Hey there. I made a video on how to be vulnerable with girls and doing it the right way.

(if that's against the rules of the sub just lmk)

It gave me great results :

  • I sleep with girls on the first date way more often.

  • I actually date girls that I like more, and it screens out girls that are not for me.

  • It feels really good to not have to put up a front when going on a date.

  • My relationships are now wayyy deeper and more genuine.

No kidding, the girls I date literally become my best friends that I can fuck.

It's like having a therapist that you can have sex with and who will listen to your feelings for free.

How I do this :

  • I am not afraid to talk about what I feel. I don't try to look cold and cool.

  • I don't use girls as an emotional clutch when I feel bad to complain about my bad luck and misery.

  • It's more about using what I am feeling to feed and deepen the vibe of the moment.

If we are talking about childhood and bad adventures that happened, I have no trouble sharing my feelings.

It's more situational (example : "I can use this feeling I have somewhere in me in that particular moment to strengthen our bond") than lashing out emotions I can't keep (example : "I feel XYZ right now and I HAVE to talk about it because I can't keep it to myself anymore and I need emotional support").

Only downside is that you have to listen to girls sharing their feelings too. When that happens I focus on imagining them naked on me and that usually goes fine.