Calling or texting which is better and when?

monkeyman114 · 2016-11-04T02:36:06+00:00

texting is no substitute for a phone call. girls consider a text low tier, they get a hundred texts a day, you're just one of many blurbs of letters she receives every few minutes.

recyclablebanthas · 2016-11-04T00:04:54+00:00

Short answer: don't call someone (guy or girl) unless you've texted them first and they've cleared it. That's just common courtesy.

Longer answer: Texting has become so prevalent that you really shouldn't ever just call out of the blue. It's disruptive and you can never know what you're interrupting.

She might be in the middle of something. Like work or even a date. Then she's having to scramble to deal with a ringing or vibrating phone. She even have to explain who's calling. Not cool to do to someone.

Some might rail against this culture, but think about it: the most common people who call without texting first to announce themselves, are telemarketers.

RytekBJJ · 2016-11-05T14:38:22+00:00

Call. It's a much more fun and engaging to talk to someone on the phone than text. It's also easier to build rapport and tease, then ask her out. The more personal the interaction the better. In Person > Calling > Texting.

Sure, if she's not interested you won't get an answer or a call back, even though you might get a text back, but if she's not interested then she's not interested. If you don't get a date then who cares? Don't delude yourself into thinking that just because she texts that means anything.

The only caveat is that sometimes you do want to be as impersonal as possible, such as if you start seeing her almost every other or even every night. In that case you want to minimize the effect of your communication when you aren't in person. Preferably don't contact her at all until you see her in person, but if you absolutely have to use text.

GuitarHero07 · 2016-11-04T02:56:53+00:00

In this day and age stick to texting and only use it to setup meetings. Don't get into lengthy discussions by phone or text. You want to exchange maybe 3-4 texts to setup the activity. The goal is to meet so you can work your magic in person. Too much texting/conversing beforehand kills the mystery and will lead to more flakes.

Title	Calling or texting which is better and when?
Author	AragorntheMighty
Upvotes	1
Comments	7
Date	November 3, 2016 11:31 PM UTC (9 years ago)
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