Need to figure out what I’m doing wrong. I’m a 6’ tall male, I consider myself attractive. Not a model by any means but I’m fit and dress well. I’m somewhere in between introvert and extrovert. Got out of a 3 year relationship recently and I’ve been striking out like mad. I travel a lot for work so I practice flirting just for the hell of it and it’s not been going well. I recently went on a trip and probably talked to 50+ women in bars over 2 nights. After getting rejected about 20 times I hit it off with the bar tender (attractive gal my age) and shortly after had 2 girls (friends) into a good conversation until they disappeared and their fat friend came up to me and rudely told me its “time for me to leave”. I don’t get it, I’m not a creep, I don’t come off sleezy, I’m old school. I don’t go looking for hookups so I don’t act like a sexual predator. Just go out looking for conversation mostly. Well I was just at a bar local to me and struck out with the first girl I talked to (whatever) then I notice a fairly attractive girl eyeing me and smiling so I went up to her and introduced myself, asked her to a game of pool and she was into it. We started playing pool, it was hard to hear over the band but shortly into it I could tell she was actually a total slut.. like G string poking out, twerking to the music etc… not my thing but I thought ok this one will be easy so I’ll just get her on the hook and then dip. But nope same typical shit where even when they act interested they “go to the bathroom” and then disappear.

I really don’t get it, I’m successful in every aspect of life but continue to strike out with women. I know bars aren’t the ideal place to meet them but I’d think I’d have a better success rate. For reference out of probably 200 ish girls approached, talked to, hit on in a bar scene in the last year only 1 has ever led to anything.