu of sex. No regrets | /r/seduction | 14/07/23 07:23 AM |
| 1 | Do you guys rack up bodies with girls you aren’t extremely interested in?That’s my brother. He has mild autism so doesn’t have many close friends and can’t usually keep women around for more than just a few weeks. But god damn can he get laid | /r/seduction | 14/07/23 07:21 AM |
| 2 | Do you guys rack up bodies with girls you aren’t extremely interested in?Lol. 5’11 is plenty tall to get laid. Black is seen as exotic to many women, and don’t get me started on size queens looking to fulfill some BBC fantasy. Clearly, nothing is hindering you | /r/seduction | 14/07/23 07:20 AM |
| 3 | Do you guys rack up bodies with girls you aren’t extremely interested in?Pretty average I would think for your generation though, to be fair | /r/seduction | 14/07/23 07:18 AM |
| 1 | Do you guys rack up bodies with girls you aren’t extremely interested in?Lol. Good fucking luck unless you’re Chris Hemsworth | /r/seduction | 14/07/23 07:16 AM |
| 0 | Do you guys rack up bodies with girls you aren’t extremely interested in?I fucked 12 girls last year. Bout half of them were 7’s and the other half was 6’s and one 5. And one 8.5 I’m currently dating It would take a really cool 7 to get me to settle down with them but 6 & 7 is still respectable. So although they weren’t my first choice, they were still beautiful women and as long as you’re having fun as there’s attraction, I see no reason to worry about it personally | /r/seduction | 14/07/23 07:14 AM |
| 1 | Girls asking me to buy drinks in clubsRespond “don’t you know how dangerous it is to accept drinks from strangers? Who’s to know what in that drink? How bout you buy the drinks and I’ll Venmo you later” If she brings up how it’s dangerous just be cheeky like “maybe I want to be taken advantage of😏” | /r/seduction | 11/07/23 06:22 AM |
| 2 | Girls asking me to buy drinks in clubs“I’ll get you a water no problem” | /r/seduction | 11/07/23 06:19 AM |
| 1 | Girls asking me to buy drinks in clubsthen come back with a water | /r/seduction | 11/07/23 06:18 AM |
| 4 | Girls asking me to buy drinks in clubsrelevant | /r/seduction | 11/07/23 06:17 AM |
| 2 | Girls asking me to buy drinks in clubsIt’s usually a shit test. I always say “you get the 1st one, I’ll get the 2nd” It’s MY shit test to see if they’ll play into my dominance. If they agree, it usually means they’re somewhat interested. If they decline, I don’t take them seriously usually Occasionally, a girl will give me some shit about it and ask why she should, and I’ll just keep it light and playful and explain that she’s the one who suggested it, so she should get the first one | /r/seduction | 11/07/23 06:12 AM |
| – | Do older woman really think older men date younger woman cause they are easier?Not agreeing or disagreeing but from experience… Women in their 20’s didn’t fuck with me in my 20’s. Women in their 20’s only started fucking with me once I hit 30 I think a lot of men have this same experience and it becomes the circle of life Food for thought | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/06/23 08:52 PM |
| – | Do older woman really think older men date younger woman cause they are easier?Fair enough. Unfortunately that is not the way the world works and from experience being in my 20’s… most other women in their 20’s don’t really fuck with you until you near 30 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/06/23 08:44 PM |
| – | Do older woman really think older men date younger woman cause they are easier?Almost everyone is hypergamous If anyone could have their pick of any human on earth… you bet your ass they would be extremely selective about choosing which ones they allowed in. It’s human nature. Not based on gender at all | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/06/23 08:43 PM |
| – | Do older woman really think older men date younger woman cause they are easier?Yeah. Women by age 30 have had WAY more experience with men than men at age 30 have had with women. Why would we want to date someone way more experienced than us that’s been damaged from riding the cock carrousel throughout her 20’s | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/06/23 08:40 PM |
| – | Do older woman really think older men date younger woman cause they are easier?Then why do they continue to date them time and time again? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/06/23 08:38 PM |
| – | Do older woman really think older men date younger woman cause they are easier?I get what you’re saying. But why is “whats best for a woman” more important than whats “best for a man” ? I’m playing devils advocate here | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/06/23 08:31 PM |
| – | Do older woman really think older men date younger woman cause they are easier?How much older? Where is the cutoff? By “younger women like me” I’m assuming you’re under 22. What is the cutoff age for men to acceptably date you? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/06/23 08:29 PM |
| – | Do older woman really think older men date younger woman cause they are easier?I think it’s more nuanced In the game do dating, women generally only play defense, and start getting hit on by men (who generally play offense). In my opinion, this is a big reason why women mature faster than men They get bombarded with men daily and learn quickly how to play really good defense to weed out the weirdos Men are reluctant to play offense because rejection sucks. By the time we get to a point where we’ve sort of figured out how to pull women, the women our age have had so much mo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/06/23 07:13 PM |
| – | Do older woman really think older men date younger woman cause they are easier?Young boys are pickier about which girls they find attractive. As a former young boy, I can tell you this is 100% not true Hardly any girls your age fuck with you when you’re in your early 20’s. They are all going for older men. We obviously would prefer hot women our age to want us, but they rarely do so we settle for less attractive women our age until we approach our 30’s and women start taking a liking to us Guess who takes a liking to us? Women in their early 20’s Not trying to be a dick. J… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/06/23 07:07 PM |
| 0 | 4 mistakes men make when they ask a woman outI get where you’re coming from but from experience… most women are way more receptive to that these days because it’s low pressure and doesn’t make them think they owe you anything if they hangout with you | /r/seduction | 21/06/23 03:07 AM |
| 1 | 4 mistakes men make when they ask a woman outYeah I get that. I’m just saying the whole thing can be avoided if you lead with “when are you free?” From the get go. That way she doesn’t know your schedule When she responds and says “I have Saturday open” you can say somethin like, “busy weekend but I could make Saturday work. How’s 7?” | /r/seduction | 21/06/23 02:58 AM |
| 3 | 4 mistakes men make when they ask a woman outMy personal favorite is “when are you free to get together?” She gives her schedule and all you do is pick a day. If she’s not about it, you’ll know right away Women who like you make it easy. Any woman you have to budge to spend time with, will not be that fun on a date and the sex will almost assuredly be mediocre as well I personally only make time in my schedule for women who have a high level of attraction to me | /r/seduction | 20/06/23 11:20 PM |
| 5 | 4 mistakes men make when they ask a woman outThis is why you just say… “when are you free to grab a drink?” She will give you her schedule and all you have to do is pick a day that works | /r/seduction | 20/06/23 11:18 PM |
| 0 | Do men find straightforward and assertive women seductive?Only if she’s not dominating. I don’t like the word assertive so much tho. I think women who are in their feminine will naturally trust their man to take the lead and be assertive. Dominating women usually only attract submissive men in my experience Masculine men are naturally going to be more attracted (long term) to women who are submissive and in their feminine. Women who trust their man to take the lead and allow themselves to just relax and be taken care of. Ofc… many men are feminine thes… | /r/seduction | 15/06/23 04:11 AM |
| 1 | You don't owe women the perfect opener..Got a girls number at the gym i stammered with. I was so surprised she was actually about it that I was stuttering a little looking for words This was over a year ago but she ended up texting me first actually. We were chatting but I fumbled by saying “sorry I was busy” so didn’t lead anywhere unfortunately. I’ve since learned to never say sorry to hot girls and have replaced it with “myb” She still looks at me in the gym all the time. Might shoot my shot again | /r/seduction | 31/05/23 05:08 PM |
| 3 | You don't owe women the perfect opener..While I agree. I have stammered while talking to a 9 or 10 and still got the number | /r/seduction | 30/05/23 07:59 PM |
| 17 | You don't owe women the perfect opener..No need. China runs surveillance as a free courtesy to its citizens and visitors | /r/seduction | 30/05/23 06:22 PM |
| 1 | Do men actually care if a woman is smart/professionally successful or not?Most guys don’t want a partner who has the same knowledge as them. They don’t want to come home from work and talk about work They want to come home to a nice cooked meal and a loving embrace with good convo, and then sex later. That is literally all most men want in their partner They don’t care if she’s a high earner or super smart. They just want a peaceful life without drama and lots of intimacy That doesn’t mean guys aren’t I interested in Women but I’d argue that most red pillers aren’t go… | /r/RedPillWomen | 29/04/23 12:47 AM |
| 1 | How are men supposed to even get a relationship nowadays?They do but it’s rarely ever by girls you’d actually want a relationship with, let alone, take home for the night | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/03/23 09:16 PM |
| 0 | Women get over breakups faster because they do less work to initiate relationshipsI didn’t say anything about approaching women. I said initiating a relationship | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/03/23 12:02 AM |
| 0 | Women get over breakups faster because they do less work to initiate relationshipsMen don’t have to initiate the relationship. I promise you if you just keep dating her she’ll eventually ask “where is this going?” At which point you can decide if you want to entertain an LTR or not. Always let her be the one to initiate and she’ll be that much more committed to making it work | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/03/23 10:11 PM |
| 5 | How are men supposed to even get a relationship nowadays?Yes but being attractive doesn’t always means looks. You can up your attractive-ness level through style, gym, haircut, grooming, etc | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/03/23 06:09 PM |
| 2 | Since most women lose sexual interest in their long term partners, what incentive do men have to settle down with and marry women?Couldn’t agree more. Sex isn’t the most important thing. But it’s equally as important as other very important things in a relationship | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/23 03:52 AM |
| 2 | Since most women lose sexual interest in their long term partners, what incentive do men have to settle down with and marry women?I refuse to be most couples who don’t value keeping a romantic spark alive If my girl gets lazy, I move on. If having a kid fucks her sex drive, then easy… we have no more kids. Not about to sacrifice our own sexual intimacy for some unborn child. I will only exclusively date women who have extremely high libidos from the very start | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/23 05:15 PM |
| 1 | Since most women lose sexual interest in their long term partners, what incentive do men have to settle down with and marry women?At that point, you schedule intimacy. It’s not the most romantic thing in the world, but it’s necessary for a healthy relationship imo If we’re really letting outside forces get in the way of sexual intimacy, then it just tells me one or both of us doesn’t value sexual intimacy enough to make time for it If sexual intimacy decreases significantly, I am either getting a hallpass to fuck other people, or I am leaving my woman to find someone with a high sex drive. Plenty of women with high libido,… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/23 04:53 PM |
| 2 | Since most women lose sexual interest in their long term partners, what incentive do men have to settle down with and marry women?Disagree. Peoples libidos who “go away naturally” are actually just people who didn’t make a consistent effort to make sexual intimacy important. It takes effort on both sides to keep the spark alive I was in a relationship for 9 years and we still had that spark and fucked practically every single day, even when I ended it, we still had that spark. Couples who lose that spark just got lazy with each other imo | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/23 04:49 PM |
| 1 | Since most women lose sexual interest in their long term partners, what incentive do men have to settle down with and marry women?Eh that’s a really big dip. 7 days a week to 5 days a week is maybe more realistic. But 7 days a week to 2-3 days a week is a red flag to me. If your libido dropped, what gives? Usually cheating or loss of attraction to some degree | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/23 04:45 PM |
| 1 | Since most women lose sexual interest in their long term partners, what incentive do men have to settle down with and marry women?A lower frequency than in the beginning is expected though. Not for me. If my woman’s libido suddenly dips, barring child birth, I’m out Not sticking around in a relationship without consistent sexual intimacy. Life is too short | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/23 04:39 PM |
| 4 | Since most women lose sexual interest in their long term partners, what incentive do men have to settle down with and marry women?Eh. Disagree. I think that’s a pretty reasonable expectation. All of my partners have had high sex drives and if that went away, I would just find someone else. Life is too short to not fuck each others brains out. If a woman doesn’t see the value in consistent sexual intimacy, it’s her loss. But I’m not about to stick around | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/23 04:36 PM |
| 5 | Since most women lose sexual interest in their long term partners, what incentive do men have to settle down with and marry women?If a man didn’t want to have sex with his wife because she got overweight he would be called an asshole That’s why you start saying it the PC way that women use “I just got the ick” They can’t argue with that | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/23 08:27 AM |
| 16 | Since most women lose sexual interest in their long term partners, what incentive do men have to settle down with and marry women?maybe I should do drugs Yes. Definitely do some drugs I recommend mushrooms | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/23 08:25 AM |
| 14 | Since most women lose sexual interest in their long term partners, what incentive do men have to settle down with and marry women?according to some members of this sub I think it’s pretty balanced with woman haters and man haters alike I think when both men or women lose interest in sex with their partner, it’s usually because there is some need not being met, and the romantic intimacy has burned out. The honeymoon phase really doesn’t have to end. If both parties actively work to keep the spark alive, it can last a long time. I just ended a relationship of 9 years and we still had that spark, even after parting ways. Both… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/23 08:21 AM |
| 1 | Since most women lose sexual interest in their long term partners, what incentive do men have to settle down with and marry women?Having a family, a partner, a person to live your life with, a companion, a lover…if you want only the latter part, you clearly shouldn’t get married. I love all those things. But if sexual intimacy wasn’t also present, I would end the relationship. It’s a healthy thing for most couples to make time for sexual intimacy | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/23 07:53 AM |
| 21 | Since most women lose sexual interest in their long term partners, what incentive do men have to settle down with and marry women?Happens at a pretty balanced rate between women and men | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/23 07:50 AM |
| 6 | Since most women lose sexual interest in their long term partners, what incentive do men have to settle down with and marry women?It’s possible to want to be with your same partner the rest of your life, but pretty much every long relationship reaches a point where one or both parties feel like fucking other people, but are usually too afraid to bring it up with one another Variety is the spice of life | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/23 07:49 AM |
| 7 | Since most women lose sexual interest in their long term partners, what incentive do men have to settle down with and marry women?Testosterone is the primary horomone for libido An average man has 1500% more testosterone than an average woman It’s scientifically proven that men are generally much hornier than even the horniest of women | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/23 07:47 AM |
| 3 | Since most women lose sexual interest in their long term partners, what incentive do men have to settle down with and marry women?I love all those things, but not at the cost of sexual intimacy | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/23 07:37 AM |
| 1 | Since most women lose sexual interest in their long term partners, what incentive do men have to settle down with and marry women?Let me phrase it this way… Since women overwhelmingly value romance over sex, and even to enjoy sex, and knowing that most men no longer stop romance their woman with courtship and making her feel special, what incentive does a woman have to stay committed to you? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/23 07:19 AM |
| 1 | Men should stop trying to rationalize and justify their body count preferences.What is PPD? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/03/23 01:49 AM |
| – | The reason the manosphere is mad about AF/BB is because, while, even though the majority of women may not fit the archetype, it is a really smart stratergyI agree. I don’t think swinging is necessary. But all the things you mentioned, will typically benefit the woman more than the man. It will stimulate competition anxiety regardless, which can be healthy, but isn’t always healthy I prefer swinging myself. It kept us both in shape and our love and communication was through the roof when we were able to set aside our jealousies | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/03/23 01:46 AM |
| 3 | Men should stop trying to rationalize and justify their body count preferences.Right up there with toxic femininity | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/03/23 12:42 AM |
| 0 | Men should stop trying to rationalize and justify their body count preferences.I mean I agree with your points. But to play devils advocate How do you think it would feel as a woman in 2023 who is educated and independent, earns her own money etc to have to listen to guys saying that if she has X number of previous sexual partners she is “worth” less How do you think men who are educated and independent, earns their own money etc to have to listen to girls saying that if he is less than 6ft, make less than 6 figures etc, are worth less? The double standards happen on both … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/03/23 12:38 AM |
| 1 | Men should stop trying to rationalize and justify their body count preferences.Yeah I agree. I don’t really care that some of these redpillers want virgins. The only person they’re hurting is themselves as that is completely unreasonable if you don’t have the same standards for yourself Ultimately, people will do their best to find someone who aligns with their values as much as possible. But almost nobody will get every single box checked and that’s okay. We all gotta be willing to distinguish the difference between preferences, and non-negotiables Good for you and your p… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/03/23 12:22 AM |
| 1 | Men should stop trying to rationalize and justify their body count preferences.I agree to some extent. I don’t care about body count so long as it’s not outrageously high Not because I’m insecure, but because I think it shows a misalignment of values I could easily rack up 100 lays but I choose not to, because sex isn’t something I value… good sex is So if a woman has 100 ONS, I don’t think we’re compatible because I’ve only had a very small amount of ONS and quickly found that they weren’t for me. I’d rather a woman with 20 steady partners or FWB’s than 20 ONS or worse, 1… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/03/23 11:50 PM |
| 1 | Men should stop trying to rationalize and justify their body count preferences.I think men expecting a virgin need a serious reality check That said, I think it’s perfectly acceptable to have preferences or even standards I don’t want a virgin and I really don’t care if a woman’s been with 20 dudes. However, I don’t want a woman who’s been with upwards of 50 dudes either, because even though I could easily rack up those numbers… casual ONS aren’t something I value. I want a woman who values the same things as me and having multiple partners isn’t going to make you better a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/03/23 11:46 PM |
| 2 | Men should stop trying to rationalize and justify their body count preferences.Totally off topic but I was curious if but vulva meant large labia majora, or large labia minora A quick google image search yielded results for large labia minora Which one is your username indicative of? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/03/23 11:41 PM |
| 7 | Men should stop trying to rationalize and justify their body count preferences.This is very rational I don’t really care too much about body count as long as it isn’t insanely high. Over 35 would raise an eyebrow for sure. But I think it’s reasonable to assume women are exploring their sexuality just as much, if not more, than most men It’s so strange that these dudes wanting a virgin also try and sleep with every woman on the first date They rationalize it by saying they’re “testing to see if she’s a whore or not” which is just dumb Yeah, I don’t want a woman who’s been w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/03/23 11:35 PM |
| 2 | Men should stop trying to rationalize and justify their body count preferences.That’s why I said for most women Unfortunately, it’s the reality. Women don’t choose their sexual market value, men do. Just as women choose mens sexual market value Typically that age range for men is a woman in her 20’s If a hot 25f can get with a rich 32m This is my point. That is a wise woman. 25 is a ripe age to marry because from my experience, most women start to thicken out from all the partying around 27, and by the time they hit 35, I’m almost never interested. Sure, they will still ge… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/03/23 10:54 PM |
| – | The reason the manosphere is mad about AF/BB is because, while, even though the majority of women may not fit the archetype, it is a really smart stratergyI agree with most of your takes but one thing I would point out is that while I don’t really care if a woman has fun during her 20’s… I do think she’s limiting her options by not securing a mate but only because as she ages, she’s going to realize that her value has decreased and likely have to settle for a man that’s less than what she could’ve gotten if she would’ve secured a man in her 20’s No judgement. Just my own analysis. I do think more often than not, playing the field too long is harmf… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/03/23 10:49 PM |
| – | The reason the manosphere is mad about AF/BB is because, while, even though the majority of women may not fit the archetype, it is a really smart stratergyYup. Scarcity creates value That’s why I think it’s important that even In marriage, you make time for yourself and your own ambitions. As long as you’re courting your woman and showing her she’s special without making her the focus of your life, I believe you can keep her emotions engaged and the fire alive within her It also doesn’t hurt to be r/swingers because it stimulates competition anxiety for both men and women to stay at the top of their game for one another, yet they still both get th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/03/23 10:40 PM |
| 5 | Men should stop trying to rationalize and justify their body count preferences.I see that point. I think usually the women who shame older men going after reasonable younger women, is because they realize their time is spent up and they have little value in the sexual market place They are upset that these other women seized the opportunity to find a stable relationship in their 20’s, because they spent it ho’ing around lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/03/23 10:35 PM |
| 5 | Men should stop trying to rationalize and justify their body count preferences.It’s not just that men are attracted to youth, it’s also that young women are usually attracted to older men So most men spend their 20’s chasing women their age, who are chasing men in their 30’s & sometimes 40’s So naturally when you get to 30 as a man and suddenly 30 year old women who have wasted their time partying and rejecting you in your 20’s are now available to you… you tend to not want the baggage associated with All her time partying. So going for a younger girl around 25ish seems li… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/03/23 10:25 PM |
| -3 | Men should stop trying to rationalize and justify their body count preferences.See I don’t think that’s high at all. 20-30 is probably about my preference for body count. Unless you’re younger than 20, than it’s much lower. More than 50 definitely raises an eyebrow though | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/03/23 10:23 PM |
| 3 | Men should stop trying to rationalize and justify their body count preferences.Well, in ancient times we had polygamy. Many women would prefer to be with the dominant “alpha males” than be stuck with some dude who had nothing to show for his life So either women are going to have to be okay with polygamy, or they are going to get old and not be able to compete in the sexual market place anyways, and either die alone, or settle for a guy who is probably less attractive than she could’ve obtained when she were younger, If she simply lowered her standards a bit For the most p… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/03/23 10:21 PM |
| 4 | Men should stop trying to rationalize and justify their body count preferences.All woman should shoot for that. No offense, I’m happy for you, but this is just horrible advice. I own my own business and meet the 666 requirements women tend to have these days But If all women shoot for that, you’re going to see a large amount of lonely dog ladies with nothing to show in life but their fur babies Like it or not, a woman’s ability to relatively compete in the sexual market ends around 35 years old for most women So if you have all these women going after a few small fraction … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/03/23 10:17 PM |
| 7 | Men should stop trying to rationalize and justify their body count preferences.Whats a high body count | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/03/23 10:11 PM |
| 1 | Men should stop trying to rationalize and justify their body count preferences.Ew tbh I wouldn’t even date a woman with a body count of 50+, let alone 50 a year that’s nasty as fuck Not because I’m slut shaming or really care. But because of my own values. I could certainly have sex with 50 people a year but I refrain from engaging in sex with women I don’t have a genuine connection with I expect my future partner to have the same self control | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/03/23 10:09 PM |
| 7 | Men should stop trying to rationalize and justify their body count preferences.For some… some men get a bad deck of cards dealt to them and there is almost no way they can ever get filthy rich. If you’re born in extreme poverty and not exposed to the right people in life, you could be in for a life of misery | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/03/23 10:04 PM |
| 0 | Men should stop trying to rationalize and justify their body count preferences.I personally don’t care bout sexual purity, as long as your body count isn’t past some crazy number like 50 However, I also don’t want to marry a woman who has a set money preference. I make great money but if I sense that is all she’s about, I leave her | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/03/23 10:00 PM |
| 0 | Obesity has absolutely nuked the chance to go on a date with even regular womenActually I’m not passionate about fitness really. Would I love to sit around and eat junk food and still look good? Absolutely. But it really comes down to the fact that as we age, someone who doesn’t take care of themselves is going to develop health complications much sooner than I, which means they’ll also probably die sooner than me If I choose a mate, I’m choosing them for life (barring some psycho shit). I’m committed to working through disagreements and fights because I’m in it for the lo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/03/23 11:57 PM |
| -2 | Obesity has absolutely nuked the chance to go on a date with even regular womenI guess I just can’t see it that way. If we connect on every level except politics, it would be a deal breaker If we connect on every level except sexual compatibility, it would be a deal breaker If we connect on every level except fitness, it’s a deal breaker It’s one thing if you’re just a casual gym goer and not on my exact fitness level. Maybe 15lbs overweight max But it’s a whole nother thing if you’re just plain fat If you can’t manage something as simple as what you put into your body, yo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/03/23 11:47 PM |
| -1 | Obesity has absolutely nuked the chance to go on a date with even regular womenWhy would anyone want a project girl though? If I’m working on myself, I’m going to expect my future partner to have worked on themselves too | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/03/23 10:36 PM |
| 1 | Obesity has absolutely nuked the chance to go on a date with even regular womenWhats zyzz pilled? Haha | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/03/23 09:11 PM |
| 2 | Who should men be listening to? For advice, direction, understanding.Wait you gotta pay a girl $3k a month tho? That’s a decent amount of money, even if you can afford it. I can’t imagine any girl being worth $3k a month. Do you feel you’re getting the value? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/03/23 07:40 PM |
| 3 | Who should men be listening to? For advice, direction, understanding.Am early 30’s as well. I think it’s a combination of dating apps and social media I’ve since stopped following insta models who offer nothing but their body, simply because I think it’s negatively inflating a woman’s sense of self worth, and therefore ruining the dating market for both men and women I think modern women think they’re more attractive than they actually are because they are getting so much validation from men who can’t seem to get laid, due to lack of masculine purpose I wouldn’t … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/23 10:51 PM |
| 1 | Who should men be listening to? For advice, direction, understanding.How old is old roughly? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/23 06:25 PM |
| 1 | Who should men be listening to? For advice, direction, understanding.Fake it till you make it. Even if you never make it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/23 06:18 PM |
| 7 | Who should men be listening to? For advice, direction, understanding.That, AND, women in this modern feminist dating climate are not the same as a traditional woman was 30 years ago | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/23 06:08 PM |
| 1 | depressed about aging, wasted my "prime"My bad. Wasn’t trying to offer advice. Just replying to the comment | /r/RedPillWomen | 01/03/23 03:35 AM |
| 6 | Tell me this is stupidhung up on the idea of having an alpha male I don’t really offer much The two are very rarely mutually exclusive. If you’re shooting for way outside your reach, a man with that much value won’t want a woman with nothing to offer in return. That’s a parasitic relationship Also, alpha male because I’m afraid of divorce Alpha males get divorced. Marrying an alpha male isn’t going to make him object to divorce if he’s not getting what he wants from the relationship. If anything, it would make him mo… | /r/RedPillWomen | 01/03/23 02:41 AM |
| 1 | “Game only works if you’re attractive” - a message to all the incels infiltrating this subYeah but that’s not based on how you look… it’s based on each specific woman’s attraction preferences You may be the hunchback of notre dame to one chick but the next chick things you’re Brad Pitt Men are the same way. Whats my 10/10 is someone else’s cruella deville Plus, the point of this subreddit isn’t to make someone magically familiar in love… it’s to have your game tight so when you DO get lucky that that 8/10, you don’t fumble | /r/seduction | 10/10/22 07:29 AM |
| 2 | “Game only works if you’re attractive” - a message to all the incels infiltrating this subI do realize that. I’m not referring to someone who is a bad socializer I’m referring to the myriads of dudes recently hearing about this subreddit, approaching 1 or 2 girls who rejected them and then come here and complain about how game doesn’t work if you’re not a male model. That’s not what this sun is for. You can certainly share a frustrating experience you’re having and ask for advice. But if you’re just going to post/comment things like “ugly dudes can’t get laid” what are you even doing… | /r/seduction | 10/10/22 03:39 AM |
| 2 | Most of you are too mentally ill to helpThat’s the definition of an incel bro No one’s disagreeing that the cares are stacked against you as a man when it comes to dating. But this is not the sub to complain in This sub is for men who are empowered to step up and take control of their dating situation, not for boys who want an echo chamber about how bad they have it | /r/seduction | 09/10/22 05:20 AM |
| 3 | Most of you are too mentally ill to helpPeople on this sub complaining about women and how game doesn’t work and saying dumb shit like “game doesn’t work for you unless you’re good looking” That’s what we mean We’re siickkk of it There’s other places to complain about dating. This is not the sub for that | /r/seduction | 09/10/22 01:31 AM |
| 1 | Got a number from a hot girl from gymr/ChadsRiseUp r/snapchad | /r/seduction | 01/10/22 12:00 AM |
| 3 | Does pursuing/double texting always kill the game?“Dear diary.. Cute boy went missing Do I send search party?” Send him something cute like that | /r/seduction | 29/09/22 07:37 PM |
| 5 | Things I've learned about hooking up as an Indian guy in the US.I agree but I also think ‘race’ specifically is the only reason for not dating someone. I’ve heard many women say they don’t want to date other “races” because the culture is so different and they would prefer to settle down with someone from a more similar culture as theirs. I don’t think that inherently makes anyone racist to desire a partner with a similar cultural background | /r/seduction | 13/09/22 01:59 AM |
| 2 | "Hey you have beautiful eyes" to my first phone number.Yup Having the intention of getting rejected will take the pressure off yourself and give you permission to mess up and make an ass of yourself. This allows you to come off more confident and get comfortable talking to women Eventually… you’ll stumble into a woman who is receptive and you too be pleasantly surprised at how friendly and engaging she is to your approach You’ll probably fumble the bag on your first few positive interactions but after enough of these… you’ll start to get the hang of… | /r/seduction | 08/09/22 08:37 PM |
| 11 | "Hey you have beautiful eyes" to my first phone number.Naw. That’s incel-thinking my dude 4 rejections is not enough to adequately determine if you’re ugly or not. Go do 100 approaches with the intention of getting rejected This will tremendously improve your confidence Most people are not truly ugly. You’d be surprised what a good haircut, nice fitting clothes and toned body will do for almost anyone Can easily bring people up 1-3 points | /r/seduction | 08/09/22 06:31 PM |
| 12 | "Hey you have beautiful eyes" to my first phone number.Second this! Although, I don’t even analyze them I just binge watch a bunch of comedy and it seems to have a positive effect.. keeps me quick witted pulling out jokes left & right. I just get subconsciously inspired to be funnier when I binge a buncha comedy | /r/seduction | 08/09/22 06:29 PM |
| 2 | Advice on age gapI choose to be a mentor to girls that young. Hey me too send them my way and I’ll mentor them on how to properly have sex 😂 | /r/seduction | 08/09/22 02:36 AM |
| 3 | Advice on age gapFr young girls are way harder to sleep with ime because they think they are gods gift. Then around 26-27, they gain some weight or notice a wrinkle in the mirror and realize they’re maybe not the hot shit they once were They then usually get serious about finding a partner for a little bit before eventually realizing that trying to force it isn’t going to make it happen faster so they may as well hang out, hook up, and have a li’l fun with some guys | /r/seduction | 08/09/22 02:20 AM |
| 3 | Advice on age gapWe call that r/WhiteKnighting lol | /r/seduction | 08/09/22 01:56 AM |
| 2 | Advice on age gapHe’s talking about emotional maturity. He’s saying you don’t want to be in a LTR with an emotionally immature woman with no life experience, but that doesn’t mean you can’t show them a good time | /r/seduction | 08/09/22 01:01 AM |
| 1 | Learning from my failure(s)So did you smash? | /r/seduction | 05/09/22 10:26 PM |
| 1 | Note to self. Stop over analysing social situations and just have fun.You have to create the moment. Always go for the kiss on the first date. You’re competing against other men so you need to leave an impression One easy way to ‘create the moment’ is by saying “I think you need to get it over with & kiss me already” | /r/seduction | 03/09/22 08:17 PM |
| 2 | TIFU by posting a gig I have at a local bar on my social media. Help?Thanks homie | /r/seduction | 31/08/22 07:44 PM |
| 1 | TIFU by posting a gig I have at a local bar on my social media. Help?With all 3 of them? | /r/seduction | 31/08/22 06:21 PM |
| 1 | TIFU by posting a gig I have at a local bar on my social media. Help?Lol no | /r/seduction | 31/08/22 06:07 PM |
| 5 | I'm not used to this level of interest from hotter girlsI agree and I think by looks… they mean ‘presentation’ which also goes into how you smell and take care of yourself | /r/seduction | 31/08/22 04:08 PM |
| 2 | Doctors, lawyers, professors, engineers, businessmen, what is your dating life like?Oh don’t get me wrong, I do They fall in love and I just keep them as FWB’s and tell them I’m happy to treat them like gold every time we hang out… but that I’m not mentally stable enough for a relationship atm (only half true) Usually gets them to simmer down and agree to FWB’s but there was this one chick who I just felt really bad for because she was head over heels and I just had to cut it off for my own sanity | /r/seduction | 30/08/22 09:37 PM |
| -1 | Doctors, lawyers, professors, engineers, businessmen, what is your dating life like?so get off this sub already! That’s why he cums here. He’s a dom but his gf isn’t a reliable sub so he has to cum to this sub to get off | /r/seduction | 30/08/22 08:28 PM |
| 5 | Doctors, lawyers, professors, engineers, businessmen, what is your dating life like?Haha that’s my problem. I own a small business. It’s not wildly successful or anything but when women ask me what I do for a living and I say I own a business, there ears perk up I’ve found that as long as I can get a chick on a date, she’ll usually fall in love with me pretty quick especially after sex That’s the problem tho… I’m not looking for a relationship 🥴 | /r/seduction | 30/08/22 08:26 PM |
| 2 | Doctors, lawyers, professors, engineers, businessmen, what is your dating life like?How old r u | /r/seduction | 30/08/22 08:21 PM |
| 2 | I slept with 56 girls in a year and this is what I learnt...Just make it clear from the very start that you’re not a very big texter | /r/seduction | 29/08/22 08:15 PM |
| 1 | I slept with 56 girls in a year and this is what I learnt...I’m currently somewhere in the middle I got out of a 7 yr relationship and now I have a couple revolving FWB’s at any given moment Ngl I’m enjoying it quite a bit rn because it doesn’t feel like my ‘hoe phase’ but more like I get to connect intimately & deeply with multiple women and it’s beyond jut sex… like we go to vulnerable places in our emotions too. None of them are quite relationship material tbh which I why they’re just FWB’s but when I do meet the lucky lady.. we def won’t be fully mon… | /r/seduction | 29/08/22 08:14 PM |
| 1 | What do I say when women ask me, “how many girls have you slept with”?What kind of fucker specifically? | /r/seduction | 28/08/22 10:20 PM |
| 0 | why doesn't game translate well within america?Just buy a belt and write ‘gucci’ on it and you’ll be gucci | /r/seduction | 22/08/22 08:46 AM |
| 1 | If women don’t have sex with random people, need an emotional connection…how are these dating coaches sleeping with 100’s of women ?How can I become your enemy? | /r/seduction | 20/08/22 08:06 PM |
| 1 | If women don’t have sex with random people, need an emotional connection…how are these dating coaches sleeping with 100’s of women ?I’m willing to bet, no | /r/seduction | 20/08/22 08:05 PM |
| 6 | Lost my virginity last night, here's some takeaways / after-thoughtsYup Magnesium & Zinc are very important for erection health Each time you ejaculate, you release very high amounts of concentrated magnesium & zinc So by supplementing with these minerals, you can get rock hard erections by replenishing these nutrients in your body Also… by not watching porn | /r/seduction | 18/08/22 11:10 PM |
| 1 | Lost my virginity last night, here's some takeaways / after-thoughtsI did tell her about my past ED problems Have you tried the standard magnesium zinc & nitric oxide every day for a month? Premium Magnesium Citrate... Source Naturals OptiZinc Zinc... Extra Strength Nitric Oxide... Start small with the dose as your body will start to build a tolerance Take the smallest dose and gradually increase It’s easy to over do it and get magnesium poisoning which is harmless but will give you the runs and you might shit your pants. So be mindful Also… inevitably your tole… | /r/seduction | 18/08/22 10:58 PM |
| 4 | Lost my virginity last night, here's some takeaways / after-thoughtsThe vagina is extremely wet but does not have a great grip Oh believe me, some girls are just tighter than others. Girls with gorilla grips are usually less attractive in my personal experience. It’s ideal to find a woman who’s rly cute and not necessarily gorilla grip, but not super loose either Sex should def feel much better than jacking off Try to Jack off less and when you do… ease up on that grip bro | /r/seduction | 18/08/22 10:56 PM |
| 1 | Lost my virginity last night, here's some takeaways / after-thoughtsAlina | /r/seduction | 18/08/22 10:52 PM |
| 8 | Lost my virginity last night, here's some takeaways / after-thoughtsGood thing im from the US! lol | /r/seduction | 18/08/22 10:52 PM |
| 13 | Lost my virginity last night, here's some takeaways / after-thoughtsReally? I had always heard European women are a lot less of prudes when it comes to sex My uncle backpacked all through Europe and said he never got laid more times in his life than traveling through Europe | /r/seduction | 18/08/22 10:50 PM |
| 5 | What’s the most effective way to shift the power dynamic from you chasing them to them chasing you?Fax bro My new motto for dating is: “if she doesn’t make it easy, I don’t want it” It’s genuinely made me happier I also recommend ‘Cultivating Male Sexual Energy’ by Mantak Chia Will help you know what to do with your excess sexual energy so you don’t even care as much about women | /r/seduction | 17/08/22 08:57 AM |
| 13 | What’s the most effective way to shift the power dynamic from you chasing them to them chasing you?The best way to get them to chase (that’s worked for me) is to play it cool and back away sometimes. I don’t bother responding to messages until I’m ready. I don’t hover over her at the party or bar I met her at. I get to know her, establish some flirty banter, and then back away for a minute after I’ve got her interested piqued. In her head she’s thinkin, “wow this guy totally likes me I thought.. why did he back away? I’m not used to this” Then they want to validate themselves so usually they’… | /r/seduction | 17/08/22 06:02 AM |
| 30 | Girl flakes but asks to meet the next dayYup don’t bother if she doesn’t offer a rain check You should live that way with EVERYONE man or woman If someone cancels… it’s on them to reschedule. If they don’t.. take that as a cue that you’re just not that important to them and move on Hitting them up again wreaks of desperation and neediness and women will not find it attractive. Use it as motivation to find a new dating prospect Ideally, you add your dating prospects on social media so they can see what you’re up to and swipe up on your … | /r/seduction | 17/08/22 02:23 AM |
| 2 | Looks Max Guide 2022Uhmmm that’s actually not true my friend Being in shape can mean anything from low body fat, to having good cardiovascular endurance, to having muscular strength Being skinny or even having a 6 pack, does not mean you’re in shape through. | /r/seduction | 13/08/22 10:44 PM |
| 2 | you're not a nice guy.She also can’t friend zone you if you simply never agree to be in the friendzone in the first place. When a woman brings this up, just say: “Look I’m way too attracted to you to just be your friend but no hard feelings. Lmk if you change your mind” And end the convo About 50% of the time, they hmu later asking if we can go on a date The other 50%? Who cares | /r/seduction | 12/08/22 05:24 AM |
| -2 | you're not a nice guy.he has the hottest girlfriend out of the whole friend group dope. she single? | /r/seduction | 12/08/22 05:22 AM |
| 1 | you're not a nice guy.used to? | /r/seduction | 12/08/22 05:20 AM |
| 3 | Is it harder to find a fwb in your 30?The way to get a FWB from these women is to continue to date & fuck them casually until they bring it up When they do.. just say: “hey I really enjoy our time together and I will treat you like a queen everytime we hang out but I’m just not looking for a relationship right now” Then let them proceed. If they feel you’ll genuinely be chill with them and treat them with respect they will most likely be down to keep it casual. If they say they’re not interested in that, just say: “Well that’s a bum… | /r/seduction | 10/08/22 08:08 AM |
| 4 | Is it harder to find a fwb in your 30?find a wingman with this link They have telegram and Facebook groups to find wingmen who are actively gaming in your city | /r/seduction | 10/08/22 07:28 AM |
| 5 | Is it harder to find a fwb in your 30?My man’s in healthcare.. I’m sure he’s regularly tested | /r/seduction | 10/08/22 07:26 AM |
| 7 | Nothing else mattersTo add to this… Stop giving a fuck about a gf bro Women are a luxury item but they are not a necessity. They require a lot of work and no Hugh quality woman is going to want a man who has no passions or aspirations for life and is so needy he puts all of his emphasis & happiness on whether or not he has a gf. Ime, love usually finds you when you least expect it. So stop caring so much about women and start caring about yourself and your life. Find a passion you absolutely used to love and get re… | /r/seduction | 10/08/22 04:52 AM |
| 4 | First time reading The Way of the Superior Man...Huh? Wym? | /r/seduction | 10/08/22 04:06 AM |
| 12 | How should a woman make herself available for a guy to make a move?This should be mandatory reading material for every woman over the age of 18 | /r/seduction | 10/08/22 03:56 AM |
| 0 | How should a woman make herself available for a guy to make a move?Yup. Ask him if he wants to go on a walk or somethin alone If he doesn’t get the hint, he doesn’t deserve you lol | /r/seduction | 10/08/22 03:55 AM |
| 6 | First time reading The Way of the Superior Man...Being a superior man Go read it | /r/seduction | 10/08/22 03:52 AM |
| 4 | A few things I've learned online dating as a man. I really wish I could have told myself this a year ago:One technique is to start some interesting convo and engage & respond very quickly and after some good banter.. disappear for 2 days Then you come back and message her in 2 days saying “sorry I’m not ever on here we should text” Get her number, banter a li’l more and then nail down a date. | /r/seduction | 08/08/22 05:55 AM |
| 1 | Never be friendzoned againI guess maybe I’m shadow banned? Idk why tho | /r/seduction | 06/08/22 11:10 AM |
| 4 | Never be friendzoned againExactly. You agree to be friends and then the next time you hang out, tell her to wing for you. If she wants to be friends, you treat her like one of the bros. That means sharing your sexploits and dating woes with her, and telling her what girls you find attractive and want to bang and telling her to make the introduction. If she wants to be a friend, she gets treated like one of the boyz That’s what friendship is for a male and she’s the one who asked for it so give her exactly what she wants … | /r/seduction | 06/08/22 10:11 AM |
| 2 | Never be friendzoned againValid absolutely. That’s why you tell her you only wanna be friends if she’ll wing you. If she doesn’t ever do it… just stop Hangin with her altogether but there’s definitely a chance to redeem yourself | /r/seduction | 06/08/22 10:06 AM |
| 4 | Never be friendzoned againYour friendship honestly sounds as one sided as Forrest Gump when he plays ping pong You’re missing the point. The point is that there is no friendship and never was. You’re stopping it from ever happening in it’s tracks | /r/seduction | 06/08/22 09:19 AM |
| 9 | Never be friendzoned againHaha not sure why you’re so offended or where you got that anyones treating a woman like a walking sex toy. This post is about having self respect and walking away from something that isn’t going to serve you to stay with, rather than sitting in the friend zone infatuated & objectifying a woman you’ll never get with If anything… this is solution is better for women than the above alternative. This doesn’t mean you’re not treating them like they’re people | /r/seduction | 06/08/22 08:23 AM |
| 0 | Never be friendzoned againHaha not at all | /r/seduction | 06/08/22 07:03 AM |
| 6 | Never be friendzoned againYes just fuck her and never bring up a relationship When she brings up a relationship… just say “Hey I really enjoy the time we spend together and I’ll treat you like gold everytime we hang out, but I’m not looking for an exclusive relationship right now.” If she says she can’t keep seeing you, just say: “I completely understand. Well if you gotta step back that’s totally fine. Let me know if you change your mind” Continue to act indifferent to it all | /r/seduction | 06/08/22 07:03 AM |
| 0 | Never be friendzoned againI see you’re also a r/coreywayne fan | /r/seduction | 06/08/22 07:01 AM |
| 2 | Never be friendzoned again15 actually. But I never said to decline her friendship. I said that unless she’s winging you with other girls… disengage | /r/seduction | 06/08/22 07:00 AM |
| 3 | Never be friendzoned againSimple. Just be a narcissist jerk. Lol | /r/seduction | 06/08/22 06:58 AM |
| 6 | Never be friendzoned againAll fair points. I get what you’re saying. I still feel like I would have appreciated this advice when I was a newbie | /r/seduction | 06/08/22 04:17 AM |
| 2 | What's your unpopular opinion about women? Something you truly believe based on lived experience, but would get down voted to all hell on Reddit?Hahaha. Thank you for that stranger I actually just got on topical dut and haven’t had any sides so far so I’m banking on that but I’ll peep ur post regardless Edit: I scoped your post. My sides were not so much sexual as they were energy related. I had sever brain Fog, anxiety, and a lack of motivation to even get out of bed. I couldn’t barely get the energy to even get out of bed or even text people back. I thought it was all in my head maybe but since stopping and restarting twice… i noticed … | /r/seduction | 06/08/22 03:01 AM |
| 2 | Never be friendzoned againDid you miss the part of my post where I mentioned to truly move on from them? And if they come back, they come back and it’s a pleasant surprise. If they don’t, then youve already moved on so it doesn’t matter | /r/seduction | 06/08/22 03:00 AM |
| 6 | Never be friendzoned againYes.. experienced people know this. This is a PSA for all the newbies to game. I keep seeing people posting about being in the friendzone so I thought I’d put this out there | /r/seduction | 06/08/22 02:44 AM |
| 2 | Never be friendzoned againDid what exactly? | /r/seduction | 06/08/22 02:32 AM |
| 40 | Never be friendzoned againYes I stated this in my post Only reason to be her friend is if she’s going to wing for you If not… you’re just setting yourself up for misery | /r/seduction | 06/08/22 02:09 AM |
| 1 | What's your unpopular opinion about women? Something you truly believe based on lived experience, but would get down voted to all hell on Reddit?I’m failing to see the counterpoint | /r/seduction | 06/08/22 01:35 AM |
| 1 | What's your unpopular opinion about women? Something you truly believe based on lived experience, but would get down voted to all hell on Reddit?I simply asked for a counter point.. not a question | /r/seduction | 06/08/22 01:10 AM |
| 1 | What's your unpopular opinion about women? Something you truly believe based on lived experience, but would get down voted to all hell on Reddit?Idk what the OG commenter said as it’s deleted but I would add that when I’ve been cheated on.. I didn’t stop loving my ex gf. I broke up with them but I didn’t stop loving them | /r/seduction | 06/08/22 12:58 AM |
| 2 | What's your unpopular opinion about women? Something you truly believe based on lived experience, but would get down voted to all hell on Reddit?To add to this… you can’t be in the friendzone if you have some self respect and simply never agree to be in it in the first place. When she brings up the “let’s be friends” speech, all you gotta do is say: “look I’m way too attracted to you to just be your friend. No hard feelings though. Lmk if you change your mind” Then end the convo 50% of the time, she’ll be attracted to your indifference and hit you back up for another date. The other 50% just write off as a loss and move on | /r/seduction | 06/08/22 12:57 AM |
| 2 | What's your unpopular opinion about women? Something you truly believe based on lived experience, but would get down voted to all hell on Reddit?Remind me what that amendment is again? | /r/seduction | 06/08/22 12:53 AM |
| 2 | What's your unpopular opinion about women? Something you truly believe based on lived experience, but would get down voted to all hell on Reddit?Men will not stay with a woman who’s cheating. Bam that’s a condition right there Just because you won’t stay with someone, doesn’t mean you stopped loving them Having conditions for loving someone is not the same as having conditions for what you expect in a relationship | /r/seduction | 06/08/22 12:51 AM |
| 2 | What's your unpopular opinion about women? Something you truly believe based on lived experience, but would get down voted to all hell on Reddit?You’re both right imo but the difference is… women expect you to read their mind and know they’re unhappy and that their attraction is waning without being direct and vocalizing what they’re going through, so for men… it occurs as their feelings just turned off one day out of the blue | /r/seduction | 06/08/22 12:45 AM |
| 2 | What's your unpopular opinion about women? Something you truly believe based on lived experience, but would get down voted to all hell on Reddit?Not saying you’re wrong but do you have a counter point? | /r/seduction | 06/08/22 12:35 AM |
| 6 | What's your unpopular opinion about women? Something you truly believe based on lived experience, but would get down voted to all hell on Reddit?Hijacking to state my unpopular opinion: Women are incapable of unconditional love except for their children who they birthed. Women will walk away and lose love for men they’ve been in relationships with for years if their man isn’t doing all the things they deem necessary of him. If they have kids with the man, they may be willing to stick it out longer but if the woman is childless and the man stops courting her… you best believe she’ll dip in less than a year. If a man starts gaining extra w… | /r/seduction | 06/08/22 12:27 AM |
| 3 | Day 2 Of Cold Approach Journey: Confusion, Stupid Mistakes, Incremental Progress, and Changing My MindsetNice work! One thing to add is if you can’t see their face (and whether or not they’re attractive) APPROACH! This is a great practice because it takes the nerves off and stops you from talking yourself out of it if you find she’s attractive If you approach and she turns and you see she’s unattractive, you can always end the convo and chalk it up as a warmup set | /r/seduction | 03/08/22 06:49 AM |
| 4 | This community has helped me a lot with women. Thank you! Would love to share what I’ve learned!It’s never failed me irl yet but okay whatever you say | /r/seduction | 03/08/22 05:01 AM |
| 12 | This community has helped me a lot with women. Thank you! Would love to share what I’ve learned!My personal favorite I use is: “I’ve got a bottle of wine back at my place with our names on it” | /r/seduction | 02/08/22 07:20 PM |
| 1 | Honesty gets you a very long wayHmm. I have these 2 girls I been seeing recently and I don’t want a LTR from either of them but just want them as fuck buddies You’re sayin you recommend to wait and let them bring up “where is this going?” Convo and then address I’m not looking for something? | /r/seduction | 02/08/22 04:14 AM |
| 4 | Honesty gets you a very long wayDo you keep mysterious even if all you want is a fuck buddy? | /r/seduction | 02/08/22 04:06 AM |
| 2 | Do you make it clear from the beginning that you are looking for FWB’s… or do you wait for her to ask “where is this going?”I mean.. real advice | /r/seduction | 02/08/22 02:02 AM |
| 2 | Do you make it clear from the beginning that you are looking for FWB’s… or do you wait for her to ask “where is this going?”Not sure if you actually read my post or not but it quite clearly states that I build intimacy and connection with my FWB’s | /r/seduction | 01/08/22 10:20 PM |
| 4 | Do you make it clear from the beginning that you are looking for FWB’s… or do you wait for her to ask “where is this going?”Because sex | /r/seduction | 01/08/22 09:53 PM |
| 1 | I Never Get the Women I Truly Desire (Help)Just the industry. There were a few ama’s about the porn industry that talked all about it | /r/seduction | 01/08/22 09:33 AM |
| 4 | Do you make it clear from the beginning that you are looking for FWB’s… or do you wait for her to ask “where is this going?”Agree to disagree. It’s better than a ONS imo | /r/seduction | 01/08/22 09:13 AM |
| 8 | Do you make it clear from the beginning that you are looking for FWB’s… or do you wait for her to ask “where is this going?”How is it using them? They are using me just as much if that’s the case. I would consider a ONS to be using someone. I think FWB is much better because you have respect for one another | /r/seduction | 01/08/22 09:02 AM |
| 5 | Do you make it clear from the beginning that you are looking for FWB’s… or do you wait for her to ask “where is this going?”Why would I have feelings? I definitely care for them as people but I don’t see myself building a life with them long term I’m very clear with the women I’m seeing that I don’t want anything exclusive | /r/seduction | 01/08/22 08:52 AM |
| 1 | I Never Get the Women I Truly Desire (Help)Hmmm. My beard gains went away and haven’t returned since My dermatologist told me that all body hair eventually becomes dependent on minoxidil to retain its growth | /r/seduction | 01/08/22 08:50 AM |
| 3 | I Never Get the Women I Truly Desire (Help)I personally think it’s pretty natural to be at least a little bit shallow. Men & women usually judge very first impressions by physical appearance. Fat, skinny, tall, short, you name it. We automatically find a judgement because that’s what we’re biologically conditioned to do to find a successful mate to reproduce with I don’t think rating attraction level to a person is inherently wrong. It’s just a self assessment about whether or not this person is someone capable of carrying on our offspri… | /r/seduction | 01/08/22 08:28 AM |
| 1 | I Never Get the Women I Truly Desire (Help)‘Project girls’ are okay when starting out game but I’ve found that eventually, they get boring, because they still believe they are 7’s or less.. even if you’ve turned them into an 8 or 9 But it’s def not a bad start for OP | /r/seduction | 01/08/22 08:23 AM |
| 1 | I Never Get the Women I Truly Desire (Help)10’s definitely expect to be approached instead of doing the approaching They also are less likely to be straightforward and transparent about their interest in a man, even if they deem him as a 10. They still expect him to be the man and make the first move every step of the way unless he’s a celebrity or something and they have something by gain by making the first move | /r/seduction | 01/08/22 08:22 AM |
| 2 | I Never Get the Women I Truly Desire (Help)Would you smash if they were spread eagle in your bed? | /r/seduction | 01/08/22 08:18 AM |
| 4 | I Never Get the Women I Truly Desire (Help)I couldn’t get Madison beer but I could easily pull a girl as equally attractive as Madison beer She’s an 8 at best | /r/seduction | 01/08/22 08:18 AM |
| 1 | I Never Get the Women I Truly Desire (Help)Yeah no problems with his jaw. It’s more just about using the scurf to frame his face and refocus the attention I personally thought he looked best in that last pic with the scruff but it’s just a preference | /r/seduction | 01/08/22 08:16 AM |
| 3 | I Never Get the Women I Truly Desire (Help)Yes and more importantly, who are you BEING when you approach these girls? You get to BE the type of dude who gets hot girls, because you posture the type of energy that a dude who gets these types of girls already embodies Once you master being the attractive man to the point that you experience yourself as such… you being to enroll women into believing you are that man too | /r/seduction | 01/08/22 08:15 AM |
| 3 | I Never Get the Women I Truly Desire (Help)Yup I had 2 different women tell me (after we slept together) that I had given them the most genuine comment that no one’s ever said to them in their life For both of them, it was a compliment about me telling them they had a really unique and beautiful sense of expression Tbh, I didn’t even remember that I said that to them when they repeated it back to me, but that was because it was genuine and came from the heart, and was not a compliment about their looks, but instead, a compliment about ho… | /r/seduction | 01/08/22 08:11 AM |
| 2 | I Never Get the Women I Truly Desire (Help)3 is mostly a mindset Hardly anybody is a 3 by default. You have to try really hard to be a 3 By that I mean… almost every 3 is capable of going to the gym and getting in good shape, getting a nice fade from the barber and dressing in stylish form fitting clothes. Now… your max potential may very well be a 5 or 6 but choosing to represent yourself as a 3 is usually just a choice, not a fact of life You can choose to be the most attractive abundant version of yourself, and that will attract a hig… | /r/seduction | 01/08/22 08:01 AM |
| 1 | I Never Get the Women I Truly Desire (Help)I used to be into ‘project girls’ My last girlfriend was a 7 when we started dating and I brought out her feminine in a way like no other to the point that within 2 years, people were telling me she is a 9 or 10. I realized that was a limiting belief about myself and now I get to go after the women who are already 9’s & 10’s | /r/seduction | 01/08/22 07:52 AM |
| 1 | I Never Get the Women I Truly Desire (Help)Unfortunately… to get into porn you either have to get really lucky with connections… or do several gay porn stints to break into the industry Also… I remember watching a video of porn stars before and after makeup and contouring and a lot of them have such high end makeup, that they can look like a 10 on film, but if you saw em irl.. they might be a solid 7 | /r/seduction | 01/08/22 07:49 AM |
| 3 | I Never Get the Women I Truly Desire (Help)True. Without all the high end makeup and designer outfits, she wouldn’t particularly stand out to me at a club. Same with Addison Rae. I’d def be attracted if I saw them at a club but they wouldn’t particularly captivate me in a way that just knocked my socks off | /r/seduction | 01/08/22 07:48 AM |
| 10 | I Never Get the Women I Truly Desire (Help)brb buying a bridge | /r/seduction | 01/08/22 07:47 AM |
| 2 | I Never Get the Women I Truly Desire (Help)Just peeped your hinge You look best with a little scruff to frame your face, as compared to a bare face imo Just my feedback but not a suggestion to do anything different if what you got is working for you my dude! | /r/seduction | 01/08/22 07:45 AM |
| 6 | I Never Get the Women I Truly Desire (Help)use midox and grow it out I agree with most of this but if you’re referring to minoxidil… DO NOT USE IT CASUALLY I made that mistake. Not only does it cause skin hydration issues, but once you start using it long enough, your hair begins to develop a dependency on it and you can’t stop it without losing your gains and then having your hair be dependent on it forever I made that mistake because I didn’t research it enough beforehand :/ | /r/seduction | 01/08/22 07:37 AM |
| 12 | I Never Get the Women I Truly Desire (Help)I interpreted it as the journey is more fulfilling than the destination. You land a 10 and fuck her several times and eventually it becomes routine and you seek out something more. No matter how hot a chick is… there’s always someone, somewhere who’s tired of putting up with her bullshit | /r/seduction | 01/08/22 07:34 AM |
| 35 | I Never Get the Women I Truly Desire (Help)Yup! Got a chicks number while with my boy and she texted me something along the lines of: “Hey. Not to be rude but tbh, I’m actually interested in your friend who was with you as he is more my type” I took it with grace and told her I would be happy to set them up! In doing so.. she later wingmanned me with one of her friends that was into me and honestly more my type anyways Give what you came to get | /r/seduction | 01/08/22 07:30 AM |
| 1 | Girls intentionally leaving personal stuff at a guy's placeWhat happened with y’all? | /r/seduction | 29/07/22 08:18 AM |
| 13 | What made you realize you actually learned to seduce women?I think it’s a wise rule of thumb to not give out compliments if you’re new to this. Especially compliments based off physical beauty. Not to say it can’t be done with some class but most of the time, a compliment about something other than a woman’s physical beauty will go a lot further than just telling her she’s hot | /r/seduction | 28/07/22 04:12 PM |
| 20 | I recently started working 12 hour shifts due to my boss being on vacation. When girls tell you they have no time and too much to do, BULLSHIT. She is just not motivated to mee you.Yeah but she was a hooker :/ | /r/seduction | 27/07/22 12:34 AM |
| 4 | what to do if a guy hits on the girl you're with at a bar or clubShe not yours, its just your turn | /r/seduction | 26/07/22 08:17 AM |
| 1 | what to do if a guy hits on the girl you're with at a bar or clubIf a dude approaches, just introduce yourself to him and make friends with him. He will usually feel bad about it if he picks up on the vibe. If he doesn’t and she entertains him longer than a few minutes, I would personally just nudge her and say, “hey I’m gonna go grab a drink/go out to the patio for a smoke, etc if you wanna come with” and just leave. If she doesn’t follow, take your time and don’t be in a rush to come back. Give her time to come find you and ideally sit at a place where you … | /r/seduction | 26/07/22 08:16 AM |
| 1 | Advice on insecurity and confidencePerfect that’s a great start. Confidence is a good one. How else would you be being? | /r/seduction | 26/07/22 07:46 AM |
| 1 | Advice on insecurity and confidenceOkay that’s a great start but back to the point.. what ways of being would you be embodying if you had all of this? | /r/seduction | 26/07/22 07:41 AM |
| 1 | Advice on insecurity and confidenceOkay so if you had EXACTLY that. How would you be acting? Would you hold your head higher? Would your shoulders be back with your chest out? Would you feel confident? Would you feel courageous? Would you feel at peace? | /r/seduction | 26/07/22 07:30 AM |
| 1 | How to tell other women you've been dating you found someoneI mean I personally would prefer the honesty but I realize that’s not everyone | /r/seduction | 26/07/22 07:14 AM |
| 2 | Advice on insecurity and confidenceTry this too… If you had the EXACT dating life you wanted, what ways of being would you be embodying? So maybe your ideal dating life is a wife that’s perfect Maybe it’s several women revolving in & out your bed Who would you be being if that were happening? Write down the experience of how you’d feel and what ways of being you’d embody. Okay. So now, re-read that list everyday and commit to stepping into those ways of being throughout the day You will amaze yourself with the results if you stic… | /r/seduction | 26/07/22 07:13 AM |
| 1 | Std scareSounds like you should become a sex worker | /r/seduction | 26/07/22 06:31 AM |
| 1 | Std scareBig brain time | /r/seduction | 26/07/22 05:48 AM |
| 2 | Std scareHappy cuck day! | /r/seduction | 26/07/22 05:36 AM |
| 2 | Std scareBro most people don’t grow up thinking they want to be a sex worker when they grow up Hookers are usually doing what they do because for whatever reason, they fell on hard times and don’t have many other viable options that can pay for all their bills. It is absolutely work. You think they enjoy old fucking obese dudes with tiny little shrimp dicks?? Absolutely not. It’s some of the shittiest work out there | /r/seduction | 26/07/22 05:34 AM |
| 2 | Std scareThen use your r/seduction skills and find one that wants you to eat it willingly without money | /r/seduction | 26/07/22 05:32 AM |
| 10 | Std scareAlso… how does this have anything to do with r/Seduction | /r/seduction | 26/07/22 05:31 AM |
| 1 | To what degree do looks actually matter?This right here! I wasn’t very good looking but had a glow up after high school and now many people tell me I’m an 8/10 or 9/10 (though it’s hard for me to believe). I have no problem getting Insecure hot chicks with a lot of baggage but Ive been there done that and now I don’t even want to entertain the idea of one of these types of chick even if she’s a perfect 10 Women worth LTR’s do not tolerate being treated like shit | /r/seduction | 25/07/22 11:13 PM |
| 3 | To what degree do looks actually matter?Tinder is a different ballgame because it’s designed to go based off looks Approaching someone random allows you to bring your personality to the equation which can easily shoot a woman’s attraction level up for you I’ve hit it off with beautiful women that I never would have gotten with from tinder alone | /r/seduction | 25/07/22 11:04 PM |
| 2 | To what degree do looks actually matter?Exactly! I could be a 10 to one girl and a 5 to the next! Of course there are men who fit the idea of a 10 to many different types of women but the same applies to women too! There’s girls my friends will drool over thinking they’re 9’s or 10’s and get caught up simpin from time to time while in my head, these girls are not that attractive and I don’t see what the fuss is about. They also don’t always think my idea of a 10 is the same as theirs | /r/seduction | 25/07/22 11:01 PM |
| 7 | She texted “wanna cum join me for a naked yoga session later on today?”Wanna be friends OP? | /r/seduction | 25/07/22 10:16 PM |
| 17 | She texted “wanna cum join me for a naked yoga session later on today?”I’ve seen some fire ass grannies before | /r/seduction | 25/07/22 10:16 PM |
| 2 | Do not ditch OLD. It’s better than Cold approach.It means hitting up chicks over 30 lmao | /r/seduction | 22/07/22 12:09 AM |
| 4 | Do not ditch OLD. It’s better than Cold approach.Bro you need to work on yourself and find a social circle. Start taking dancing classes or something local that interests you. Join some FB groups or get involved at your local homeless shelter. You can easily make friends wherever you are but you have to master your inner self first. Become an attractive likeable person. And when I say attractive… I’m talking about your personality, it doesn’t matter how you look | /r/seduction | 22/07/22 12:08 AM |
| 1 | Do some guys really ask the girl if they can kiss her on a first date? And i also heard this girl who is a dating coach tell guys that one way they can be a good kisser is to ask her consent before you go for a kiss! How do you guys feel about that?I’m not suggesting you go a minute. I’m just pointing out that if it reaches a minute of you slowing down the convo and going back & forth between here eyes and lips, and she DOESNT look at your lips… she’s prob not ready to be kissed yet | /r/seduction | 22/07/22 12:02 AM |
| 1 | Do some guys really ask the girl if they can kiss her on a first date? And i also heard this girl who is a dating coach tell guys that one way they can be a good kisser is to ask her consent before you go for a kiss! How do you guys feel about that?Lol I said slowly back & forth and you should obviously still be engaging in conversation while you do this This will only come off creepy if you’re uncalibrated | /r/seduction | 21/07/22 09:11 PM |
| 21 | Do some guys really ask the girl if they can kiss her on a first date? And i also heard this girl who is a dating coach tell guys that one way they can be a good kisser is to ask her consent before you go for a kiss! How do you guys feel about that?One other easy way is to look into her eyes and make eye contact. Look down at her lips for a second, then back into her eyes, then back into her lips, then back into her eyes etc Do this slowly for about 15 seconds to a minute and if she looks at your lips at any point, it usually means she’s ready to be kissed and to just go for it Usually she’ll make it obvious like give you a cheeky smile or bite her lip when she notices you keep looking down at her lips | /r/seduction | 21/07/22 07:11 PM |
| 28 | Do some guys really ask the girl if they can kiss her on a first date? And i also heard this girl who is a dating coach tell guys that one way they can be a good kisser is to ask her consent before you go for a kiss! How do you guys feel about that?My way of asking is usually su’m like: “I think you need to get it over with and kiss me already” With a cheeky grin They almost always come to me and if not, they basically just give me the okay to come to them and initiate a kiss | /r/seduction | 21/07/22 07:09 PM |
| 1 | Do people really have amazing sex lives and adventurous stories from college? I feel like I'm missing out a lot!Because of the feedback I’ve gotten from people. I’m actually rounding down to 8 from 9 which is what I get a lot | /r/seduction | 21/07/22 06:23 PM |
| 8 | Do people really have amazing sex lives and adventurous stories from college? I feel like I'm missing out a lot!I’m a solid 8 and I don’t kill it on apps like I do irl For some reason I’m just not very photogenic and my pics never really do my face justice I get matched with a lot of women who are below my league, and if I do meet up with them, they immediately comment on how I’m way better looking in real life than in my pics It’s absurd | /r/seduction | 21/07/22 05:14 PM |
| 177 | Should I break up with my girlfriend?Court your woman my dude. I say this as a man who has been in your same exact shoes Women don’t usually just stop having sex with their man unless they go through a major hormonal change, or they catch a ‘mild ick’ due to no sexual polarity from their man You need to bring the passion back and really make the romance come alive again, or it will plague you in every relationship after this as well. Take her out somewhere fancy to eat. Let her get dolled up for you. When you go out… put ALL your a… | /r/seduction | 21/07/22 11:28 AM |
| -1 | Does anyone know guys who insult women after they reject them?Lol if you say so It’s not causing me any problems personally to be a white knight | /r/seduction | 21/07/22 07:59 AM |
| -1 | Does anyone know guys who insult women after they reject them?this guy is money | /r/seduction | 21/07/22 04:14 AM |
| 7 | Does anyone know guys who insult women after they reject them?Disagree man. Perhaps my OG message was not worded the right way but it’s not petty at all the way I go about it I simply let them know there’s no reason to be rude and walk away and move on with my life Besides… even if I come off as petty, I don’t really care at that point as I’ll never see them again But I don’t try and be petty. I say it with a big genuine smile on my face and I’ve had women even concede and apologize for being rude when I put it that way | /r/seduction | 21/07/22 03:55 AM |
| 2 | I'm a socially boring person...I’d also recommend you set an intention when you take shrooms. For example: “my intention is to heal deep traumatic wounds from childhood” OR “My intention is to see where I can be more effective at attracting women” Sit with the intention all day before your mushroom trip and mediate on that intention DURING the trip and you are sure to get some great results | /r/seduction | 21/07/22 03:47 AM |
| -1 | Does anyone know guys who insult women after they reject them?Lol how did I stoop down to that level? I simply used humor in one scenario, and told her exactly how I feel in the other scenario. Neither reaction was emotional | /r/seduction | 21/07/22 03:42 AM |
| 1 | I think i'm friendzoned, should I fucking go for it anyways?You: but we could be platonic friends with benefits.. 😏 | /r/seduction | 21/07/22 03:12 AM |
| 30 | I think i'm friendzoned, should I fucking go for it anyways?That said… don’t be afraid to shoot your shot if being ‘just friends’ is too overwhelming for you to handle forever. Just ask yourself now if it’s worth losing her friendship over If I were you though… I would just keep her as a friend and tell her to wingman for you hard Women are great wingmen If she’s already attracted to you secretly, this might force her hand If she’s not… she may start to get jealous after wingmanning you and decide she’s into you after all. Here’s the thing about the frie… | /r/seduction | 21/07/22 03:11 AM |
| 7 | Does anyone know guys who insult women after they reject them?I don’t insult but I have no problem treating women how they treat me lol For example.. Anytime a woman says “fuck you!” I just say “fuck me yourself you coward!” I smile when I say it and walk away but I always end up with the last laugh If they’re mean, I’ll also go with: “wow I’m sorry you’re having such a shit life that you’re willing to go out of your way to be intentionally rude to someone.. have a nice day” and it just makes them feel shitty about themselves. | /r/seduction | 21/07/22 03:04 AM |
| 1 | Would redditors benefit from a 15 minute conversation with an actual woman?Hey completely unrelated but.. wanna get married? 💍 | /r/seduction | 18/07/22 10:05 PM |
| -1 | How to break out of small talk?Right. That’s why you ask questions that prompt deep reflective responses. If you just ask generic questions then she’ll feel like she’s being interviewed, but if you ask deeper questions that invite her to step into her passion, she will absolutely love answering the questions and associate positive feelings with being around you.. solidifying a second date | /r/seduction | 13/07/22 07:32 PM |
| 22 | How to break out of small talk?Is this for a first date or first interaction/cold approach? Small talk is perfectly appropriate for cold approach For a first date, all you gotta do is ask questions that inspire good feelings “What is the #1 thing you’re passionate about?” “Who is your favorite person in the world?” “What is your vision for your life?” I know some of these may sound corny but they work so fucking well! These are good because they inspire her to talk about positive experiences and in turn… she associates positi… | /r/seduction | 13/07/22 04:55 AM |
| 6 | Trying to set a date but this girl is not great at texting back.I always try to respond fast because I just want to make them know I’m interested. This doesn’t have the effect you think it does. It doesn’t just show you’re interested… it shows you’re desperate. Women expect attractive men to have a busy schedule that doesn’t revolve around any women. Women are attracted to men who are indifferent. Play her game. Take at least as long to text back as she does, sometimes more. It’s not even playing a game, so much as it is valuing yourself. Don’t invest any mo… | /r/seduction | 13/07/22 12:46 AM |
| 1 | Where do I meet women if I’m not into clubbing or dating apps?Cute girls? | /r/seduction | 11/07/22 05:04 PM |
| 1 | Nice Guy texting behaviors to avoidThank you. Also can’t recommend when I say no I feel guilty and rian stone’s sidebar series going over it enough. Helped me. Are these books? | /r/seduction | 11/07/22 12:28 AM |
| 1 | Nice Guy texting behaviors to avoidCare to share how you did that?? | /r/seduction | 10/07/22 10:57 PM |
| 0 | Her text read “stop by & crack this pussy open like Humpty Dumpty lol” & I’m starting to catch feelings ..Let her come to you. ALWAYS let the girl reveal her hand first. If she likes you, she will let you know and bring up a relationship. Until then… hangout, hookup, have fun | /r/seduction | 10/07/22 06:49 PM |
| 2 | What kind of men do highly confident women generally fall for?Don’t get it twisted. You can emulate traits from Chad & Tyrone without actually being a Chad or Tyrone. You don’t have to be a douche bag fuck boi You can simply recognize the traits they have that work and integrate them into who you are | /r/seduction | 09/07/22 11:59 PM |
| 5 | What kind of men do highly confident women generally fall for?Being cocky in a playful way. Teasing her, roasting her playfully, not putting up with her shit. Being confident | /r/seduction | 09/07/22 11:56 PM |
| 2 | My experience dating Instagram models: DO NOT BE FOOLEDLet’s see it! | /r/seduction | 09/07/22 06:52 AM |
| 23 | When you’re trying to bring a girl home with you and she asks you “what are we gonna do?”, what’s a good answer?My response is usually: “I have a bottle of wine with our names on it. Let’s go back to my place and get to know each other better” Getting to know each other better is up for interpretation because it could mean we’re just continuing to get to know each other more on an emotional level OR… a sexual level. Hasn’t failed me yet | /r/seduction | 08/07/22 10:20 PM |
| 1 | Crush texted me that I look hot. She had rejected me a year ago. What do I do?The hamptons.. But then again… it’s daddy me money, not hers | /r/seduction | 08/07/22 07:16 PM |
| 6 | Crush texted me that I look hot. She had rejected me a year ago. What do I do?Yup. Ask her if she has any hot friends | /r/seduction | 08/07/22 07:16 PM |
| 4 | Is there a way for me (28f) to ask out a coworker (30m) in a way that isn't inappropriate?I would invite you to consider the consequences on your work environment due to such a choice. Either by your relationship not working out, or rules from HR That said… all you have to say is: “Martin, I actually really enjoy your company and I would like to get to know each other better outside of work some time” It’s super easy and low pressure and if he likes you, he’ll accept | /r/seduction | 05/07/22 07:22 AM |
| 2 | Best parting message for a flaky girlIf she doesn’t rain check when cancelling… don’t reach out. If she reaches out at any point, it’s okay to assume it’s because she wants you to ask her out. If not… leave her alone for good. | /r/seduction | 05/07/22 06:56 AM |
| 3 | The “Age knowing” thingFor a man maybe… most women are quite okay with it | /r/seduction | 02/07/22 11:50 AM |
| 3 | Roommate avoids me nowif you incest | /r/seduction | 01/07/22 09:31 PM |
| 2 | Roommate avoids me nowHate fuck the bitch roommate | /r/seduction | 01/07/22 09:30 PM |
| 5 | Getting depressed from lack of sexual experience and lonelinessYou absolutely need game if you have looks. All looks do is give you an automatic in and she MIGHT be willing to look past a blunder or two because you’re cute. Other than that… it’s not like women approach men even if they’re good looking so having game is still necessary | /r/seduction | 01/07/22 06:29 PM |
| 1 | How do sober people get casual sexual encounters?I disagree, I think it’s all in how you say deliver it but by all means, don’t use these questions if you don’t want to | /r/seduction | 01/07/22 05:19 PM |
| 1 | How do sober people get casual sexual encounters?Absolutely you should be asking your dates these questions! They’re not necessary but they go a long way and I’ve gotten some really deep & passionate answers from them Matter of fact, I asked my date last night these questions and she got a bit emotional (but in a good way) while talking about her passions. I phrased it as “why do you wake up in the morning?” In this case We literally got back to my house and poured a glass of wine and the first thing she said was “you have just been so great a… | /r/seduction | 30/06/22 05:24 AM |
| 8 | Anyone ever take dance classes?Go to a rave and do some molly… you will never by shy of dancing again lol | /r/seduction | 28/06/22 09:54 PM |
| 5 | how many of you go to bars/clubs alone?Till you strike a convo | /r/seduction | 26/06/22 01:52 AM |
| 13 | How do sober people get casual sexual encounters?Not only do they work, they fuckin slay! I don’t see how asking someone what they’re passionate about is cheesy at all? It gets them talking about what lights them up the most in life and they associate positive feelings with talking to you. This is an great question to ask anyways if you’re srsly considering a relationship. You want to know what they’re passionate about if you’re ever gonna be in a relationship I always get very enthusiastic responses from these kinds of questions and I have fo… | /r/seduction | 24/06/22 01:46 AM |
| 2 | How do sober people get casual sexual encounters?Can always say: “get me a Tito’s soda without the Tito’s” Or “Surprise me with a mocktail of your choice” I’ve had guys do this all the time as a bartender even when their date was drinking | /r/seduction | 23/06/22 11:40 PM |
| 28 | How do sober people get casual sexual encounters?Fr dates are so simple. All you gotta do is ask questions about her like “what are you most passionate about?” & “what is your absolute favorite thing in the world?” Avoid asking questions that elicit a negative response. When she answers your questions, it’s pretty easy to Segway into additional questions about her answers. If she likes you.. she will do most the talking and fill the space. People love to talk about themselves.. especially women. Don’t talk about yourself too much unless she as… | /r/seduction | 23/06/22 11:22 PM |
| 1 | How do sober people get casual sexual encounters?Just order a virgin drink my guy. Easy | /r/seduction | 23/06/22 11:17 PM |
| 3 | 😎 My Standard Cold Approach Format (that I've used for 8000+ approaches)Bro as someone who’s lived in both… you’re right! Austin has da babes!! Houston women… mostly trash 😖 | /r/seduction | 23/06/22 05:26 PM |
| 9 | 10 things I've learned after being with over 100 women as a shy dudeI just have it saved in keyboard shortcuts so whenever I type in ‘toughguy’ as all one word… it shortcuts to ᕙ(⇀‸↼‶)ᕗ I also have this once called ‘fightme’ (ง’̀-‘́)ง | /r/seduction | 22/06/22 06:28 PM |
| 6 | Friend who posts dates on snap story to make other women jealous30 | /r/seduction | 22/06/22 05:36 PM |
| 1 | I turn 25 tomorrow and as a birthday pact I am going to talk to a girl every single day for rest of the yearI would instead commit to talking to an AVERAGE of one girl a day. So 365 girls over the year. Or maybe like 14 girls every 2 weeks. If you over commit to talking to one every day, it will be easy to get discouraged on days you don’t really come across any | /r/seduction | 22/06/22 05:43 AM |
| 28 | I have no idea what to talk about when I meet a girl at a party/pub“Hey.. i know I just met you and this might sound weird but u/mraees93 told me to tell you he loves me” | /r/seduction | 21/06/22 05:55 PM |
| 6 | Why "making them wait" upsets many men...men are upset because they are helpless and can’t do anything but walk away and not get sex either. lol. More like we are willing to walk away and go get sex somewhere else if we realize a woman is using sex as a reward or transaction | /r/seduction | 21/06/22 04:56 PM |
| 5 | Why "making them wait" upsets many men...I respect it. You know what you want and you’re unwilling to settle for anything less. Nothing wrong with that. People are allowed to have preferences | /r/seduction | 21/06/22 04:53 PM |
| 1 | How to talk on a first dateWhat? I asked you a question | /r/seduction | 21/06/22 06:14 AM |
| 1 | How to talk on a first dateYou trying to date her or what? | /r/seduction | 21/06/22 06:09 AM |
| 1 | How to talk on a first dateGet talking to a few bitches on tinder to take the pressure off this one. You should keep this mindset the whole date: “I’m qualifying her of being worthy of my attention, just as much as she’s qualifying me” If you can get your brain to understand you’re on equal playing fields, you can relax and stop putting her on a pedestal which will make you less needy and less nervous | /r/seduction | 21/06/22 06:08 AM |
| 1 | How to talk on a first dateDon’t invite her to another workout. That’s not romantic or sexy and will not lead to sex or likely even making out | /r/seduction | 21/06/22 06:06 AM |
| 3 | 15 things I learned from cold approaching over 300+ girlsGo you | /r/seduction | 21/06/22 03:45 AM |
| 2 | How do I get her to stop texting me?Huh? | /r/seduction | 21/06/22 02:24 AM |
| 1 | How do I get her to stop texting me?Very possible but when we have talked, she basically said she wants 5 boyfriends to fuck and hangout with and I told her yeah.. I want 10 girlfriends to do the same with and she seemed pretty about it | /r/seduction | 21/06/22 02:10 AM |
| 4 | How do I get her to stop texting me?I’m not tryna get away. I want her around I just don’t wanna text. Prolly woudlnt mind it but she’s a super shitty dry texter and kinda expects me to entertain her | /r/seduction | 21/06/22 01:54 AM |
| 5 | How do I get her to stop texting me?haha. no /s… I actually did proposition a threesome and she’s down asf | /r/seduction | 21/06/22 01:43 AM |
| 4 | Being seen on a date by a girl who I took out the night before. AdviceDon’t double text her. Let her come to you even if it takes a week. I always give a woman a week before I reach out to give her the opportunity to come to me first | /r/seduction | 21/06/22 01:32 AM |
| 7 | Here you're sitting thinking about Push Pull Theory, Escalation Ladders, Inner Game and Eckhart Tolle. Meanwhile girls will literally fuck guys because they are bored, want weed, are lonely, have nothing better to do.He fumbled the bag or made her mad and she went and fucked the first dude she could out of spite Pretty sure that’s what he’s gettin at | /r/seduction | 20/06/22 12:47 AM |
| 1 | Here you're sitting thinking about Push Pull Theory, Escalation Ladders, Inner Game and Eckhart Tolle. Meanwhile girls will literally fuck guys because they are bored, want weed, are lonely, have nothing better to do.Well that and most the good comments/posts are by people who are clearly successful and sharing their wisdom. If they all left… simps and incels would dominate this sub way more than they already have been | /r/seduction | 20/06/22 12:44 AM |
| 2 | Women, do you like getting approached in public?I appreciate your candor. You’re not obligated to do anything at all actually. I’m just stating that “I have a boyfriend” is the most polite and effective rejection you can make. Not just for the man’s sake but for you as a woman too. Let me explain It lets them down easy, because they can at least have the reassurance that it’s not because of how they look or who they are as a person. It also effectively lets them know they have no reason to keep pursuing you. If you say “I’m not interested” ….… | /r/seduction | 18/06/22 08:53 AM |
| 1 | Would I just have better luck going to bars at this point than relying on the apps?Send your tinder profile link and I’ll give you pointers | /r/seduction | 18/06/22 08:25 AM |
| 1 | Need a wing to nightgame/daygame with in Phoenix, Tempe, Scottsdale HMUhttps://t.me/joinchat/Fkhw2UXilKWODWciXgvH6w You can actually find a wing here on telegram https://www.facebook.com/groups/GamePhoenixAZ Or here on Facebook | /r/seduction | 18/06/22 08:22 AM |
| -6 | Women, do you like getting approached in public?I mean she got a body but i personally wouldn’t be intimated… she would be a warmup set for me if I’m bein honest | /r/seduction | 18/06/22 03:42 AM |
| 36 | Women, do you like getting approached in public?it’s ok to be rejected While I agree with you, that’s easy for you to say… you’re not the one being rejected lol I think many men get hung up when a woman gives a bogus answer for the rejection. The simplest rejection is “Thanks but I have a boyfriend” even if it’s not true. If a guy pushes past this, then yeah.. creep | /r/seduction | 18/06/22 03:40 AM |
| 6 | Women, do you like getting approached in public?Women like it even if they’re not attracted.. they love the validation. When a woman says they don’t like it… what they’re saying is that they don’t like men who are creepy or won’t leave them alone after a rejection | /r/seduction | 18/06/22 03:36 AM |
| 2 | How do I stop being a virgin loser?…next to ur mother | /r/seduction | 18/06/22 01:53 AM |
| 6 | How do I stop being a virgin loser?…shove a can of beer up your ass | /r/seduction | 18/06/22 01:08 AM |
| 26 | How do I stop being a virgin loser?Masturbate | /r/seduction | 17/06/22 09:26 PM |
| 1 | Sex is always on her terms - kinda feels like gamesI do have 3 other women I’m getting it from atm | /r/seduction | 16/06/22 05:17 PM |
| 2 | Sex is always on her terms - kinda feels like gamesI have everytime lol | /r/seduction | 16/06/22 05:15 PM |
| 2 | Sex is always on her terms - kinda feels like gamesWithdraw completely and stop hanging out with her and fucking her at all? | /r/seduction | 16/06/22 07:59 AM |
| 12 | Are we as men working too hard to get women?True. Online matches you usually have to assume they are at least 2 points less attractive than they look in photos. I’ve usually been very disappointed when I actually meet up with OLD candidates | /r/seduction | 15/06/22 06:43 PM |
| 19 | Are we as men working too hard to get women?I guess the other thing that would work is social circle game but then you have to work hard to cultivate an attractive & active social circle | /r/seduction | 15/06/22 05:28 PM |
| 3 | Are we as men working too hard to get women?And nobody is doing that here | /r/seduction | 15/06/22 05:25 PM |
| 14 | Are we as men working too hard to get women?There are now more simps out there than there ever have been in history… and it’s all those symptoms that are giving women this unnecessary power they have over men and allowing it to go to their head | /r/seduction | 15/06/22 05:20 PM |
| 17 | Are we as men working too hard to get women?Day game | /r/seduction | 15/06/22 05:15 PM |
| 5 | How long should a first date be? Second?“Till breakfast” | /r/seduction | 15/06/22 12:43 AM |
| 1 | How to hook up with chicks before I leave the country?Ask them questions that insight deep responses. Switch between Teasing them playfully like a bratty little sister and then going to deep questions like “What are you passionate about?” “What is your favorite thing in the world?” Etc Just ask questions and women will do all the talking | /r/seduction | 15/06/22 12:36 AM |
| 3 | Is it easier to find a fwb than a relationship these days?Second this. | /r/seduction | 15/06/22 12:35 AM |
| 1 | Should I text her after the first date?Don’t pursue… that’s the woman’s job. Let her come to you. Wait 4 days until you reach out and when you do… only reach out to setup your next date/meetup. End the convo after you’ve set the date. She needs to wonder about you to allow her attraction to grow. Each text you send becomes less and less valuable. When you back off and allow her to wonder about you and whether you like her that much or not… her attraction will grow | /r/seduction | 15/06/22 12:15 AM |
| 2 | i have been rejected by every girl I've asked outYou can avoid the question with humor. Say one of the following: “A gentleman doesn’t kiss and tell” “If being a virgin is going to get you in my bed, then hell yeah!” “I’m celibate for life. Saving myself for Jesus” Something like that. Jjst make sure you say it with a smirk and then quickly change the convo | /r/seduction | 14/06/22 01:25 AM |
| 2 | Making a girl cum is never simp shit. You don’t have to always use oral, but not using your fingers and skipping foreplay will be to your detrimentCondoms on the vibe | /r/seduction | 13/06/22 11:17 PM |
| 2 | I got a girl by ignoring herit’s con sensual | /r/seduction | 13/06/22 07:44 PM |
| 2 | I got a girl by ignoring herBreathing? I meet all the girls I fuck at the morgue | /r/seduction | 13/06/22 04:28 PM |
| 11 | Embracing the F*ckboy imageEven if that’s so.. being labeled a whore as a man is a compliment | /r/seduction | 13/06/22 07:32 AM |
| 1 | She said she was on Birth Control?Lambson condoms smell so god damn awful | /r/seduction | 13/06/22 01:52 AM |
| 1 | She said she was on Birth Control?Raw is 1000x better but I usually wait until the 3rd hookup or so with a chick. I don’t go raw the first time with a chick because I need to establish more trust. I usually have the talk with them after a few hookups to see if we can work it out to go raw Pro tip: use skyn brand ultra thin condoms with all natural aloe Vera lube | /r/seduction | 12/06/22 11:22 PM |
| 6 | Short men 5'7 and below, how well do you do and what's your story? How did you get good with women?models seem cool to date but I personally wouldn’t want to date shit lol | /r/seduction | 12/06/22 01:08 AM |
| 23 | Short men 5'7 and below, how well do you do and what's your story? How did you get good with women?You will see noticeable results within 2 months usually. And with consistent dedication and nutrition… you can see BIG results in 6 months Sure it takes a full year or more to get completely jacked but even 2 months is enough to start improving your inner mental game and feel the desire to keep going back to the gym. I don’t disagree with you.. Just thought this was important to note so OP doesn’t get discouraged | /r/seduction | 12/06/22 12:22 AM |
| 6 | Fun night but girl got mad I wouldn’t fuck her without a condom first night99.9% | /r/seduction | 10/06/22 10:00 PM |
| 5 | 7 Things Women Secretly Desire In The Bedroom (BUT Are Afraid To Say)“Maybe you’re not a switch… you’re just so much of a sub, that if your dom wanted you to dom, you would do it” 😂😂😂 | /r/seduction | 23/05/22 08:19 AM |
| 2 | 7 Things Women Secretly Desire In The Bedroom (BUT Are Afraid To Say)consider that talking dirty IS concentrating on her pleasure… and overthinking about her pleasure, is actually not really concentrating on her pleasure at all | /r/seduction | 23/05/22 08:18 AM |
| 6 | 7 Things Women Secretly Desire In The Bedroom (BUT Are Afraid To Say)20-80 rule… 20% of ppl produce 80% of the results. Which means guys ARE having sex… it’s just 20% of them are getting 80% of the women. I know you’re comment was a joke but this is a good metric to acknowledge so you can aspire to get to, or even remain in that 20% | /r/seduction | 23/05/22 08:17 AM |
| 3 | why am I successful in online dating but can't get dates when approaching girls in person?even if they’re lying… it’s a pretty polite way of doing it tbh. I’ve had girls straight roast me in public after an approach. The boyfriend excuse is a really respectful way of rejecting you, even if it’s a lie. Take the L and move on | /r/seduction | 20/05/22 01:02 AM |
| 1 | 13 Ways To Make Her Want Youthank you for that feedback. she hmu again this morning to make plans next week. im just gonna be straight up and tell her im down to hang but a li’l hesitant to commit to plans if she’s gonna bail again | /r/seduction | 19/05/22 05:06 PM |
| 1 | 13 Ways To Make Her Want Youthank you for that feedback. she actually hmu today to make plans next week. i think i’m just gonna be honest and tell her i’m hesitant to make plans again now that she’s bailed twice and make her prove she’s actually down to hang | /r/seduction | 19/05/22 05:00 PM |
| 1 | 13 Ways To Make Her Want Youg | /r/seduction | 19/05/22 04:54 AM |
| 1 | How Being "Non-Needy" Is Killing Your Text Gamei agree but that’s not the way most women see it | /r/seduction | 12/05/22 01:50 PM |
| 3 | How Being "Non-Needy" Is Killing Your Text Gamegreat insight. i naturally do this but assumed it was obvious to not do it on the dot. but i suppose that’s useful for most people here | /r/seduction | 12/05/22 04:11 AM |
| 18 | How Being "Non-Needy" Is Killing Your Text Gamei’ve heard it put this way: women like to play the text game… all you gotta do is play along. however long she takes to respond… you take AT LEAST that long, sometimes slightly longer not even to play their game.. but for your own self respect. This will help you avoid overly investing in someone who’s not very invested in you. Until she proves that she’s going to respond quick… don’t respond quick. Continue to match her investment/effort and you will be so much happier | /r/seduction | 12/05/22 04:00 AM |
| 1 | Do I have to play the game to win?you literally just match her frequency. if she takes an hour.. you take an hour. so on & so forth | /r/seduction | 08/05/22 06:03 PM |
| 1 | Do I have to play the game to win?NEVER get married Imagine you’re a big corporation and you take this contract to your attorney to determine if it’s worth signing. Your attorney would tell you not to sign it because it’s setup for the other party to win almost no matter what… even if they break terms of the agreement. I told my last gf that I would be happy to have a wedding ceremony and even pay for her last name to be changed if she wanted… but that i was unwilling to get the government anymore involved in my personal affairs… | /r/seduction | 08/05/22 10:31 AM |
| 2 | Do I have to play the game to win?definitely. I still forget myself from time to time. I had a baddie I started to put on a pedestal and she became distant. My natural instinct was to reach out continuously but I stayed strong and didn’t reach out. She eventually came back around. It’s very difficult to stay strong when you have a really beautiful woman reaching out and snapping you all the time. But you just gotta occupy your time elsewhere and trust that if it’s meant to be, she’ll come around | /r/seduction | 08/05/22 10:26 AM |
| 5 | Do I have to play the game to win?fax. If the sex declines… it’s usually because you are not seducing her. The courtship never ends. You have to be romancing her for the rest of your life. Most men get comfortable and complacent once the land a woman exclusively but don’t realize you need to keep doing all the same things you did to get her in bed… to keep her in bed | /r/seduction | 08/05/22 10:22 AM |
| 8 | Do I have to play the game to win?yes; this. Let her do most of the talking. All you have to do is ask her questions she likes to answer and throw in jokes every now and then. Take note of what she says so you can reference it on later dates as women love a man who listens. Women love to talk about themselves so all you gotta do is ask insightful questions and let her do her thing. Avoid talking about yourself too much. Don’t spoil the mystery for her… that’s part of the fun to her. After 3 fun dates with you, she’ll be thinking… | /r/seduction | 08/05/22 10:18 AM |
| 1 | Oneitis ProblemOneitis is mentally holding a girl hostage and stalking her with your thoughts how do you get her out of your thoughts tho | /r/seduction | 04/05/22 09:48 AM |
| 3 | I cant hold eye contact with pretty girlsOne trick is to stare at their eye/nose bridge directly between their eyes. They won’t know you’re not looking in their eyes | /r/seduction | 27/04/22 03:49 AM |
| 3 | A lot of your dating problems will be solved if you just knew how to actually flirtGo binge watch some standup comedy to practice your wit. You will be amazed at how much this improves your ability to perform in social situations. This technique won’t necessarily improve every level of your flirting game. It’s not super advanced by any means but it’s an excellent start | /r/seduction | 26/04/22 02:08 AM |
| 5 | Social activities for a nerdStart binge watching standup comedy everyday. The Wit will eventually rub off on you and obv, you can recycle some of the jokes | /r/seduction | 25/04/22 08:51 PM |
| 4 | Social activities for a nerdime… you will attract the more fit women, because they take their physique seriously, generally making them attracted to someone who does the same | /r/seduction | 25/04/22 08:50 PM |
| 7 | Committed Women Are More Likely To Get Attracted To Me Than Single Women.It’s also common for women to be more open with their SO’s friends/relatives, because they trust he’s not going to flirt or take their friendliness as flirting on their end. It’s possible he may be confusing their openness with attraction to them. I’ve seen it happen to plenty of men | /r/seduction | 25/04/22 08:47 PM |
| 7 | Went out alone to the club for the first time - got beaten by social anxietyI would add that many times, befriending men at clubs (for the sole purpose of being friendly), can actually help get you laid too. There’s often single women in their entourage and when you became their new friend, you automatically become respected and trusted by the ladies in their group. Don’t rule it out | /r/seduction | 19/04/22 03:58 AM |
| 7 | Went out alone to the club for the first time - got beaten by social anxietyGo binge watch a bunch of stand up comedy. It will help you improvise humor and Conversational skills. Something I like to do before I go out to get the flow of fun and laughter flowing because that’s what women are attracted to | /r/seduction | 19/04/22 03:44 AM |
| 1 | Guys, I'm (m28) not new to the game, but I am getting older and I am getting bored of sex with people I'm just not that interested in. Guys in a similar position (or age) do you tend to just let it fizzle or end things?Was it about??? | /r/seduction | 18/03/22 11:17 PM |
| 1 | I (m28) bumped into a 1st date (f26) that friendzoned me“You’re way to hot for me to just be your friend. But hmu if you change your mind” That’s all you gotta say dude | /r/seduction | 18/03/22 11:14 PM |
| 2 | Lay-report from last nightr/Tinderpickuplines for inspiration | /r/seduction | 18/03/22 11:08 PM |
| 6 | Lay-report from last nightWoman, please | /r/seduction | 18/03/22 11:06 PM |
| 3 | Lay-report from last nightCold hard fax | /r/seduction | 18/03/22 11:02 PM |
| 1 | Welcome to my cityThis is fucking epic advice! I used to live in Austin several years ago before I was drinking age. I got a fake ID right before I moved away so I only got to use it at 6th street. But I went back once and 6th street had definitely deteriorated. Lots of locals were telling me to stay away from it because of the homeless problem and all of the violent crime. I definitely felt like it was a little more Schwanky when I returned, but I love austin so I intend to go back soon and do it right for sure.… | /r/seduction | 17/03/22 10:42 PM |
| 1 | Welcome to my cityWhere are the better spots with higher quality sets?? Share the love, I’m heading to Austin soon 🙏🏼 | /r/seduction | 17/03/22 09:32 AM |
| 1 | Do you think women are aware of the skillset guys have to have to be successful at datingI think women care about sex just as much as men, even casual sex. I just think they have endless options to sort through so they’re not desperate for it, which is why they don’t mind letting guys compete to see which one is worthy. It’s a fun little game for them. On the flip side, I do see that the curse of being a woman interested in LTR, is finding someone who wants more than sex Men are going to keep wanting casual sex because they don’t have as many opportunities for casual sex as women do | /r/seduction | 16/03/22 12:46 AM |
| 1 | Do you think women are aware of the skillset guys have to have to be successful at datingTell me you live in Cali without telling me Lol kidding.. kinda | /r/seduction | 16/03/22 12:40 AM |
| 1 | Do you think women are aware of the skillset guys have to have to be successful at datingWait… what? | /r/seduction | 16/03/22 12:38 AM |
| 1 | Do you think women are aware of the skillset guys have to have to be successful at datingI agree with where you’re going with this, as I have experienced the same thing with age. I’m getting to the age where the women my age are passing their prime and the power balance is shifting over to where the men have all the power in dating, even with younger women. Whereas many young men, no matter how good looking, still struggle to be taken seriously by women in their early 20’s but in all fairness… most of the movies out there are programming men to be this way. I watched Just Like Heave… | /r/seduction | 16/03/22 12:38 AM |
| 1 | Do you think women are aware of the skillset guys have to have to be successful at datingTrue. I would even argue that there’s almost no such thing as female “game” unless you’re a lesbian or playing hard to get a da female (which also can backfire often because men take hard to get as disinterested and move on). And even then… what works for lesbians is the same thing that works for men. Someone has to take the dominant role in nearly every relationship. | /r/seduction | 16/03/22 12:32 AM |
| 8 | How do I stop girls from assuming I'm just a player?“I ain’t a player, I just got a lotta babes” -Roddy Ricch | /r/seduction | 09/03/22 03:58 AM |
| -1 | Have you ever messed up your perfect tinder matchWait a whole week at least but not quite 2 weeks. You don’t want her thinking you’ve sat around and cared about her response. There’s very few times a double text will work without coming off desperate but the line Above has proven to work for me over 50% of the time If she does respond… it will prob be something like “Omg, sorry generic excuse haha” Play it cool like you forgot about her too. Something like: “Lol I was goin thru deleting and cleaning up matches and saw your pic and remembered w… | /r/seduction | 08/03/22 05:04 AM |
| 37 | Have you ever messed up your perfect tinder matchDon’t worry about her. Wait a week and then message her this on tinder if still no text: “Dear diary… Pretty girl went missing. Do I send search party?” .. .. Also… I recommend r/tinderpickuplines if you’re struggling with your tinder game. Post her bio and you will get feedback on how to message her and overall improve your game | /r/seduction | 08/03/22 04:32 AM |
| 11 | Is it weird to ask a random girl for her number?This is great. To echo this… don’t tell her she’s beautiful. Find something genuine to compliment her on that she has control over. She has no control over her beauty and hears people comment on it all the time so telling her she’s pretty will come off like a bribe for sex. Find something unique about her to compliment her on so she knows you’re being authentic. Something like the way she did her hair, her jewelry, her style/fashion, etc | /r/seduction | 08/03/22 12:21 AM |
| 2 | I think a cashier might like me. What should I do?Is generally agree with you but OP said somewhere that there was always a line behind him and not a ton of time to talk. She’s also at her place of work so she may feel some sense of obligation to give her number since you’re a customer and she wants to keep you happy. Giving your number here takes the pressure off her and ENSURES that if she reaches out, she actually genuinely does like you. Both ways can work though. OP just doesn’t seem that confident | /r/seduction | 06/03/22 07:22 PM |
| 0 | I think a cashier might like me. What should I do?Just say: “Hey, I really like _____ (give her a genuine compliment that has nothing to do with her looks - maybe her jewelry or sense of fashion, or hairstyle - make sure it’s authentic). I’ve got this theory that you’d be a fun person to get to know, and maybe even hang out with. I’ve gotta run right now, but here’s my number. (slide it to her on a piece of paper). No pressure, but if it feels right, text me when you’ve got free time and we’ll put my theory to the test. (give her a cheeky smirk… | /r/seduction | 06/03/22 04:56 PM |
| 1 | Three weeks of seduction. Girls are way more direct than i am apparently.Link to James Marshall course? | /r/seduction | 05/03/22 09:45 PM |
| -3 | Why guys don't approach during at the day, unless it's at a bar or something, when I am with my girl friend?Idk why you’re getting downvoted. You’re not wrong… his post was accurate about what men are told… but also kinda gave off incel vibes with those last few lines. I’m not even saying the OP is even an incel but I’ve legit noticed more and more incels in this sub getting upvoted and I’m just like.. what dafuq dudes Edit: it’s like some of you guys live in this porn fantasy where the woman is going to approach you. That might happen ONCE in your lifetime. And while it’s nice to complain about… it’s… | /r/seduction | 04/03/22 01:56 AM |
| 2 | Dudes Gotta Stop Dropping Their Morals For a Fat Ass..Haha. Not true at all. Have you heard of the gym? Boobs can’t be grown at the gym but an ass certainly can. I know chicks who used to have no ass and legs that just went into their back but now have a massive ass due to consistent dedication to gym and diet. An ass can most certainly be grown if you have discipline | /r/seduction | 03/03/22 07:04 PM |
| 22 | Dudes Gotta Stop Dropping Their Morals For a Fat Ass..Foreal. I’m not a tits man OR an ass man. But if you didn’t grow tits… you should at least grow your booty since it’s in your control. I just want one or the other to grab onto while I’m smashin, but don’t have a preference for which one that might be. | /r/seduction | 03/03/22 01:10 AM |
| 7 | After trying this stuff for 4 months I concluded that nothing works unless the woman is already attracted to you from the start and everything here is basically bullshitFax right here | /r/seduction | 28/02/22 11:22 PM |
| 22 | After trying this stuff for 4 months I concluded that nothing works unless the woman is already attracted to you from the start and everything here is basically bullshitThis should be top comment. While I do personally believe you can game women with low interest because I’ve seen it done several times… that’s not to say it’s easy. Also, regardless of OP’s stance on game. It’s important to remember that you may talk a woman who is already interested in you out of sleeping with you, by having shit game. So just because having good game doesn’t result in sleeping with every woman, doesn’t mean it isn’t still helping you in many ways | /r/seduction | 28/02/22 11:19 PM |
| 6 | Never worry about how many IG followers she hasThat’s why you only settle down with a woman who’s got mad wifey potential, but still be down for threesomes n all sorts of kinky shit. You don’t have to stop playing the field if you find the right woman, and have the confidence to initiate threesome convos early on in the relationship | /r/seduction | 23/02/22 10:41 PM |
| 40 | What can we learn from Pete Davidson?I think his humor and confidence goes a long way but I also think there’s something to be said about the fact he hasn’t been able to hold any of these women down for a long time. Correct me if I’m wrong but he got dumped each time. This is just a hunch but I’d bet his depressive episodes probably get old once they realize they have to baby him. | /r/seduction | 17/02/22 11:08 PM |
| 1 | San Francisco DA drops charges against woman linked to property crime by rape kit DNACops shouldn’t be using ANYONES DNA from a rape kit. Man or woman. That should be illegal | /r/PussyPass | 17/02/22 08:53 AM |
| 3 | Looks are everything. Especially if you are a guy.Haha. Kk | /r/seduction | 17/02/22 12:33 AM |
| 2 | Looks are everything. Especially if you are a guy.Lol these aren’t buzzwords. I’m describing what you are. Re read your last few comments and ask yourself… would a woman want to have sex with someone like this? | /r/seduction | 17/02/22 12:16 AM |
| 3 | Looks are everything. Especially if you are a guy.Like I said… enjoy your simp shit perspective and lifestyle of being a virgin forever. Idk why you’re even on this sub if you’re so much of an incel that you think like this | /r/seduction | 17/02/22 12:04 AM |
| 2 | Looks are everything. Especially if you are a guy.Bro. This is incel shit and you should probably just unsubscribe from this sub if that’s your attitude. You’re so committed to being an ugly guy that never gets girls and because that’s your mindset… that is all you will ever get. Being attractive as a man is something found within. It’s easy to believe women care about looks as much as men because of our own propensity to emphasize looks so heavily. In reality, women only like looks initially. It’s when a man opens his mouth that will determine… | /r/seduction | 16/02/22 11:08 PM |
| 4 | Looks are everything. Especially if you are a guy.Lemme tell you something… as a guy who grew up overweight and very ugly, I had low confidence all my life. When I blossomed from an ugly duckling and into a good looking man, the looks didn’t do a god damn thing for me. I became above average in looks but still had the same failures with women and success rate was low. Over the course of several years… I began to work on changing my confidence from the inside and becoming the type of man women want to be with. My success rate is now much higher … | /r/seduction | 16/02/22 09:29 PM |
| 20 | When and how to reignite the conversation after she doesn’t reply to you?Do it in a way where you’re not making it seem like you’re desperate. For example… instead of saying “are we still on?” Say… “hey I had something come up on Friday that’s going to set me about an hour back. So I’ll pick you up at 9 instead of 8” | /r/seduction | 12/12/21 07:20 PM |
| 3 | How do I text girls?Snapchat her during vacay | /r/seduction | 23/11/21 05:57 PM |
| 6 | Awkward silenceMake an assumption about her for her to correct or confirm. I would refrain from asking too many questions as that can start to sound robotic and stale like she’s being interview. But for example, if you notice she’s wearing horse earrings, you could say: “I bet you are a champion horse rider” with a little smirk. This will giver her the opportunity to say something like: “yes! How’d you know?? Horse riding is my favorite thing” OR “No haha. I just thought these earrings were cute.” Horse earrin… | /r/seduction | 13/08/20 03:23 PM |
| 1 | Do girls find dancing men hot?It doesn’t hurt to be able to confidently move your body on the dance floor but that doesn’t mean you have to be ‘good’... you just have to be confident in your moves. May sound cheesy but look up the dancing scene in the movie hitch. You just gotta confidently move your body a little bit and nod to the beat. Nothing more complex than that so long as you are confident doing it | /r/seduction | 13/08/20 03:39 AM |
| 2 | Keep getting mistaken for a fuckboiNot to sound rude but Are you sure you’re not being mistaken for being gay? What tells you you’re being mistaken as a fukboi? Your description matches the typical gay man.... dresses exceptionally well and has more girlfriends than guy friends. | /r/seduction | 12/08/20 09:10 PM |
| 4 | Getting numbers from girls you’re interested in or just getting as many numbers as you can?Foreal. Since when did all the simps join this sub? | /r/seduction | 12/08/20 09:07 PM |
| 7 | Didn't work like she thoughtShe just wants everyone to know she’s from Maryland | /r/PussyPassDenied | 19/02/20 03:46 PM |
| 1 | Canadian TV: At the end of the day, we just don't know what went on behind closed doors and you can't all of a sudden throw all the blame on Amber HeardWhat the fuck dude | /r/PussyPass | 10/02/20 02:17 AM |
| 80 | Boob pass deniedSo you’re saying... she’s.. an... object? 🙃 | /r/PussyPassDenied | 03/01/20 06:24 PM |
| 50 | Boob pass deniedDid you assign your flair or was it a mod? | /r/PussyPassDenied | 03/01/20 06:23 PM |
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