So, I went on a date with a girl, and after the date I did not text her for a whole week. When I texted her after a week, she did not want to talk to me and told me not to call her again. After that, I went on another date with a different girl. We had a good time, but when I texted her the next day, her response was dry. I don’t know what I’m doing wrong or what’s going on, because this is happening every time I go on a date and text them afterward. It goes very dry for me, even though I think the date was nice and fun. Now I am seeing another girl. She’s nice to me, and she’s down to go for a drink, which I’m also open to. I don’t want to mess this up again. For context, all three of these goals are from the work we do; we work together, they know each other, but they don’t know that I am dating them.. How do I approach this kind of situation? Am I being desperate by texting them too much? Am I being over reactive? Should I just let them decide and let things fall in the place by themselves?