At a staggering 5’11… I’m no means tall, but not short either

My game is really good at raves and bars where the music isn’t super in my face

But dark night clubs with ear piercing music is not my forte, and I’d like to improve

Most of my friends prefer these dimly lit clubs because they rely on looks, height (6’2+), and non-verbal game

I think they have an advantage in clubs because they are taller and when women scan the horizon, my friends always poke out amongst the sea of people

But seeing them try to game with their mouth is so cringe. They don’t know how to open girls or start convo

They sit there in the club and next thing I know, I turn around and they’re dancing with a baddie

Sometimes, they don’t talk at all for like 15-30 minutes before eventually opening up dialogue and getting the girls number, sometimes taking them home that night

It’s wild to me. Never have I ever just noticed a woman’s cues in the club, then started grinding on her with no dialogue whatsoever

I’ve always relied on my mouth to get a girl to dance with me. Usually start making some jokes and then order them around

But it’d be cool to get better at dance club game since that’s where my friend gravitate

I’ve asked them and they just say they notice a girl dancing by them and sort of inch towards them slowly until they’re dancing on them

Idk if it’s just the metoo culture but that sounds hella rapey and I can’t bring myself to do it. Maybe I’m just not seeing the same signs as them

Any thoughts?