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Can two people like each other equally

jswissle · 2019-06-19T16:37:33+00:00

(M/22/straight) It seems like with every relationship I have I either like the girl more than they do me, if even slightly, or they like me more than I do...

jswissle

June 19, 2019

6 upvotes

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Title	Can two people like each other equally
Author	jswissle
Upvotes	6
Comments	2
Date	June 19, 2019 4:37 PM UTC (7 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/c2jaxn/can_two_people_like_each_other_equally/
Archive Link	https://theredarchive.com/r/seduction/can-two-people-like-each-other-equally.1471765 https://theredarchive.com/post/1471765

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[–]DriedUpPlum 4 points5 points6 points 7 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Lol yes. But it takes quite a bit of time. Men and women will ping pong back and forth in a healthy relationship with a smaller and smaller gap forming.

However, in general men over invest emotionally waaaaaay faster than women. This isn’t because women are evil or narcissist it’s because they have more to risk and have a rather large amount of abundance to your average frustrated chump.

One problem is that once men are in a relationship they quit the seduction process. They get lazy and actually start going backwards just as the women otherwise would be starting to develop real feelings as opposed to a crush or the like. Women know once they open up their emotions to man it’s going to be fun for a while but 90% of their past relationships had even their strong “alpha” boyfriends start becoming needy little fuckboys at this transition.

[–]Bulkyboiii 1 point2 points3 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link