I asked out two girls in the same sorority, they found out, then they blew it out of proportion, putting me in the creeper and stalker territory. This is why I no longer game on college campuses, the social circles are too small and tight knit, even the innocent act of asking out two girls in the same group can get you in trouble.

I have learned lots from this experience and I don't go back to that campus. Instead, I go to public areas and streets, where the crowds aren't interconnected and are dispersed. The public library is my home base, the streets around it are my playground. While not as easy as gaming on a college campus, I have still found success in the form of numbers and dates. I feel much better about my situation.

This is what I mean by being resilient. If it doesn't work out in one area, that's fine, simply brush yourself off, learn from your mistakes, and move to newer grounds.