DAE have issues trying to adjust to talking in a louder, declarative voice after being a soft-spoken person their entire life?

bachatatata · 2016-01-08T17:48:57+00:00

I have a naturally deep voice, but I'm soft-spoken as well. I've tried being loud and doing all those "exercises" people recommend, and as much as they do help, I really don't enjoy it. What I found out to help is to lower your voice when you talk to a lot of people. That's it. If you speak firmly with a low voice, everyone will quiet down and try to hear you, regardless of what they're doing.

letsgetrandy · 2016-01-08T20:53:23+00:00

Just keep doing it. It feels weird because you're not doing it all the time. When you do it — all the time — it will become the normal and you'll begin to feel weird when you don't.

CrushHazard · 2016-01-09T12:33:15+00:00

Posture, movement, voice or anything else like that: do not try to make it a certain way. Improving your voice takes work and there is no way around that. No amount of self-help BS is going to replace actually putting in the work.

Buy Voice and the Actor by Cicely Berry
Read cover to cover and do all the exercises
Repeat the exercises

It will change your life. I promise.

Title	DAE have issues trying to adjust to talking in a louder, declarative voice after being a soft-spoken person their entire life?
Author	sfw63
Upvotes	3
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Date	January 8, 2016 5:37 PM UTC (10 years ago)
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