Any Tips for Solo Day Game?

Substantial-Bad-4508 · 2025-05-31T15:51:06+00:00

Start out by talking to any stranger (male or female), then advance to any woman that you don't find attractive (less pressure), and then take the social skills you have acquired to "higher stakes" women that you do find attractive.

Summary: Take it one day at a time to hone your social skills and to build your level of confidence around people.

offinthewoods10 · 2025-05-31T17:08:57+00:00

Go join some club, sports teams, community events, etc.

Get out of your comfort zone a bit and do new things while going out of your way to be social.

When you show up just assume everyone there is already your friend, they just don’t know it yet. Be friendly, chatty and have a good time.

While going out for Day game can be fun, you put yourself into an outcome dependent situation. “If I don’t get any dates I failed”.

Joining social groups on the other hand shifts the desired outcome from getting girls to having a good time and meeting new people.

In my experience having a vibrant social network is far better for getting high quality women than solo game. As solo game is mostly just luck. Need to be at the right place right time.

If you do want to solo day game. parks libraries and coffee shops are great.

darkbenji123 · 2025-05-31T05:05:57+00:00

Call a friend and have a fun conversation to get in a talking mood Open everybody and give compliments to stranger

Inevitable_Branch720 · 2025-06-02T05:28:24+00:00

I think I am pretty solid at daygame nowadays. This is what I went through: 1. Dealt with my social anxiety: this was a combination of monitored drills and getting help reviewing my mindsets 2. Learned how to approach the "accidental" way 3. Learned how to build trust with a stranger in a few minutes 4. Learned how to take the interaction from a stranger to friendly to a sexual tone in under 25 minutes 5. Dealing with logistics to take her on a date /take her home 6. Pressure on/pressure off once you are isolated until sex.

Your priority right now is dealing with approach anxiety. Nothing less nothing more . I have found that the reason why a lot of guys struggle with it is because it's an interactive and adaptive process. Its almost impossible to learn this from a book or video because not only is everyone dealing with anxiety differently, you need adaptive steps to fix it .

Meaning you try a drill and then based on how you feel after that first drill you can plan the next drill .

Western-Month-3877 · 2025-05-31T11:15:49+00:00

You’ve said the keyword in your post: structure.

All of our activities have structures; even just for a small thing like driving a car. But most people don’t realize there’s a structure in driving a car because they do it so habitually. Or even like a song; there’s an intro, a verse, a chorus, a bridge then close it with an outro. Every song has these parts. Well not every song (“Tequila” song comes to mind haha).

Now before I answer your question, lemme ask you to think about it: find out the structure in a regular conversation, even between friends. People don’t really see this because like driving a car or singing a song, they just do it spontaneously.

epimpstyle · 2025-05-31T15:59:17+00:00

Your question is so vague that it's impossible to answer in a few sentences.

You need to break it down into smaller parts. You mentioned you don't know where to start, but what exactly are you referring to? Before you even leave your house to approach someone, there are many things to do: building a good first impression, having the right attitude, how to gain the courage to talk with a girl ...

Once you do approach a girl, there are still other things to do: openers, how to create a conversation from nothing, how to say all kinds of stories, how to use different concepts like DHV, push-pull, qualification. ... So, where do you stuck?

Either_Sundae6099 · 2025-05-31T18:26:39+00:00

Get into a decent state before you leave your door.

As for structure, there are plenty of resources out there, and different people will argue semantics.

However.... look for "Too late, mate" and the follow up "52 first dates" which is more technical.

Finally, make a habit of starting small talk with one person every time you leave the house.

Remember its a marathon, not a sprint.

Substantial-Bad-4508 · 2025-06-09T12:09:42+00:00

To get good at something, you just do it and the more you do it, the better you get at it.

Get rid of the idea of perfection and actively discover what works for you. If you pretend to be something that you are not, they will see right through you by your incongruent behavior.

In others words, what works for others does not mean it will work for you.

ThatDarnSmell · 2025-05-31T05:04:22+00:00

Sunscreen.

Title	Any Tips for Solo Day Game?
Author	khakkoii
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Date	May 31, 2025 3:41 AM UTC (1 year ago)
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