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| 41 | things I've messed up while I was dating for the first time | Field Report | hoothoot6996 | /r/seduction | 05/12/21 01:19 AM |
| 8 | went to some dates, it is clear that there is mutual attraction but nothing comes from it | Escalation & Calibration | hoothoot6996 | /r/seduction | 26/11/21 04:02 AM |
| 4 | I ended things with her but I can't stop thinking about what could have happened | Lifestyle | hoothoot6996 | /r/seduction | 05/12/21 05:51 PM |
| 3 | I'm sitting here with this girl I've known in her bedroom watching horror movie. How do I escalate things for a quick hookup | hoothoot6996 | /r/seduction | 11/03/22 11:51 PM | |
| 1 | Dumping me 4 mo ago because she didn't like commitment, engaged 1.5 mo after to dude she left me for, pregnant 1mo after that, he left 2 weeks after that, then trying to rope me in as step daddy. | Marriage/Children | hoothoot6996 | /r/MensRights | 01/08/21 09:37 AM |
| 0 | Update on my previous post and Vent | Escalation & Calibration | hoothoot6996 | /r/seduction | 02/12/21 12:01 AM |
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| 2 | How to talk to older women/milfs, are they into younger guys at all?no no… hes got a point | /r/seduction | 21/07/22 10:38 PM |
| 1 | Do people really have amazing sex lives and adventurous stories from college? I feel like I'm missing out a lot!Nah fam don’t believe everything guys say, Sometimes they be saying that they fuck every week or something but it’s really like they have fucked once and never after | /r/seduction | 21/07/22 05:22 PM |
| 1 | Why do women say they don't like players yet they feel attracted to guys with options and a lot of experience in bed?Nope with roght clothing and physical fitness you can look sexy af when bald | /r/seduction | 04/07/22 02:59 PM |
| 2 | Why do women say they don't like players yet they feel attracted to guys with options and a lot of experience in bed?EXACTLY MY GUY!!! | /r/seduction | 04/07/22 03:24 AM |
| 2 | Why do women say they don't like players yet they feel attracted to guys with options and a lot of experience in bed?Good luck my bro | /r/seduction | 04/07/22 01:33 AM |
| 7 | Why do women say they don't like players yet they feel attracted to guys with options and a lot of experience in bed?You can work on that though. Talk to at least 3 random girls every day. Good weather, good food wtv. Main thing is try to read the room. If someone looks sad, frustrated, happy, non chalant, curious ect. Then try to go with that. you don’t have to make deep connection on the first talk just talk | /r/seduction | 04/07/22 01:08 AM |
| 11 | Why do women say they don't like players yet they feel attracted to guys with options and a lot of experience in bed?You can definitely present your physical sense better by taking care of your body, working out, eating healthy, good haircut. While we are at it next time you goto barber, tell them to line up your eyebrows as well. Will change the way you look | /r/seduction | 04/07/22 12:54 AM |
| 7 | Why do women say they don't like players yet they feel attracted to guys with options and a lot of experience in bed?All in all, pay attention to what people do not what they say,specifically in this regard women. As it goes, actions speak louder than words Could not have said myself better | /r/seduction | 03/07/22 10:29 PM |
| 23 | Why do women say they don't like players yet they feel attracted to guys with options and a lot of experience in bed?I do believe attraction plays a huge role but another theory of mine is that they like the excitement. Think about it, when a man can get a lot of girls, but at the present the guy is with one girl, she will think that she outperformed many girls who she thinks is hotter than her. Theres a sense of achievement. The thought that youre out with your guy and a ton of girls want that guy too but he is YOUR guy, I believe that gives them a sense of achievement. It’s exciting to be with a hot guy who … | /r/seduction | 03/07/22 09:25 PM |
| 213 | Why do women say they don't like players yet they feel attracted to guys with options and a lot of experience in bed?I do believe attraction plays a huge role but another theory of mine is that they like the excitement. Think about it, when a man can get a lot of girls, but at the present the guy is with one girl, she will think that she outperformed many girls who she thinks is hotter than her. Theres a sense of achievement. The thought that youre out with your guy and a ton of girls want that guy too but he is YOUR guy, I believe that gives them a sense of achievement. It’s exciting to be with a hot guy who … | /r/seduction | 03/07/22 09:23 PM |
| 1 | My best friends mom just took my virginity .. sex is so awesome!x | /r/seduction | 02/07/22 01:20 AM |
| 4 | The “Age knowing” thingNah this a bad advice, alot of women get offended when asked age. This coming from experience | /r/seduction | 01/07/22 11:15 PM |
| 2 | Getting depressed from lack of sexual experience and lonelinessNah bro just get promoted and fuck the lower enlisted. Be a Soldier! | /r/seduction | 01/07/22 06:29 AM |
| 1 | Why is a woman's attraction to a man so unstable?Watch its complicated channel on youtube, after many responses from women you will learn that theyre just like that and we should change ourselves to think like they do when it comes to dating | /r/seduction | 07/06/22 06:24 PM |
| 1 | Should I escalate or did I miss this window already?tbh you don't have to deal with her. you got more important shit to focus on. fuck her, don't text her. you don't need her anymore, you don't owe her anything. focus on you my brother | /r/seduction | 09/05/22 12:52 AM |
| 3 | DM'd a girl, I am on delivered for 2 days...bro dont expect girls to give you a clear cut message saying shes not into you. Learn to translate no replies to "i am not interested in you" like a man | /r/seduction | 09/05/22 12:41 AM |
| 1 | Should I move on from this girl?"hey listen i have this thing(insert something fun that you love doing), you wanna join me?" if she says "no sorry i am busy" move on. If she says,"no sorry i am busy that day but i am free some other day" you've got a chance. If she says yes, and when you're at the event, let her be known that you like her (with your action, NOT with your words) good luck | /r/seduction | 09/05/22 12:36 AM |
| 1 | Should I escalate or did I miss this window already?man its so difficult to read this with bad format, if you can edit it and make it more like a convo between you and her, itd be better for everyone but from what i gathered you came off as friendly and real dude. I think based on this interaction, she now sees you as a friend | /r/seduction | 09/05/22 12:29 AM |
| 5 | A girl likes me but has a boyfriendimo I see a future where she drops op and goes for another dude | /r/seduction | 05/05/22 10:14 PM |
| 9 | A girl likes me but has a boyfriendnah if she's willing to leave her bf for op then she'll be willing to leave op for another man. that's a no go. | /r/seduction | 05/05/22 10:14 PM |
| 12 | A girl likes me but has a boyfriendnope nope nope nope bro stop thinking about her. have some self respect. if she wanted you she'd be with you. not put you as a emotional support friend. wtf is that tell her to get emotional support from her bf get out stop no go | /r/seduction | 05/05/22 10:12 PM |
| 1 | Went to club last night and I had the worst experience. How do guys do it so well?good luck my brother | /r/seduction | 05/05/22 08:15 PM |
| 1 | Went to club last night and I had the worst experience. How do guys do it so well?I understand how a simple gesture against you can make you feel really bad about yourself. it happens, and in your case it happened alot. it's totally valid to feel that way. what I'd suggest is taking a break with getting girls. try to not think about how to get girls, or what other girls or anyone think about you. do your own thing, have fun, sing karaoke, go visit new places in Spain. what I'm saying is take a break from dating and have fun once in a while, enjoy the solitude for a while. get… | /r/seduction | 05/05/22 08:10 PM |
| 1 | What are your go to flirting/escalation things when you're on a date?Eyecontact and slight touch like back of the arm, their back, touching them when you're making jokes but not too awkwardly or creepily just a playful touch | /r/seduction | 05/05/22 06:53 PM |
| 1 | Went to club last night and I had the worst experience. How do guys do it so well?Bro if any girl disrespects you just for wanting to talk, it's definitely not the girl you should be thinking about. If I was in your shoes(i am South-Asian as well) I would be like damn fuck you too then. And keep enjoying myself, drinking, and striking a convo with the guys around me. Fuck those girls, who cares about them. Keep your head up king! | /r/seduction | 05/05/22 06:46 PM |
| 8 | Went to club last night and I had the worst experience. How do guys do it so well?He went to a club in Spain. He came out of the club in pain. | /r/seduction | 05/05/22 06:43 PM |
| 2 | How can an average female date an attractive male? Someone “out of my league”?funny, laid back and doesn't take silly jokes seriously. but you should not let others walk all over you. I swear I fell in love with this girl. at first I didn't care about her as she was just a coworker and I had no plans on dating coworker. she was average, I was average but slowly I saw her personality oh Lord was I in love. she's the coolest laid back jokester | /r/seduction | 01/05/22 09:18 PM |
| 1 | Any books on the topic? I have zero experience in this field 29maleDating Essentials for men | /r/seduction | 26/04/22 08:38 PM |
| 18 | Go to a Salsa/Bachata classes to improve your game.damn if its like highschool, i dont want to do it | /r/seduction | 19/04/22 10:59 PM |
| 10 | Go to a Salsa/Bachata classes to improve your game.yes I always wanted to learn salsa or just dancing at the least. I have no idea where to though | /r/seduction | 19/04/22 10:49 PM |
| 2 | Why are men so confusingthis | /r/seduction | 14/04/22 11:33 AM |
| 27 | Most effective flirting tip for all (has never failed me!)no way u/FloridaMan2022 | /r/seduction | 11/04/22 04:09 AM |
| 2 | How do rich dudes get women at a large scale?https://gfycat.com/backpitifulcrow-mr-robot-series-show Money and Cockyness(that looks like confidence on the outside) | /r/seduction | 11/04/22 03:37 AM |
| 4 | how to get hard with a womanwell idk, I think you should go to doctor as a last resort. Tell them about your issue, maybe they can help | /r/seduction | 10/04/22 04:49 PM |
| 7 | how to get hard with a womanii meant like have you tried building an emotional connection with your partner before having sex? | /r/seduction | 10/04/22 02:20 PM |
| 19 | how to get hard with a womanmaybe you get off on connection with the woman, not just hookups. Have you tried that yet? | /r/seduction | 10/04/22 04:47 AM |
| 2 | 23F fucked around with 36 men, now she wants to settle gets rejected by men left and rightyeah he slept with my best friend :( | /r/PussyPassDenied | 04/04/22 01:28 AM |
| 10 | 23F fucked around with 36 men, now she wants to settle gets rejected by men left and rightdamn mine is -1 | /r/PussyPassDenied | 03/04/22 09:04 PM |
| 1 | “Be more involved in our relationship”sounds like she's got another Jodi. Same thing happened to me, I called it off. and guess what she's with Jodi now. I sometimes regret because she was really pretty but hey she didn't like me as much as she does to Jodi so I am cool | /r/seduction | 03/04/22 03:08 PM |
| 1 | Always oblivious to the signsI like that response. I would def use that if I was him | /r/seduction | 22/03/22 04:13 AM |
| 1 | Always oblivious to the signsnah I don't think you are friend zoned. get that answer from her, chill and be relaxed and maybe invite her for some drinks at your place when the situation feels right. if she denies, you have your answer. if she agrees well you know what to do | /r/seduction | 22/03/22 04:12 AM |
| 3 | Need help!nah man I think she just wanted to be polite and not flag out reject you when you gave her your phone to put her number in. Think about it, for an average kinda shy girl, it's difficult to flat out reject someone then constantly see them on Sundays. That's why she gave you her number. If she was the one that asked for your insta, she is interested in being friends with you. and about the short flim thing, she might have felt pressured to say yes idk though just my speculation sounds complicated … | /r/seduction | 22/03/22 02:26 AM |
| 1 | Always oblivious to the signsshe said she doesn't want a project. I think she meant she doesn't want relationship and only wants fling. but really it could be anything she meant. I guess we'll never know | /r/seduction | 22/03/22 02:19 AM |
| 2 | Cold approachwill definitely do so. thank you | /r/seduction | 12/03/22 05:57 PM |
| 2 | Cold approachhell yeah I appreciate it my guy | /r/seduction | 12/03/22 05:37 PM |
| 1 | I'm sitting here with this girl I've known in her bedroom watching horror movie. How do I escalate things for a quick hookupyou sly mothefucker let's goo !!! | /r/seduction | 12/03/22 05:17 PM |
| 2 | I'm sitting here with this girl I've known in her bedroom watching horror movie. How do I escalate things for a quick hookupoh eh who cares, I'd just get up and walk out. Same thing I did yesterday | /r/seduction | 12/03/22 05:06 PM |
| 1 | I'm sitting here with this girl I've known in her bedroom watching horror movie. How do I escalate things for a quick hookupwym the girl felt some type of way | /r/seduction | 12/03/22 04:58 PM |
| 4 | I'm sitting here with this girl I've known in her bedroom watching horror movie. How do I escalate things for a quick hookupI got her to doggy but guess what my dick said, "I'm tired and I am so sleepy, I am going to sleep" This One fucking time I needed my dick to work but mother fucker said fuck this shit I'm out what a dick | /r/seduction | 12/03/22 04:53 PM |
| 3 | Cold approachI'm 20 and go to college. I can't go to club as of rn do you think it'd be okay to approach girls in my school? I feel like if I get rejected and then somehow next semester she will be in my class and it's going to be awkward any advice? | /r/seduction | 12/03/22 03:50 PM |
| 5 | Cold approachwhere do you do this? like do you normally ask these girls for their number at a bar? or somewhere else? | /r/seduction | 12/03/22 03:46 PM |
| 2 | I'm sitting here with this girl I've known in her bedroom watching horror movie. How do I escalate things for a quick hookupI did. it was extremely awkward | /r/seduction | 12/03/22 03:57 AM |
| 2 | I'm sitting here with this girl I've known in her bedroom watching horror movie. How do I escalate things for a quick hookupprobably a dude 🤣🤣 | /r/seduction | 12/03/22 03:09 AM |
| 11 | I'm sitting here with this girl I've known in her bedroom watching horror movie. How do I escalate things for a quick hookupGood News Everyone and also a bad news. I was able to get her on top of me, and she was grinding her ass on my dick, I was sucking her tits. I then pursuaded her to do the deed. It took a long fuckin time but eventually I got her in doggy. but then bad news hits and I can't perform 😅 then I left and am at Starbucks writing this down | /r/seduction | 12/03/22 02:56 AM |
| -1 | How to improve general confidence?I guess quit that and drink more water. I'm no therapist but your low self confidence could come from trauma in the past, so if you have been victim of abuse, I'd suggest seek therapy even if you've not, I still suggest seeking therapy because you can learn so many things about yourself from therapy | /r/seduction | 11/03/22 05:22 PM |
| 7 | How to improve general confidence?do you jack off alot? | /r/seduction | 11/03/22 04:12 AM |
| 4 | Emotionally unstable girlDon't put your dick in that | /r/seduction | 11/03/22 01:59 AM |
| 1 | How to be confident in Conversations?holy shit I never thought of that and I'm not being sarcastic. bro you just changed my life. thank you man | /r/seduction | 11/03/22 12:20 AM |
| 6 | Spring Break 22how would you learn if you don't fuck up. you can't be perfect without fucking up. my boys made fun of me for over a year when I tried to flirt with this new chick in my workplace. Who cares man, just laugh with them. and when it's your turn, laugh at the guys too when they fuck up | /r/seduction | 10/03/22 11:43 PM |
| 5 | Girl thought I just wanted to hang out.wut engaged? man Idk it seems like you can still hit its just she doesn't want to admit it | /r/seduction | 10/03/22 11:35 PM |
| 2 | How to be confident in Conversations?see my problem is when I make eye contact Instead of looking at their mouth when they speak, I can't listen at all. Its like I've been looking at peoples mouth when they speak since I was a kid. I make eye contact and now I can't hear anything they're saying | /r/seduction | 10/03/22 11:33 PM |
| 3 | Shy Student, Help Neededwhat not to do is say,"I like you" to her bro never say that shit. it puts them in a dilemma on what to answer so they will either try to ignore it or it will make your friendship weird and she wont wanna see you again | /r/seduction | 10/03/22 08:54 PM |
| 12 | My new GF (4 months in) is perfect in every way except 1…..FOR THE SHEETS TOO | /r/seduction | 10/03/22 08:51 PM |
| 10 | Forgot how to make a moveThey seem comfortable with you. Id suggest make an eye contact little longer, then look at their lips and back at their eyes. If they have their full attention on you, lean in and do the deed | /r/seduction | 10/03/22 08:46 PM |
| 2 | Getting IOIs for the first time in my life, unsure how to reactnp feel free to dm me if you need anything | /r/seduction | 10/03/22 05:13 PM |
| 4 | Getting IOIs for the first time in my life, unsure how to reactI went through the same thing when I had first glowup during my hs senior year. The previous year I was nobody, senior year hits, I turn 18. Girls were looking at me, initiating more convos, wanting to touch my hair. just want to be in the same vicinity around me. First I was so wierded out because going from nobody to getting hit on was weird af. Then I started to actually talk to them as any other human being. I was not good at flirting as I've never did that before but slowly it all started a… | /r/seduction | 10/03/22 05:00 PM |
| 21 | Getting IOIs for the first time in my life, unsure how to reacttalk more laugh more have fun with them like they just other human | /r/seduction | 10/03/22 03:31 PM |
| 2 | What to doI say take her words for this time. Keep talking to her but if she stops responding or that you start really seeing different energy than the one she's giving you right now. it could be one of two things. either she's not interested or (after reading your post I'd say) that something bad happened in NY. when you said you would pray for her, it's a gesture that you care for her, so if she's little distant talk to her ask her if everything went well in NY. give a shoulder to cry on if something di… | /r/seduction | 10/03/22 03:54 AM |
| 16 | What to doman you can only find that out when you call her. Be cool ask her questions don't judge her, flirt a little is it's the appropriate time and if it's reciprocated | /r/seduction | 10/03/22 03:49 AM |
| 1 | Things are finally workingsaving this comment | /r/seduction | 09/03/22 04:39 AM |
| 4 | Need advice dating an older womanJoe Mama | /r/seduction | 30/12/21 10:10 PM |
| 3 | Need advice dating an older womanI don't think a Sike is coming | /r/seduction | 30/12/21 10:09 PM |
| 3 | Girl I am seeing playing mind games, showing some interest and then not showing any at all. Rollercoasternah it's too much mind investment with no results. There's going to be better women, hell she's not even in a relationship with him, he got plenty of fish in the sea. Ain't got no time to be worrying about some girl who flakes on you and comes back when she bored. you like those type of stupid girls, go for it but don't advise his innocent ass to go after someone who gives flying fucks about him | /r/seduction | 30/12/21 02:26 AM |
| 2 | Girl I am seeing playing mind games, showing some interest and then not showing any at all. Rollercoasterno bro stop taking these stupid suggestions. She's manipulating you and will get worse in the future. Run man. You are only listening to what you want to hear. Cut contacts, she's only using you for attention and will ditch you the moment she finds someone | /r/seduction | 29/12/21 08:57 PM |
| 2 | Girl I am seeing playing mind games, showing some interest and then not showing any at all. RollercoasterSay it for the people in the back | /r/seduction | 29/12/21 08:55 PM |
| 2 | Girl I am seeing playing mind games, showing some interest and then not showing any at all. Rollercoasternah I don't see the point of doing this. That's just stupid mind games, he will be basically giving his time to some girl when she wants it. He's giving her power. fuck that, plus he's not getting anything in return fuck it | /r/seduction | 29/12/21 08:54 PM |
| 2 | What I learned about seduction from nearly dying tonight…nope you're wrong. That is absolutely it from what I've learned. If you are okay with yourself, despite of having a gf or not, that's a huge confidence boost for you. If you think he's wrong, please share why you think they're wrong, I'd love to know. | /r/seduction | 29/12/21 01:22 PM |
| 4 | Do you think women know what average guys go through with dating?yep what he said was clear ignorance. Kinda getting incel vibes from him | /r/seduction | 28/12/21 08:15 PM |
| 2 | [deleted by user]yeap that's a good move | /r/seduction | 28/12/21 07:05 PM |
| 2 | [deleted by user]just letting you know if the thing persists, don't text her back, because shes hinting that she doesn't want anything from you. | /r/seduction | 28/12/21 04:24 PM |
| 6 | Fuck buddy acting crazybruh it's just a fuck buddy fuck that buddy | /r/seduction | 23/12/21 04:44 AM |
| 12 | I am a ladies man. Why can't women see that?nice. Forget about those ladies, become your own lady and become your own man. Be your own ladies man | /r/seduction | 23/12/21 03:00 AM |
| 6 | Do you keep a list?yeah I keep a list of girls Ive slept with. It's as long as my penis:'( | /r/seduction | 20/12/21 04:14 PM |
| 1 | Is bragging about nudes in your dms really that impressive?yep also how there are people in highschool and even in college that claim they get new girl every week, but when you're out with them won't even talk to a girl. Same thing here, they might have pulled one or two girls but they show it as they're pulling girls left and right | /r/seduction | 20/12/21 02:11 PM |
| 10 | I need a pickup line for a girl named Bambithen say ngl you kinda cute doe | /r/seduction | 17/12/21 01:38 AM |
| 2 | Got her phone number, now what?yeah noodles on first date will be cool if you invite her to your place and cook | /r/seduction | 13/12/21 04:20 AM |
| 12 | Going out as friends, should I?abundance. | /r/seduction | 11/12/21 04:37 PM |
| 14 | Was this girl into me?she didn't say anything she went back to her friend group that were standing a bit far looking at me and giggling | /r/seduction | 09/12/21 10:04 PM |
| 3 | [deleted by user]I'm 20 can't take em to a bar. Plus I've only dated once. let me know if you got some better place, I'm open to learning | /r/seduction | 09/12/21 10:02 PM |
| 71 | Was this girl into me?Reminds me of the time when I was filling my water bottle at the fountain and a girl approached me. Her: "ay yo ma lemme get yo number" Me being an immigrant who could hardly speak English "why?" I still cringe to this day | /r/seduction | 09/12/21 05:37 PM |
| 2 | [deleted by user]Simple and easy. What I did for the first date was take her to a fastfood restaurant or any not bad place works. I don't recommend taking them to overly expensive date, cuz yk it's the first date. Then after you're done eating, I'd recommend taking a walk around the downtown and talking. Idk sounds boring but it's really fun if they're interested | /r/seduction | 09/12/21 04:05 PM |
| 0 | [deleted by user]This. | /r/seduction | 09/12/21 04:02 PM |
| 7 | [deleted by user]fr man same here lost a 10/10 girl cuz I chickened out. She started playing games like making excuses on why she can't go on dates. I asked her twice, I realized it that she lost her interest. ended it a day later. it is what it is, shit happens but I like your advice to him. I'm thinking that might work | /r/seduction | 07/12/21 02:31 AM |
| 3 | [deleted by user]yep it's a win. you got it. go with the flow, it the flow stops, it is what it is | /r/seduction | 06/12/21 05:44 AM |
| 1 | writing letters to your crushes should come backI love it man. When I was in the boot camp, my friends used to get all kinds of shits from their girls, like this one time his girl sent him nudes with her perfume on it and all this shits that couples do. | /r/seduction | 06/12/21 04:13 AM |
| 6 | [deleted by user]I guess see them as a human with similar values as you. Say hi to everyone, even the ones you think aren't particularly pretty/handsome. Slowly you'll see them as no different than you. And when you actually like someone, you see them as a friend who you want to fuck. I'm still a rookie and I've actually experienced this. Thus this is from my pov but not sure about everyones. | /r/seduction | 06/12/21 02:39 AM |
| 2 | I ended things with her but I can't stop thinking about what could have happenedthank you u/random_af_guy. that is a great insight. | /r/seduction | 05/12/21 11:37 PM |
| 6 | First time cold approaching a woman went well, but turned weird....lol that gave me a chuckle. thank you for that | /r/seduction | 05/12/21 10:11 PM |
| 4 | No, I won't dress up like a fuccboi!what you can do imo is develop on your appearance. You have an identity of who you are. Make it clean and look cool! | /r/seduction | 05/12/21 10:03 PM |
| 1 | I ended things with her but I can't stop thinking about what could have happenedyeah, I muted her on the only thing we are connected on, that is Snapchat. Won't be able to see her story, or anything, unless I directly search her up and look at her profile. And I don't plan on doing that. Plus I'm going full on no contact as we met through tinder and where she lives, I have no reason to go in the general area. Except maybe for the Icecream place. The only thing is she works close to that place. I'm not going to go there every day or something just occasionally I appreciate y… | /r/seduction | 05/12/21 09:59 PM |
| 2 | I ended things with her but I can't stop thinking about what could have happenedright. I've been told since not long ago that I've had a glow up. I actually had a glow up, started putting more effort in my physical appearance. But my mindset is still in that highschool, "everyone thinks I'm ugly", "everyones judging me". While those awful thoughts have certainly gotten better, it is taking me some time to be comfortable to ask out a girl I know. Previously I couldn't even talk to strangers, but after I joined the army, I could definitely see what I'm capable of doing physic… | /r/seduction | 05/12/21 09:11 PM |
| 2 | [deleted by user]Cool. That's all | /r/seduction | 05/12/21 08:12 PM |
| 4 | I ended things with her but I can't stop thinking about what could have happenedI don't have alot of friends so there's little help from the social network, that's why I used tinder. and yes it was the first date of my life, I'm 20M virgin. I've had tinder on and off for about 2 years and I've had chances in the past from tinder but I was too scared/shy. I appreciate your advice | /r/seduction | 05/12/21 08:10 PM |
| 2 | I ended things with her but I can't stop thinking about what could have happenedappreciate it. gotta work on myself | /r/seduction | 05/12/21 07:02 PM |
| 46 | First time cold approaching a woman went well, but turned weird....lol who knew they were a couple, the clearly lesbian was probably jealous or something. Ay least that's what I gather from your post. | /r/seduction | 05/12/21 03:59 PM |
| 7 | Shoot. Your. Shot.yeah it fuckin would have been once in a lifetime experience. I don't get roadhead like I get itch on my balls . hell Ive never gotten road head | /r/seduction | 05/12/21 03:39 PM |
| 8 | just finished my first solo and here is how it went note all of this is in germanygreat job you socializing fucker. lol | /r/seduction | 05/12/21 08:52 AM |
| 16 | Shoot. Your. Shot.the one that gets you laid ;) | /r/seduction | 05/12/21 05:50 AM |
| 77 | Shoot. Your. Shot.man hit a jackpot and acted like it was nothing lmao | /r/seduction | 05/12/21 05:50 AM |
| 1 | things I've messed up while I was dating for the first timeRight! There's a fine line where you start getting comfortable. Cross that line and boom you're over sharing. It's difficult for everyone to no go overboard with it because some girl they like is showing alot of interest on their (touch-starved) life. That's why I say that. | /r/seduction | 05/12/21 05:27 AM |
| 3 | things I've messed up while I was dating for the first timeyep just keep learning. that's how one gets better. | /r/seduction | 05/12/21 04:36 AM |
| 1 | things I've messed up while I was dating for the first timeI appreciate you man! You're cool af. Good luck to you too my friend! | /r/seduction | 05/12/21 04:05 AM |
| 5 | things I've messed up while I was dating for the first timeit is what it is. On the flip side, She helped me better my game🤷♀️ PS: I like your username, my PSN is similar it's DancingBuddha | /r/seduction | 05/12/21 03:58 AM |
| 13 | [deleted by user]don't think like will she like me? Think like this, will I like her? you'll do fine man, always remember whatever's the outcome is, you'll be fine. if it actually becomes something, great! but If it doesn't go anywhere, hell you are back to where you started and what did you lose? nothing. She was never yours so you never lost her. | /r/seduction | 05/12/21 01:28 AM |
| 1 | Update on my previous post and VentI appreciate it bro. I'm thinking I'm just gonna go by myself enjoy the night in solitude, listening to music and smoking and chilling. Ill probably not ask her for now | /r/seduction | 02/12/21 12:49 AM |
| 1 | Update on my previous post and VentI should have kissed her, I thought about it but tbh I really was scared of rejection. Hell I've not even kissed anyone ever. What do I do if I leaned in for a kiss and she rejected it? The only thing I can think of is it'll be awkward after the rejection. Okay I'm taking notes on being confident about the sexual moves and me as a man should take control. Texting should be limited for dates and logistics? wym by logistics? Listen, I usually go on a late night drive. I'm thinking about going agai… | /r/seduction | 02/12/21 12:34 AM |
| 2 | went to some dates, it is clear that there is mutual attraction but nothing comes from itwow thank you for taking your time to comment. I will definitely use this. Thank you so much kind stranger | /r/seduction | 26/11/21 08:18 AM |
| 1 | went to some dates, it is clear that there is mutual attraction but nothing comes from ityes sir I totally understand that. I m going to college close to my house, so living at my parents is saving me good money | /r/seduction | 26/11/21 06:14 AM |
| 1 | went to some dates, it is clear that there is mutual attraction but nothing comes from itWell one time we were talking and things came up about our past relationships. She told me that she had a bf and she vaguely said, "he never asked me to.." and then she changed the topic which i believe she was trying to say that she was a virgin. I'm not sure and I don't really care much about her past relationships. How do I approach this situation? | /r/seduction | 26/11/21 06:13 AM |
| 2 | went to some dates, it is clear that there is mutual attraction but nothing comes from itthat's a good idea. I appreciate your feedback | /r/seduction | 26/11/21 05:13 AM |
| 2 | went to some dates, it is clear that there is mutual attraction but nothing comes from itI have thought about that, and that's a great approach. But the thing is I'm in my late teen years and still live with my parents. My conservative immigrant parents doesn't want me dating someone outside of our ethnicity. I thought about her place but she lives with a relative and told me that she doesn't want to involve her lovelife with them. So yeah kinda in a dilemma. I thought about movie theater but we can't get intimate in public. So I'm not really sure where I can take her. What I'm thin… | /r/seduction | 26/11/21 04:46 AM |
| 5 | Just did my (22M) first cold approach today!hahah that diamond comparison had me rolling but what I do is just say hi or how you doing to as many girls I find attractive as possible. That doesn't mean I don't talk to girls that I'm not attracted towards. but yeah I'm proud of you for doing that | /r/seduction | 26/11/21 04:05 AM |
| 32 | If you believe a liar, doesn't that mean there was no rape!?that's fucked up | /r/MensRights | 28/07/21 02:27 PM |
| 2 | Surgeon is divorcing beauty queen wife after discovering 'history of sex work', court papers allege"ah shit my bad, i didn't know it was a trend. sorry babe I'll take you back. c'mere baby girl aww I'm soo swowwy🥺* STFU | /r/MensRights | 27/07/21 12:56 PM |
| 40 | Surgeon is divorcing beauty queen wife after discovering 'history of sex work', court papers allegedamn never graduated high school? holy shit | /r/MensRights | 27/07/21 04:49 AM |
| 20 | Surgeon is divorcing beauty queen wife after discovering 'history of sex work', court papers allegehe looks classy, but was married to a trashy | /r/MensRights | 27/07/21 04:48 AM |
| 1 | I(18M) had a huge crush on a coworker (18f) of mine but turns out she's been secretly dating another coworker (28M) of mine.so I should just consider as my workmate? and nothing more I mean we don't even talk outside of work so yeah just workmate then | /r/seduction | 25/07/20 12:44 AM |
| 2 | I(18M) had a huge crush on a coworker (18f) of mine but turns out she's been secretly dating another coworker (28M) of mine.Getting over her is the right thing to do right now. I should focus more on myself and trying to do what's best for me from now on | /r/seduction | 24/07/20 02:55 PM |
| 2 | I(18M) had a huge crush on a coworker (18f) of mine but turns out she's been secretly dating another coworker (28M) of mine.Yes that's what I said to myself this morning. I'm gonna keep being friends cuz like we work together and all but yeah I'm gonna move on | /r/seduction | 24/07/20 02:54 PM |
| 1 | I(18M) had a huge crush on a coworker (18f) of mine but turns out she's been secretly dating another coworker (28M) of mine.yeah so what I'm gonna do is be friends with her cuz we see each other like everyday at work. am not gonna bring any crush or romantic shit ever and just move on | /r/seduction | 24/07/20 02:52 PM |
| 1 | I(18M) had a huge crush on a coworker (18f) of mine but turns out she's been secretly dating another coworker (28M) of mine.yeah I will but what do I tell her though. I mean her bf already told her that I admitted that I've crush on her. idk what else to talk about | /r/seduction | 24/07/20 05:19 AM |
| 1 | I(18M) had a huge crush on a coworker (18f) of mine but turns out she's been secretly dating another coworker (28M) of mine.naw I don't think you get it. I got this job at the start of June, a month and a half ago, she'd known him for about 6 month. and they only started dating around a month ago | /r/seduction | 24/07/20 05:17 AM |
| 2 | How do you feel confident about yourself if you don't get the attention on social media that your "good looking" friends do?Hey man, it's the truth. Everyone loves good looking people. you like good looking girls don't you? Its the truth. Accept it! You might be average looking guy, and if someone likes you it won't be just because of your looks, remember that | /r/seduction | 21/07/20 02:19 AM |
| 10 | BEING PRODUCTIVE IS BEING ATTRACTIVE. When I've been busy and had more important things than girls, I did a lot better with girls. When I had too much time and thinking too much about girls, I did worse. This may not apply to everyone, but I discovered for me my best results are when I'm productive.Yes totally understandable. When I'm feeling good about myself cuz some girl fucked me over and I used that sadness to fuel up my productivity, every bitches in the area is eyeballing and get all kinds of compliments, them flirting | /r/seduction | 21/07/20 02:16 AM |
| 5 | Such on point advices are what we need!Lol that's should be the anthem of r/seduction | /r/seduction | 20/07/20 03:57 PM |
| 2 | Oh panzer of the lakeLmao wth | /r/seduction | 15/07/20 07:26 PM |
| 1 | Am I being a simpWhat kind of plans | /r/seduction | 14/07/20 12:41 PM |
| 1 | Am I being a simpYk what? Forget about it, its probably not gonna happen. Accept that and be cool with yourself | /r/seduction | 14/07/20 03:28 AM |
| 3 | The more attractive the girl, the less she’ll care about how attractive you areI mean come on what are the chances, what I do is like ah fuck it what the point of worrying about my insecurities. Either I'm gonna be fuckin lucky or I'm gonna be how I was 5 minutes before meeting her | /r/seduction | 12/07/20 02:30 AM |
| 3 | female friends?Late Patrice O'Neal once said this and I'm paraphrasing. "Girls want only one thing and that is a friend who can help her on deep emotional and mental feelings. Thus that's why they have a side piece who they keep with them for their benifit." It's something like this but essentially you would be that girl bsf. You were truthful, and we're straight forward. You did well in my opinion | /r/seduction | 11/07/20 12:07 PM |
| 2 | When you are in the ZoneYou da man.. you da man!! | /r/seduction | 07/07/20 09:28 PM |
| 3 | Vacation fling advice?!Lmao Mr squiggles | /r/seduction | 07/07/20 06:58 PM |
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