So Ive been using the techniques of Seddit to great success for about 9 months now, and I've been shocked at how easy it is to change one's previous pattern of behavior. I'm not the type to get seriously invested in all of the details that the PUA community can offer; Im more of the casual user. Nonetheless, what little changes I've made in the areas of inner game, push pull, and honing my already strong kino skills have worked wonders. I'm not bedding a new girl every weekend, but I know if I want, I could probably get close…

Anyways, this weekend, my friend "J" was in town, back from college. As it turned out J's parents were gone for the weekend, so all of our friends go over to his house to hang out, drink beer, and smoke weed. We are all pretty tight, and the few females in our circle are GF's of our boys. However, J's little sister (who I'll call "G") brought some of her friends over as well. I've known G since she was about 3 y/o so she's like a sister to me, and therefore off-limits…. but I immediately noticed G's friend L. she's a skinny HB8 with that attitude that hot girls have from getting hit on all the time. She purposely didn't say hi to anyone in our group of friends when G introduced her. Without giving a long detailed FR, lets just say that I approached perfectly, by giving her shit for her intro and then not showing too much interest. She initiated kino quickly, and I let her desire build for awhile. She was constantly touching me, leaning on me, or putting her legs over mine when I sat down. I couldn't tell if I was just on point like never before, or if she just melted in my hand. Didn't really matter. By the time I k-closed her, all of the bedrooms were occupied, and the kino couldn't get much further when we were standing around with a bunch of other people near by. It's 5am, so she goes to crash in G's room after my and another friend grab sleeping bags to sleep in.

Fast forward, to the next morn: I was supposed to get G a bottle of booze (she's only 20) the next morn, but J was leaving early, so me and my other wingman had to leave to go do some other stuff before G and L woke up. I thought she had put her # in my phone the night before, but it turned out she was messing around with my pictures, looking for other naked girls or sumthin…

HERE'S MY DILEMMA: I didn't even fuck this girl, and yet she's got my head spinning harder than it has been in years… I haven't given two shits about the last 3 girls I f-closed, one of whom, I still see now and again for a FWB kinda thing… That night my game was super tight, but now, I can't seem to get my inner frame back to talk to this girl. She's either very good at this, or she was more in to me than I realized. At first I thought Maybe the fact that I didn't f-close her, has me spinning, but thats happened plenty before and was never a problem. So Seddit, I need your help. How do I get myself back in state when I talk to this girl?