So I’ve never really had huge problems getting girls (honestly, probably mostly due to my height. I’m quite tall), but I’ve never operated at the level of performance I knew I ought to. Until recently. Especially due to the advice given from this sub or similar advice from other sources.

But I’ve been doing great recently. I’ve had 3 dates scheduled over 3 days and, honestly, that number might increase.

I want to say that my first step was removing myself from the dating pool entirely for a good while. I focused on getting my shit together in little ways: making my bed/cleaning my room, exercising very very regularly, working on my masters, etc. I started caring about my appearance and instead of buzzing my hair like I always used to because it was easy, I started styling it, and tbh that’s made a big impact on my confidence.

I’ve always hated dating apps because I sucked at them. I usually try to small talk because I thought it’d be weird/off putting to be straightforward. I recently stopped doing that because of the advice of this sub, and the return has been incredible. Girls really respond to directness (as long as you’re not too direct, if you catch my meaning, and even then sometimes it still works out).

On the advice of this sub, I started establishing physical contact on dates. Such a necessary step, oh my god. I’m also now able to pick up on body language and am conscious of my own. I try to make the girl do the legwork in the conversation, which makes me seem less like a dancing monkey.

I’ve also been working on the numbers game. If I’m less invested in one girl, I’m less in my head, smoother, and more confident. And just going on a lot of dates is like practice: the more I go on, the better I am at going on dates

Honestly guys, I’ve been killing it, and in large part I have this sub to thank