Hi guys, I know this is not the usual type of post here.

My problem is that I am basically from toe to head capable of seducing women.

I'm intelligent, interesting and I believe in myself in most areas of life.

However when it comes to being 'manly' I have a huge issue.

There is a history of abuse in my family.

So whenever I have to get the dick out metaphorically speaking I clutch because it translates to rape in my mind.

Any advice?