College Bar scene approach anxiety

judahman8 · 2019-10-03T08:15:46+00:00

Read the natural by Richard la ruina.

GeeseCTM · 2019-10-03T04:44:23+00:00

I'm going to post this podcast I did until I'm blue in the face.

This is not tactics. I don't do a lot of college game, because well, I'm a little bit above college-age, but definitely if you can grasp this mindset you're going to be way ahead of the game. It already sounds like you kind of know what to do, just have to get out of your own head and stop overthinking.

I imagine that a college bar is probably like any other bar though.. Loud, crowded, drunk girls with no attention span. That's a HUGE topic to write about do I'll let someone else handle that because it's late and I'm going to bed.

If you can repeat what you did by making out with a chick remember these simple steps.

RSVP

Rapport - obvious

Seed - Seed the bounce. At some point early on in the interaction offhandedly mention that you are hungry, or that you know this other cool place, or some excuse to let her know you're thinking about leaving. They go back to your interaction. Don't make a big deal out of it.

Value - is she interested in you? Does she consider you valuable at least in this moment? Are you making out and grinding her on the dance floor? lol

At some point in the interaction, if it's going well, this is what I'm referring to in this instance as value. A little different than the traditional pua meaning.

Pull - you seeded that the bounce earlier, so now you bring it up again and say, yeah I'm still hungry, let's go grab a bite. Or there's a cool cocktail bar down the street that you know has these awesome drinks and you're itching for one, let's go.

You already seeded the the pull in her mind, so it's not weird that you're bringing it up.

All right I'm going to bed.

Title	College Bar scene approach anxiety
Author	Spoonman889
Upvotes	4
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Date	October 3, 2019 4:04 AM UTC (6 years ago)
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