getting online dating matches. first couple i did were drinks (i don't drink coffee). paid for girl. getting expensive. I'd be down to go to a scenic park, hang out etc. though I find a public enclosed space (e.g. bar) gets more yes's. QUESTION 1. what should I propose? QUESTION 2. How? e.g. how many messages in? do i first ask her where she lives so we can find a location? should i inquire about her preferences? etc. Thanks!