Cannot solve this ongoing problem

imkingcash · 2016-12-02T21:14:58+00:00

You may be more confident and present when you're single, but being in a relationship is making you feel vulnerable. You may have in the back of your mind, "What if she ends up like the toxic relationship I just ended. Here are a few key points I would advise when being in a relationship:

Establish Respect From Day One - You may not have any problems now, but the whole "don't rock the boat" idea can't exist if she is being disrespectful. Oh yeah, check the disrespect you may send her way, too. It's all about mutual respect. Set the rules of the relationship with one another to avoid confusion
Be that present, fun and exciting guy the way you are when you're single. It will be like she's cheating on her boyfriend with this new guy she met who she can't get enough of. Just because you're in a relationship doesn't mean you throw everything you've learned in self-improvement and seduction out the window. If she feels sexy and excited in her serious relationship, the idea of cheating will minimize in her head.
Be a man. Being masculine and confident is the thing that has turned women on since the beginning of time. Swag is cool, but it wears off if you're not being masculine, confident, and manly. Find out what's manly to you.
Worst case scenario: If this relationship ends, be single for a while. I don't know how it is between you and these women, but you may like the idea of being in a relationship, but you may not be ready to be in a serious relationship.

With that being said, good luck to you and your new lady

PUA_Mobius · 2016-12-02T22:46:26+00:00

It seems like the self improvement aspect of "game" helped you while you were single to meet women.

What if you shifted fire and used "game" to gain friends? You're free to use game's self confidence and self improvement to gain friends while in a relationship - and it'll keep your mind focused on that positive attitude, as well as make your relationship more sustainable (women like a social guy, especially one that keeps moving forward with life and doesn't stop everything for her)

ZetaXeABeta · 2016-12-03T03:51:37+00:00

Pretty simple for me. When I'm not in a relationship there is a voice in the back of my head saying, better work out and be positive otherwise your ass is going to be alone forever. In a relationship not so much.

Title	Cannot solve this ongoing problem
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Upvotes	1
Comments	5
Date	December 2, 2016 8:45 PM UTC (9 years ago)
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