You don't need to go talk to someone to start seducing them. Seduction is a process. It start somewhere. Forget everything and listen ain't gonna take a long text. If you do these and people don't start showing interest, then something immaterial is involved😀 1. Take care of yourself(not to attract anyone but because you fucking deserve to look the best) 2. Engage in social activities(not because you wanna meet people and attract them) but because you want to HAVE FUN(remember that) the intention. This will help remove desperation which kills attraction in an instant. Social activities are fun, join and HAVE FUN don't sit there watching who is looking at you. And in social activities most people take care of how they present themselves. Don't be that. Be weird, say what you want to say without filter and unapologetically. Dance like nobody is watching, laugh, move your hands. Have fun. Just how you like it. If you didn't catch it, all am saying is be authentic. At a social event everyone think people are judging them but not you, you are the judge in their heads😂 RESPECTIFULLY don't give a fucK Now translate that to all area of your life, everywhere with the context and the intention you set before. If you are going to work, then the biggest focus should be work but BE DIFFERENT invent strategies that you think would easier your work, challenge processes. AUTHENTICITY, if a process bothers you, challenge it RESPECTIFULLY. Don't smile while you are dieing inside. In no time, you will have to create strategies to reject people.

I am not some relationship guru but I thought I was ugly until I understood that what I thought was ugliness was being disingenuous, fakeness, pretentious, looking for validation, people pleasing, ignoring myself and my needs. It worked for me, it will work on anyone. Wake up in the morning and say "Today I will be as authentic as possible" If someone looks good today say it, if you think the clothes on them don't fit well say it, if you make a mistake admit it, if you are angry say it, if you are happy then be happy unapologetically. Am out!