Date idea

RIPoldAccount · 2012-12-16T18:49:03+00:00

People have mentioned shopping, you could shop for each other and you have to wear it or hold it for the rest of the date, item has to be under $10 - if you bring up this game make sure it sounds like it wasn't pre-planned (i.e. as you're looking at something kind of weird have an epiphany and mention what you would like to do.

I don't know what your money situation is like so there are other alternatives.

Get boba/pearl tea and play cards / old board games they have there while chatting
Go paint pottery, you would be surprised on how this isn't actually boring and can be fun if you just let go of the fact that your a dude painting pottery.
Go to a quieter indoor swimming pool or outdoor Jacuzzi
Play some billiards or go to a Main Event / Dave & Busters
Go Kart racing / Mini Golf - I personally don't like this as it is getting cliché
If she is sporty maybe go play basketball or go running together

I know there are some better places, but that is off the top of my head for that age range.

EDIT:

I just thought of something that could be fun - I don't know if they might have something like this around you but going to a hedge maze and just exploring it together. Make sure you make it more about the conversation than actually solving the maze, definitely try to have fun but I wouldn't make finding the way out your #1 priority, having fun with her is.

noodleworm · 2012-12-16T21:37:06+00:00

This time of year christmas shopping is a good idea. A lot of the time it can be fun to joke about weird things you find in shops. Get talking about family and friends your buying gifts for, and a lot of girls seem to like helping out a guy who hasn't got the instinct to find bargains.

2012-12-16T18:33:46+00:00

Erf normally I'd downvote you, but I'm in a good mood tonight. -Try to avoid movies etc. where you can't get to talk to her. That being said if you're not comfortable talking with her or you're afraid of awkward moments then do go to the movies. -Take her somewhere fun. -Take her somewhere when you don't depend on your parents to get home. -Take her somewhere when you can have some intimacy if needed.

So, some ideas: Park Swimming Pool Coffee Place Movies (if not comfortable) Mall -shopping can be fun if you put some effort- To a fair, anything in town where you can have fun. Any place you like to be. (does not include your room)

ninjanoodle · 2012-12-17T06:07:03+00:00

As a 17-year old, my best advice to you would be to not really worry about women, (or in this case, girls) at this time. Have fun with your friends, and enjoy the fuck out of high school! I for one overthought every single scenario when it came to socializing with girls at that age, and let me tell you; IT SUCKED.

Just be yourself, have fun, and more likely than not, girls will start to fancy you.

EDIT: Cafes, the mall, the park for a picnic, or any place that you go for fun!

Nungie · 2012-12-16T20:39:33+00:00

My parents are sweet with girls. She already has a boyfriend which is pain but ah well. Ive asked her out and she asked "as friends?" not sure how to respond to this

Mrmickeatsbabies · 2012-12-17T16:57:03+00:00

14? Well you can either do what every other kid is doing these days and get her pregnant. Or you can cherish your childhood and don't think so damn far into dating already. Do something simple kid. Jeez.

_saint · 2012-12-16T18:48:56+00:00

I think I know a comic that can help you out.

http://www.mspaintadventures.com/sweetbroandhellajeff/?cid=035.jpg

Title	Date idea
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Date	December 16, 2012 5:32 PM UTC (13 years ago)
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