Wanna know a very strong trait that people don't mention about the bad boy or asshole? He's very self-amusing.

Let's take the guy in movies who picks on the weak-looking kid in high school. He amuses himself by picking on the weak-looking kids and you'll notice that he's dating the girl that the main character wants to get with.

I'm not saying bully the weak to get girls. But a very powerful bad boy trait that people kinda glance over, but is very powerful, is self-amusement.

The reason why self-amusement is so powerful is because you are the source of your own fun. So if someone interacts with you, they can join in the fun.

Like the song says "Girls just wanna have fun". If you're a fun guy in a group or by yourself, you can form a crowd of girls around you.

Have you ever had a huge smile on your face and a woman asked you, "What are you so happy about?"

You don't have to be a bad boy to have these traits.

The next time you're out and about, watch some funny videos or listen to some music on your phone. Keep one earphone in and the other ear open, just to look a little more approachable. Don't be surprised if a cute girl walks up to you and says, "What are you watching?"

Don't expect women to approach you because the whole purpose of self-amusement is you don't need others to validate or entertain you. However, feel free to invite someone in on your fun.

Scenario: You're sitting at table and you notice a cute girl sitting in your general area. You're watching some funny videos on your phone.

You: " Excuse miss, do you like to laugh?"

Her: "Yeah. Who doesn't?"

You: "Check out this video.

Clean off one of your earphone and give it to her. Put a short video clip. Don't do this to get the girl, but do it to allow women to join in on your fun. If she wants to keep talking or watching more videos with you, cool. If she wants to go back to doing what she was doing, let her be.

"How can I not use a line like that to get her number?"

The goal is to increase your level of self-amusement and not look to others to entertain you or validate you. When you approach the world like this, you seem more fun to be around. When you actually do approach women, you look more fun and not like you're trying to get laid.

When you look like you're trying to get laid, you give off a needy vibe. When you look like you're trying to have fun, you look more confident and self-amused. If she wants to have fun, she can join you. By the way, women like sleeping with fun guys on multiple occasions... so look to having fun with women instead of just getting laid.

The next time you approach women, do it for your own amusement, not to get the girl to like you. Not to get laid. The goal of approaching women is to let her join in on the fun.

"What fun can I bring girls? All I do at home is sit around and stare at a wall."

Be creative. Got a tennis ball? Play catch. Got pen and paper? Play tic-tac-toe.

Whatever you find amusing, share it with the women you approach and you may notice your success rate increase. Sometimes women will let you join in on their fun. Sometimes a girl could be with multiple hot girls and they would like for you to join them in their fun.

"We're going to the park. Wanna come?"

Try it. You may find yourself having more fun with women just by amusing yourself.