There are guys there that consider themselves ugly or have low self-esteem, etc...One thing that I did to overcome my insecurities about look was to go to the gym. This has gigantic impact on your confidence and on your self-esteem, you will feel good in your own shoes. Meditating helps you clear your mind. Giving up on porn and your addictions gives you a lot of benefits. Start improving yourself and then try to find a girl to come in your badass life!