I've been at this game a long time, but there's a common crack in my armor: when girl's I'm banging find out I'm banging other girls they usually get bitchy, and I exert a lot of mental energy (as fun as it may be) trying to arrange my nights out so plates don't bump into each other or see me with another plate. Occasionally, a plate will cling cling cling, and the effort to keep her away from my other plates becomes too much - and it ends in tears.

Can someone direct me to some tips on this shit? Should I just be upfront right at the start and tell them I'm seeing other girls and that I'm not looking for a relationship? The downside to trying this in the past is that I lose a lot of plates that I otherwise could have kept banging (until it all implodes in a mess of acrimony and jealousy). There must be a better way.