Philosophy for eye contact?

2stepsfromglory · 2016-02-14T19:56:57+00:00

For me eye contact is one of the most important things, bc is how we express how we are and what are our intentions without words. Eye contact it's something personal that we don't do the same way to a friend or someone which we are interested of. I usually look at her eyes all the time while she's talking. That gives you the impression that you're interested in her but at the same time that you're listening to what she's saying. This avoids the feeling of the "guy that just wants sex" (believe me, a girl can feel this just as the way you look at her). You need to look at her eyes like they are an artwork, but without looking like a wasted dude. If she can do the same or she avoids it but smiles, then it's a good sign. It means that she's interested too, but maybe she's shy. Never look at loads of directions. That gives you an impression of insecurity that it's not going to help you. If all of this does not work for you, just think what would Jesus do.

DaygameCoach · 2016-02-14T21:11:34+00:00

Yes, eye contact with her eyes when listening and speaking.

What do you think... You aren't thinking about what you and she are saying?

Reading emotions is more than just eyes, and should probably get it's own thread. There are books you can buy about it.

NotMyBestEffort · 2016-02-15T03:54:49+00:00

Pick one eye and stay with it, or if that is awkward, look at the bridge of her nose. having a single point of focus helps to keep your gaze from jumping around.

orey87 · 2016-02-15T05:16:32+00:00

Look at her and let your eyes do the talking about your feelings for her :)

SaitamaNormalPunch · 2016-02-15T15:15:17+00:00

I've done a little research and found this. Read the part about Eye contact. It instruct how the movement of the eyes should be and when to do it http://strangersface.com/establishing-rapport-and-trust/

Title	Philosophy for eye contact?
Author	starwars765
Upvotes	32
Comments	14
Date	February 14, 2016 7:31 PM UTC (10 years ago)
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