Club game; does it exist?

Mrbumby · 2015-07-21T11:04:28+00:00

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recyclablebantha · 2015-07-21T14:38:16+00:00

Re: Your Supposed Prereqs

In my experience I've noticed there's three prerequisites to pull in a nightclub of which you need at least two.

Physical appeal on par with your 'target',

Hmmm. Not appeal on some universal scale. It's more like: "You need to suit the specific taste of the 'target'." It's not like there's some scale that everyone is on. So worrying about this, is kind of pointless. You just need to approach and see how far you get, and in doing so, you find out if you fit their taste or not.

very good at dancing,

Not quite. You don't need to be good, just have fun with the dancing. And overall, it's about enjoying the activity of the venue.

or a wacky attitude that says you're here to have fun and not just to pull (maybe some crazy glasses or glow in the dark contacts).

Fun, yes. Outcome independence, yes. Props, no. It helps when you are bringing fun to the equation because people go out to have fun. As opposed to if you're looking for fun and not able to have it on your own. And it helps if you are able to interact with people without a need for a particular agenda or outcome. Because two people who are just meeting each other, really have no idea if they are attracted until they get to know each other at least a little.

Re: Your Assessment of Your Liabilities. It's Incorrect

I'm no Tyler Durden, I can't pull girls without words (which are completely out of the question when you're eardrums are bursting to the music).

You don't need to be Tyler Durden. You might be exaggerating but this is a bit ridiculous.

In any case, night clubs are not built around the activity of talking. Loud music + dancing = you are not going to be opening people as effectively with words. If you walk up to someone at a loud club and try to open them, it's like walking up to a guy playing in a match at a LAN party, and demanding that he takes off his headphones to talk to you. Not a good way to start off.

Nightclubs are built around dancing and loud music, so you're looking at non-verbal openers for your best and most fun time. Eye contact. Dancing.

I can't dance very well

You just need to enjoy dancing and have fun with the music. You don't need to be a professional. If you really like dancing and want to know how, take a hip-hop class or something. If you don't like dancing, DON'T go to clubs. Find another place. Go to a bar or something.

I usually punch above my weight in terms of physical attractiveness.

Looks don't matter in the way you think. There's no way you can just look at a girl and magically know what her personal tastes are. But you can screw yourself out of a chance if you assume you're not attractive to girls before you even try. Because people will pick up that lack of confidence and it's unattractive.

bond_james_throwaway · 2015-07-21T11:52:59+00:00

clubs are my hunting grounds.

first of all: it is important that you like the venue. you should like the crowd, the music, the vibe. if you wouldn't go there just for yourself than it is the wrong place for you.

the dancefloor is a starting point for me. i actively look for eye contact, smile. i try to leave some sort of impression. again ... it is very very important that you are having fun while on the dancefloor. otherwise you will look creepy.

this can quickly escalate into directly making out, since, and there you are right, there is no point in starting long conversations while dancing.

then you always have the spots which are quieter, like the bar, or even better a chill out area. chill out areas are a gold mine.

between dancing and loud music, everyone needs a break and is into communication.

i either bring a girl directly from the dancefloor to the chill out area or i do my rounds there once in while to look for girls i had eye contact and smile exchanges before.

the rest is usual game...

to sum it up: know your venue and like it. be active with non verbal communication like smiling and waving. bring her to quieter place.

Swankymcdoogle · 2015-07-28T10:50:04+00:00

Dance with her. Compliment her and her friends on their dancing or something silly they're wearing. Talk to her. Tell her a little about yourself. Make sure you're feeling nice and "light" before this. Get her number. Show her you wrote her name in your phone as "Stacy, the sexy nerd" or "Roadtrippin Elena" if she told you about how she likes science fiction or just came back from a road trip or something.

Then, lock eyes and grind away. Maybe give her some space with her own friends for a while. When it's time to go, say like, hey it's getting late, wanna come back to my place to watch harry potter and fuck? lol just kidding that's a little direct but if you both like Justin timberlake or something say you wanna have a dance party at your place with drinks. Make sure you have drinks.

karimpii · 2015-07-23T18:52:14+00:00

Lots of people fake having fun or being the life of the party. In day to day stuff, girls have a harder time telling the difference. In nightclubs, it becomes clear who's faking it to up their social approval and who's actually having/giving fun. Go to a club that plays music you like, have a few drinks with friends. in my experience, doing that has been a double edge sword for me. Il often refuse to risk throwing off my fun vibe by approaching anyone and getting shut down. So just don't get too comfortable to where Ud stay as is instead of approaching.

AtIeeK_5i9 · 2015-07-21T11:43:28+00:00

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Title	Club game; does it exist?
Author	throwawaysedddit
Upvotes	6
Comments	6
Date	July 21, 2015 9:05 AM UTC (11 years ago)
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Re: Your Supposed Prereqs

Re: Your Assessment of Your Liabilities. It's Incorrect