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[–]Insaneflirt_max 1 point2 points3 points 6 years ago (6 children) | Copy Link
F r i e n d z o n e
[–]redmyvi01 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link
May be yes, maybe no. But I think it's still too early to be classified as such. Thats why I'm looking for advice so it won't be a full fledged friendzoning.
[–]Insaneflirt_max 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
Come on. You're deep into the friend zone. Your case isn't special and it has all the causes and symptoms of the friend zone.
[–]redmyvi01 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
I started chatting her only 5 days ago, can I turn this around master?
[–]Insaneflirt_max 1 point2 points3 points 6 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Probably not.
Approach other girls.
[–]redmyvi01 1 point2 points3 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Thanks!, I can stop wasting my time right now.
[–]Insaneflirt_max 1 point2 points3 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Glad to be helpful. Work on the reasons that put you in the friend zone in the first place and you'll be better off next time you've got a crush
[–]Mhotdemnot 1 point2 points3 points 6 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
I'm not advising for it, but I'm not advising against it. Only thing I'm advising is you tread carefully, you're on uncharted territory there, especially since it's her friend.
[–]redmyvi01 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
What do you think of the chance of possible friendzoning as the other guys suggest?
[–]Mhotdemnot 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
It's hard to really answer that because I'm not seeing you guys interaction, but has she thrown ANY type of hints of taking it more than friends? Even anything subtle?
[–][deleted] 1 point2 points3 points 6 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
Tell her you're doing better than you were and give some space for a while. Upload shit on sc and insta that makes you look like your back out there and having fun. Then hit her up again and have casual conversation then see where you stand w her.
[–]redmyvi01 1 point2 points3 points 6 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
That is what I'm looking for!
[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
You've showed her your bad side, now all you gotta do is show her that that isnt who you really are. This is gonna take a while butbits super important to come off as easy going, anything too quick and forward and shell go right back to your ex and be like "look what _____ said"
[–]redmyvi01 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I've told her something like this
"I don't know why but I don't feel heartbroken at all this time" (Obviously a lie LOL)
And she currently has stopped talking anything at all about my ex, and is quite conversational on the topics I initiated.
[–]Letthepartystart 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Just propose to her and see what's happening! Tell her the truth. Nothing to lose!
[–]dranthah 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
My friend this is the friendzone. Switching away from this ,is going to take much time ..I’d say keep her in mind but also look somewhere else. Also having a girl for a friend can work for your benefit she can introduce you to other girls.
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[–]grrinchas 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago* (4 children) | Copy Link
Jesus.
You want to take advantage of your friend who comforted you when you were having bad time.
No wonder your gf cheated on you...
[–]redmyvi01 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Can you explain why it is taking advantage? I saw good values on her and intended to genuinely know her better. Thank you for your response!
[–]grrinchas 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Cause she feels pity for you and may not want to hurt your feelings even more by saying no.
You are taking advantage of this fact.
Right, Thanks for your insight.
[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
What the fuck kind of advice is this? Dude wants advice and you're gonna judge him for that?
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