One of my favorite techniques is to create tension in a woman by making her think kinda like "Did he say that?" Or "Is he talking about me or some other girl?"It is natural for human beings to respond to questions out of our own selfish perspective whether we are right or not. When asked or talking about any subject on men or women we will always answer through the eyes of our own experience, as men, and women likewise. So, to exploit this, instead of being direct and asking "her" about "her" I'll ask something about "women" in general. This also allows me to be much more specific without worrying about her answer or response. For example, I might say "Hey would women prefer and intimate emotional connection or intimate sexual connection?" Of course, we already know the answer that 99% of honest women will answer "intimate emotional connection" because it is true. Because most guys don't have a clue this question will do 3 things (1) get her to answer and open up and be honest without having to say "Yeah that's me" (2) the question ITSELF will create an emotional connection with her and (3) this will create attraction with her toward you. Use this wisely in combination with learning to read body language, an abundance mentality and your confidence will skyrocket.

How do YOU create tension with women?