Okay, so honestly I'm not really that interested in being a "PUA" and trying to sleep with as many girls as possible. I'm not looking for someone that I'm going to be with for years and then marry right now but I do want something more than a short fling. The last two girls I was seeing both ended things after 2 to 3 months for the exact same reason. They told me that they thought I was a great guy and they enjoy hanging out with me but they felt that we were missing a deeper emotional connection. I think part of this is just my personality. I'm a very laid back and not particularly emotional guy but I think another part of it is that I'm doing a lot of the stuff that I've been taught on here (ie not complimenting them and raising their ego, being careful not to show too much interest, etc) which works great for getting the girl but I'm now realizing that it's preventing me from keeping a girl. Anybody else come up against this problem? Any advice on how to get the girl but also keep her?