This is going to be bit of a rant, but bear with me because I think that within there's something to be gleaned.

Curse my brain, if there has been anything that has ruined my ability to pick up women more it is my infernal brain... Over thinking is undoubtedly the worst thing you can do when it comes to women, or if you have met the said women (my case) as you will lose the ability to feel confident / natural. My issue lies within the fact that whilst I have no problem with talking to women ( no AA ) as a result of my upbringing with 2 sisters and an overly open mum ( awesome ) there is little a woman can do to throw me off... Yet if I meet a woman I am legitimately interested in my brain starts ticking over and that's were I lose my 'game'.

My recent issue is that I have met a girl that whilst not a HB9 or even a HB6 in the scale of things she is a HM (Hot Mind) 10 in my books, intelligent and very fun to speak to we hit it off straight away at a night club, anyways after swapping numbers and Facebook I have managed to lampoon my self by over analysing and over thinking every little thing that I have said to her, which has completely nullified my ability to capture that same magic that was there the night we met. It could also be said that I lack game in terms of texting as well, and as a result she has 'flaked' on both our calls, 1st being to sleepy after an exam and the 2nd she said she was out and I should call her tomorrow.

If I could give any advice its to not think, by acting on impulse when it comes to talking to women you are coming off a lot more fun where as that 1 second of thinking can start something monstrous and lampoon any chance you originally had, and whilst all is not failed for me (couple of other coffee dates lined up) the one person I actually wanted to have a coffee with and see again is 'flaking' on me...

tl dr; don't think, it'll lampoon you, being spontaneous and fun is key and whilst stopping to think for a second in life when it comes to work etc may be important try and drop it when you are talking to women...