Can it be done?

Helicopterz · 2014-07-18T08:34:56+00:00

You have such a history with this girl not seeing you as sexually appealing, that it's not worth trying to change yourself infront of her to try and get her. You are giving her the power to control your life, your identity and essentially your BALLS. That is the farthest thing from ALPHA as you can get. Alpha really means having a life, a purpose, a drive, and developing your masculine energy. Not making your purpose one woman. That is the ultimate Beta.

And how in the world are you gonna change yourself to be Alpha for her, if you don't develop that identity/personality with a bunch of other women first? And if you do that, you'll actually see the matrix, and at that point you'll look back on the fact that you were just mind fucking yourself into believing that she was the perfect girl, when all along you were just projecting the qualities that you wanted onto her. And if you do a few hundred to a few thousand approaches, develop yourself and become alpha with women, she'll most likely be the last thing you think about.

2014-07-18T08:42:18+00:00

You can start by reading "No More Mr Nice Guy" and sidebar posts on /r/faimprovement. I personally have tried it and it works! I didn't change many of my daily routines that make my personality, but the effect speaks for itself. I started attracting girls who blatantly rejected me before.

Yourfavoriteson · 2014-07-18T19:36:14+00:00

You're in what some would say is the friend zone. When I'm not getting the results I want or get caught in friendzone, my advice would be to not text,talk,or hang with her for a month or two and focus on other girls. The longdr you wait, the better, bexause then Its closer to being like you just met.

But witb this girl, id keep her as a bestfriend. I had a crush similar to your situation and although I tried to not be friends, I thought that she as a person was good enough for my friendship.

Is this girl worth friendship. If you can't be friends with hee, cut her off and dony look back.

Thugdad · 2014-07-18T06:00:16+00:00

Of course you can change her mind, but only if you dedicate yourself to be alfa as fuck. Don't forget though, there's more girls out there that can be just as great as her! Go out, have fun, and prosper in pussy.

Title	Can it be done?
Author	MightyGuy9000
Upvotes	4
Comments	5
Date	July 18, 2014 5:14 AM UTC (12 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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