I have been in the game for many years. And I have tried "Being Alpha" and even done a good show of it.

But about 2,5 years ago, I started doing a new kind of game.

I started focusing on telling DHV stories about my own life.

I had always a problem with those text "25 things to do to be Alpha". Because when you are in a set, you can't remember those 25 things, and comes across as fake.

What happen to me was, that I start telling stories about my own life, and finding those stories that could show me being the kind of guy I wanted to be.

When you focus on dhv stories about your own life, you start realising how great a guy you are.

After a month you start having more confidence, and stop trying to "be Alpha".

You will relax a lot more and when you talk with girls, and anybody else, you have more time to listen and talk, because you no longer try to remember those 25 things to show you are alpha.

The short version:

So how can you get more confidence.?

What can you respect about your self.?

Find 5 things about your life you can respect.

The most important thing in your life, is to find things you can respect about your self.

When you start to focusing on where you are great, then it is no longer a fake thing.

You are being yourself, and any girl or guy, trying to shit-test you, will just run their head against the wall of truth.

First thing you can respect about yourself, is what you are doing right now....

You try to improve one area of your life.

That is one thing you will respect about your self, because those guys playing WoW or LoL, is the same places as they was yesterday, and the day before.

You took a step forward to improve your life, and for that you should respect your self.

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