It is widely said that women love self improved men who are focusing on their goals and sexually disciplined.

But being a men, when you are focusing on your goals and being sexually disciplined, how does he get better with women? How does he gets laid simultaneously?

While being focused on himself, doesn't he give impression to women that he is not interested in dating or sex at all?

What's the key to a perfect balance? Where being focused and sexually disciplined helps you in getting better with women and getting laid frequently?