I caught oneitis, fucked me up for a long time but pushed me to change.

I’m now a lot more attractive and confident in myself.

But, I cannot take girls on dates anymore. It’s drinks for the first two, then just fuck fuck fuck fuck fuck for the next 10. Even with girls I’m seeing, I just can’t put effort into them. Like, I won’t drive 10 mins to pick them up. They can come to my place or I genuinely won’t care if they don’t show.

I think that seduction has just made me more aware of “game”: Put effort into yourself, instead of women, and they’ll come to you.

But at the same time, I also won’t ever put any effort into a girl who’s had a one night stand. Full stop. I’ll sleep with them, but I think taking a girl for dinner when she’s sucked someone off after knowing them for 10 minutes is a really weak move.

Now I’m thinking about getting a girlfriend and my criteria is:

1) Sexual History 2) Personality 3) Looks

I’m willing to compromise on a lot if a girl was a virgin before we met. I don’t like how slutty our society has become and there’s actually a lot of value in traditional religious weddings now. Knowing your girl wasn’t sucking someone off a week before you met her is peace of mind that can’t be bought.