Hey everyone, so I did my first cold approach just a few hours ago bros and it went surprisingly well. I got like an 8-9s number and I never thought I could pull someone so attractive. (Context- I just came out if a 6 year relationship and my confidence was shattered, I'm really overweight(dropped 30 pounds though and still pushing kings) and awkward. Me and my friend and his two other friends went to a club in the next city over. I never been to the clubs so I had no idea what the deal was. They said it was dead.) Anyway, so I saw a post in here talking about eye contact and just focus on getting a number and enjoying your night( I thought we were leaving too bc the club was <dead>) anyway I watched this beautiful woman for about 30 mins while trying to figure out what's going on and my friend and these two other guys(suppossed players) were just standing around so I was like fuck this and approach this woman.

I tapped her on the shoulder and said excuse me I don't mean to bother I just thought you were so beautiful. She said thankyou. I asked her for her name and told her mine. Then I asked her if she wanted me to buy her a drink she said she doesnt drink(probably a dd) so then I asked for her number and she said to hit her up whenever she leaves. I texted her when I saw she left after a fee minutes and the numbers legit boys. I also got her snap too.

I also cold approached 4 other women(got turned down by 2 one was married and I got to dance with the other for a bit before I left. I was feeling really down because of my negative experiences with tinder and other dating apps these past few days and now I feel fucking great. Point is you can do it kings! Edit-also rejection isn't all that bad either.