Confidence in 5 Steps

Broodje_met_beleg · 2015-05-17T08:05:30+00:00

4 is huge, but absolutely worth it!

pheNam2000 · 2015-05-17T15:21:27+00:00

For point 3 there are many amazingly informative documentaries on Netflix (and documentaryheaven).

I would also add getting proper sleep.

jeryc3 · 2015-05-17T21:15:35+00:00

Short, Sweet, To the point, I like it!

gramsespektrum · 2015-05-17T21:28:55+00:00

I agree with 1, 2, 3, and 5 a lot. I don't agree with 4, I watch a lot of porn and I love it. Been doing it for the past 10 years and I don't see the problems that the NoFap people are so concerned about. I haven't seen any actual science backing the NoFap people up. On the contrary, all scientists tell me that masturbation is healthy.

However, while I agree with most of your list, this is not what confidence is. Confidence is believing in yourself, it is knowing that you're alright and you don't care about other's approval. Confidence is also a lack of inner conflict.

What you have made is a list of how to be healthy, fit, enlightened. Which is also great.

carlospicywiener2121 · 2015-05-17T16:16:26+00:00

Number 6: Meditate. It makes 1-5 not really necessary because you won't need to feel confident if you are calm and present. Confidence is a natural side effect of meditation.

nickednamed · 2015-05-17T15:11:09+00:00

If I may, I think it is important to distinguish between always telling people you read books (don't do it) and taking about the content of those books (a must).

It is important to discuss the books you read, not only as it helps you really internalize the material, possibly learn more from your interlocutor, evaluate the ideas and so on, but also for the pleasure a decent conversation brings.

I like to think of books as weights for the mind: you don't need to tell a girl how much you can lift or what program you're on, but you can impress her by sweeping her off her feet, or dealing with some cunt swiftly and decisively.

Title	Confidence in 5 Steps
Author	Cnfdnce123
Upvotes	32
Comments	20
Date	May 17, 2015 5:50 AM UTC (11 years ago)
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