Field report 1/23 About 30 sets tonight. I went out with my buddy Freddy. Man, I am always so fucking hesitant, I feel like a little bitch every time, I’m so introverted I feel I’d rather just go home and study or play guitar every moment before my first set. It’s unbelievable. These nights always turn to the best. Something I did different to prepare, was being social from the moment that I began the night. I even talked to this random guy in the grocery line who had flowers and wine, and asked him if he had a date. We got into a small conversation. Then I asked the security guard if he had chased out any homeless people. He had a lot to say about that, he said he just watched two homeless people fighting and had to tell them to take that shit somewhere else. I wished him a safe night. At that point, I knew I was in for a good night. I drank about one and a half IPAs, and went to Sharkys. It was fucking stacked as always. I went to the bathroom, talk to one more guy, and just started dancing. I don’t remember exactly what my first set was, but I’m fairly certain it was before Freddy had arrived. I would open with things like, I thought it was my night to wear black? I like how it sets up a combative frame and peaks a lot of girls interest from the start. Lot of these girls look the same, I ended up approaching the same groups multiple times, with different girls from that group. No bad interactions, but just really short ones. I think this follows one of Tyler’s rules that states to keep interaction short in the beginning of the night and to burn it to the ground at the end of the night. After about 10 or so sets that venue, and after seeing Laura again, who said she was going to wildcat, and it was her birthday, Me and Freddie bounce to the next location. I said I wanted to check out EOS after walking there, and noticing that there was a line nearly around the block. We decided to go to the good old shitty kitty, which had no line. Me and Freddy went to the dance floor and oh my God, it was fucking lit. The only issue was it was kind of like a rave vibe, girls were just sort of keeping to themselves, and it was impossible to talk to anyone. Because of this, I decided to go to the bathroom real quick, and get my approaches started up once again. It didn’t take long. I probably did about 30 sets that night, but there were four that really stood out.

Before I get into that, I’d like to recall a key revelation. I had set my objective to try to win the friends over. But I didn’t use my favor to actually do anything with the girl. Instead, I would kind of cock block myself. I would start talking to the other girls who would think that I was trying to hit on all of them, which I sort of was, especially if they were all hot, but something that I figured out was to just ask the group once I acknowledge them, can I talk to this one for a few minutes, I think she’s really cute (or I like her, or whatever I know some of you guys get all nitpicky about verbiage and all the shit that doesn’t matter). most of them are cool with it.

  1. I approached this three set sitting by a table, who are all HB 8 and above. What I found most impressive about this set is after the open, One of the girls said that they weren’t interested. I said OK, I’m fucking gay. And she didn’t know what the fuck to do with that. I started chatting up her brunette friend, and I made out with her right in front of the girl said they weren’t interested in me. Two minutes later, I was kissing that girl. A minute later, we were having a three-way make out. Unfortunately, the bratty one led her friend away. Some important things I did in this interaction, was just plowing through and scrambling the RAS. Julien was my inspiration in the set. I just kept plowing, asking them random questions, making assumptions, and just generally flirting, and just saying whatever the fuck came into my head with a strong sexual vibe, before they knew they couldn’t resist. When the girls said she wasn’t interested, I couldn’t have been more unbothered, I know that would have scared away most guys.
  2. Then I pulled a Syrian girl off the dance floor, she couldn’t find her friends so I offered to give her a ride home which she said she was down. we kissed and grind for like 10 minutes, she had an amazing body. HB 8.4. Unfortunately, her friends led her away.
  3. I had Some other nice interactions, but the last one was after the music had stopped. And I kept eye fucking this cute Asian girl, who is being lead across the club by her friends. With her friends leading her in one hand, I grabbed her other hand and said come here you can’t look at me like that. I asked her very quickly what her plan was for the night, I escalated sexually and noticed that her friends had left her alone with me. I kissed her, but couldn’t make it work logistically.

I’m focused really hard on pulling, I feel like soon I’ll be doing it consistently (I’ve already fucked and fingered another girl). Soon, I think I’ll have this shit figured out through sheer effort and mass approaching, and most importantly, not giving a flying fuck.

I will keep analyzing my game until I have it down to an art. Here are the objectives/improvements I’ve been striving towards:

Indirect/direct Ask to go aside (to bar, table, etc…) Screen logistics Don’t enforce the frame that the girls are such good friends Ask how they know each other Kiss goodbye? More WE frame, and keep working on YOU frame Engage friends more After party - or other excuses to pull