Can’t get a day because rumors that “I’m a player”

GuyFromDaStore · 2018-05-08T23:52:09+00:00

Give them a commitment. You are pretty much admitting you are a player since you are hesitant to do so.

Chaddite · 2018-05-09T00:42:13+00:00

If you don't want to be dishonest you might slip that you've been on a long dry spell just because you didn't want to be dishonest and wanted to be open about how you approach relationships and kinda imply that she seems to be the only one who gets it in the town etc.

traceviral · 2018-05-09T00:14:56+00:00

what is polyamorous leaning? those girls most likely date multiple guys at the same time.

judahman8 · 2018-05-09T10:21:10+00:00

I dont do monogamy either. Ive never even been in a monogamous relationship. You cant just twll girls that stuff off rip tho lol thats a huge no no, especially in your situation. You do the normal stuff then when shes already way into you and expecting a relationship she will bring it up.

Once she brings it up you explain that you already view her as your girl and that you dont look at relationships in the conventional way. Your relationships with girl friends are no different than the relationships with guy friends except you are sexually attracted to some of your girl friends so occasionally you have sex.

Say you respect their choice to look for a more conventional relationship but you still love being around her and you hope to remain close wether we have sex or not. Tell her even though shes very attractive and you like having sex with her, thats not why you hangout with her. You don't hangout with your guy froends just to play vidro games you do it because you enjoy their company and like them as individuals.

Think of it like you are actually trying to get in relationships but the rules of the relationships yoy want are different than most. Dont inform them of those rules till they fall for you and its too late. Once they like you enough it wont matter what society thinks.

Title	Can’t get a day because rumors that “I’m a player”
Author	TheMind64
Upvotes	1
Comments	12
Date	May 8, 2018 11:41 PM UTC (8 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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