Been a year since I started talk to this girl. We had history but never been intimate. In the beginning it was good, attraction was there. We had a disagreement early but moved passed it however i noticed a behavior change 4 months in and we only met up 2 times at the point. She slept over my place but refused to sleep w me in bed she took the couch so I noticed her energy was off and it seemed like she didn’t want to be intimate so I left it alone however the following morning it felt like she wanted sex but I was thrown off already from the previous night. So for clarity I asked what are we…. and the confusion began so I pulled back. We stopped talking then weeks later she calls me like are you still upset ? I was confused but I went with it but when some form of commitment came she said we’re just friends.

So the next time I saw her was 2 months after her spending the night & we continued communication and when I seen her we kissed….. However we got into an argument and I noticed her flirting on social media with a guy she had history with which I never addressed. However she posted a picture on a date with an another guy & I asked if it was her man she called me and said no. So i decided to go out with her again a few weeks ago, the conversation was good but sexual tension wasn’t there. It’s a been a year now and we haven’t been intimate. I think im wasting my time here because I had sex with a different women last year….