I've learned to like dancing at the club and can definitely get hype dancing on my own or with a girl. After introducing myself or making eye contact or whatever, I like to take girls by the hand, spin them, put their hands on my head my hands on their waist, dance face to face but apart (not holding her) etc.

Main question:

I read somewhere that girls think it's more of a commitment to hold hands while dancing (and are therefore less willing to do it / pull away) vs you holding her waist / her holding your shoulders/head. Any truth to that? I thought it'd be the other way around since you're much closer physically when holding her waist etc

Other questions:

But was also curious about any other advice/tips/perspectives in general about clubs/dancing - approaching styles (on dance floor/off? what to open with), dancing (fav dance moves? grinding?), and then after (makeout, bring home)