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[–]IWriteForGroupies 0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Most things are situational. You need to work on your process.
[–]mixmast[S] 0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I'm gonna see what happens if I text her a little more. Like you said situational. Not a ton but I've been in a handful of "different" situations. Will normally ask them out fairly quick but have bad results.
[–]t_11 0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
I suggest you don't get fixated on this one girl. Depends on what you text. You need to keep a convo going. After you get a mutual feel for it asked her out
Will do this. Yeah trying not to fixate, I will move on either way.
[–]BasketCase559 0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Different people have different strategies, but I only use texting for logistics. You're a busy guy with better things to do than text all day like a high schooler.
I say next time you text, tell her to meet you somewhere. Just say "hey I'll be at x tomorrow night, come over for a bit" or something along those lines.
It has been awhile but the numbers I got before this one, I used texting for logistics. Since that hasn't worked I think I'll try simple texts for bit and see if I can ask her out soonish... Busy lately so hard to find time to setup a date. Maybe a little but it barely bothers me that she took a week to respond haha.
[–]1z1z2x2x3c3c4v4v 0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link
Follow Tripps advice on how to TXT a girl you just met:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9BUiX1zOiGE
[–]mixmast[S] 0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
Very good video, going to remember this for the future. Thanks for the link.
I was on here or somewhere else a couple years ago and remember reading NOT to ask what her schedule is like. Glad to see this video shows it doesn't really matter.
[–]1z1z2x2x3c3c4v4v 0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
That's the difference between a Relationship Coach's opinion, and that from a PUA.
Both have their pros and cons.
The PUA will move quicker with precision and drive, and maybe get in bed faster.
The Relationship Coach will have a longer term, more concervative, strategy in effect for the same end game.
[–]mixmast[S] 0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Ohhh ok good to know. I was trying the PUA approach with other girls but that's not really my personality.
[–]1z1z2x2x3c3c4v4v 0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
I implement a combination of both, since my time to game, and hook up, is typically very limited. Sometimes I have more time, sometimes not.
I don't get out of the asylum much, so when I do, I must really narrow down my candidates quickly and efficiently.
I am usually with friends, so I must really manage the IOIs (indicators of interest - eye contact, body language, flirting) very efficiently and quickly, so I can make the contact, and then plan for the rest of the night!
(that's one of the reasons I like older women, they typically know what they want, and don't need to play the games to get it, with me anyways)
Nice. When I go out I'll look for IOIs, thats honestly something I never even thought of. When I do go out to bars I haven't been approaching many girls.
Nice I also like older women, but at this point it doesn't really matter to me haha. This lady happens to be younger than me. We'll see if anything happens...
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