Don’t really post here and Im speaking for two reddits right now since I’m hoping it could help someone in both

These two scenarios happened within a few days of each other so they are pretty fresh in my mind

Little back story , I’m 5’4 and I’ve only really had trouble getting women up until I was 20. This isn’t some step by step guide on how to do this or that, or what you guys are doing wrong, just two scenarios I hope can give you guys an idea of how regular and easy these things could come into place

Few days ago I got off work and went to my favorite smoothie spot, i ordered my food and went to my car to play my guitar while I wait. I bring my guitars with me everywhere and I can’t keep my hands off of them. As I was doing that a fine woman walked into the smoothie shop, I didn’t pay much mind to her because honestly I thought it would be try hard to woo her and I got my guitar and also I just wanted to play. As I was playing I noticed her staring at me through the window. Here I felt a little awkward but I minded my business. She came out and said “hey the guy said your food is ready.I thought you were singing and playing your guitar”

I said “my voice is too deep to sing, but I bring my guitar everywhere I go” just seeing if I can guide the conversation into something if not just a friendly interaction.

She told me she use to play when she was young but stopped caring, however painting was more of her passion. So I asked her to show me, however her phone was dead. After a little chat she asked “do you have an Instagram or a number or something?” Right there I knew I was in the green like hitting a perfect shot in nba 2k.

My instagram is terrible so I asked for her name

And number. As we were finishing I told her maybe one day I’ll play my electric guitar for her and she seemed to like that. I can only count maybe 1 or two fingers as to how many times a woman approached me

This one reminds me height doesn’t matter as she was taller than me like a lot of women are honestly

Second one was yesterday

I was walking into the store and I see some woman roller skating, now I always wanted to learn but in my head I also wanted to see if I can get her number but I had to go to work so I just went in the store and got what I needed.When I walked out I still saw her so I Beelined towards her. (Now side note, confidence to me is feeling like nothing as if you were just walking to your refrigerator to grab your left overs, just some regular activity, nothing to think about nothing to feel, don’t feel on top of the world or anything)

I go up to her and she was listening to music so I waved with my hands and she stopped. Now if she was significantly taller than me those skates definitely acted as heels cuz damn she had to be about 5 inches taller. I just asked her “how do you do that?” I genuinely wanted to know cuz how tf you move with skates without busting your ass? She was giving me the run down and here’s the part where I guided the conversation

After mentioning why I can’t skate and trying to get her tips which she didn’t really give me any helpful advice as she said she was a beginner

Once the friendly side of learning how to skate conversation was dying out, since she was wearing AirPods I asked what she was listening to, we got into a discussion about musical artists

Then I asked her if she’s ever been skating at a roller rink, which she said she doesn’t like to because she has to pay 20 for it and also she’s self conscious that more experienced skaters would judge her. I then joked about her seeming skilled and I’ll be the one busting my ass there.

Took a side conversation to ask if she was a nurse because she was wearing scrubs and after that I asked her if she would like to go to a roller rink with me and she said sure and I asked for her name and her number and boom

Let out a few more jokes and we parted ways

In my head I’m just thinking goddamn you son of a bitch you did it again! Hope these girls don’t be on reddit dawg 😂but I’ll sacrifice to see if I can help the community out