would it be considered a disappointment or failure if my first date didn't end with at least a hug?

derpyderpderpp · 2016-01-15T22:57:01+00:00

You didn't even touch her? What did you do on the date?

Sbeast · 2016-01-16T00:15:12+00:00

Uh oh, we got a stage 5 hugger/clinger, the lowest of the beta ranks in all of playa-knowledge.

Listen son, theres a time for hugging bitches, and theres a time for bitchin hugs, question is punk, what time is it?

Exactly. 69:69. Which means its....PLAYA TIME, all day...most days

Kno what I'm sayin dawg, playa, wigga, homie slice?

imthatguy4 · 2016-01-16T00:46:57+00:00

you should always at least hug during the first AND last sentence of you guys meeting up, thats a general rule i have with most people. why should one girl be different

Tjodleik · 2016-01-16T03:07:07+00:00

To quote a friend of mine: It's the man's job to initiate, and the woman's job to be available. That means it's your job to take charge and go for something more than a wave, and her job to decide if she will allow you to do that or not.

where she was at least inclined to end it better than just a wave?

She might have been inclined to do that on most dates, but since you didn't do your f%&ing job she went with the safest option and waved at you. Also, since you wrote "most of them" I interpret that as "We've had multiple dates, but I did jack shit," which means you might just have friendzoned yourself because you couldn't get off your ass and make a move.

Lemme repeat myself; Girls will (almost) never show you that they are "inclined" to do anything. It's up to you to make a move and see if you advance or get the proverbial door slammed in your face.

palmerd21 · 2016-01-15T20:47:02+00:00

You should be physical early and often. If she isn't into it just cut the date short.

daddymonsterpoodle · 2016-01-16T23:08:24+00:00

Yup, start kino early, even if it is only a hug or a handshake. Women will forgive you trying to escalate more than they will ever forgive you for not trying. Men do, so grow a pair and let your next date know that you are sexually attracted to her.

Title	would it be considered a disappointment or failure if my first date didn't end with at least a hug?
Author	sfw63
Upvotes	3
Comments	11
Date	January 15, 2016 8:22 PM UTC (10 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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