Best online programs/seduction guides?

bl1y · 2014-08-16T17:07:12+00:00

BBBZZZZZZZZZ. Wrong.

The best program out there is one you already know. It's called: Get out into the field and approach a bunch of girls.

You've fallen into a trap that hits a ton of guys here. Hell, it probably hits the majority of people trying any sort of self help. You focus on reading advice, watching videos, making plans, that sort of thing, when all that time and energy should be put into actually doing shit to improve yourself.

I think it's maybe because of how our education system is set up. We read books, attend lectures, sit at desks and just consume information and that's how we get "better." But pickup doesn't work like that. It's more like learning to play a musical instrument. How many books do you need to read to learn how to play guitar? Probably one, and it's probably like $15 and called "Guitar Playing for Beginners" or something. Then you go play guitar for about 1000 hours. Maybe after that point you need some more advanced help, but odds are you just need another 1000 hours playing.

Your ratio of time consuming self-help products (reading posts here, blogs, videos, books, etc) to actually practicing self improvement (approaching, working out, etc) should be no more than 1:10. For every 1 hour you spend on Reddit seeking advice, spend at a minimum 10 hours actually doing shit.

bluesbt · 2014-08-16T17:13:56+00:00

goodlookinglosers approach anxiety program. And its free

Squand · 2014-08-16T17:29:26+00:00

the sidebar

throwawayodd33 · 2014-08-16T18:21:18+00:00

Read Models by Mark Manson. Trust me on this one.

Title	Best online programs/seduction guides?
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Date	August 16, 2014 4:33 PM UTC (11 years ago)
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