Dating a Stripper

Sir-Longhair · 2018-11-28T20:47:31+00:00

I've dated a few and had a serious relationship with one. After my experiences with them, I will never, ever date a stripper again.

If you can't handle her hustling other guys, then you need to move on. She may have "goals", but if she's as hot as you say she is, then she's not going to stop any time soon because the money is just too damn good.

Also, each stripper I got involved with ended up being jacked in the head. Yeah, it started off fun and they were always great, but something would snap in their heads and it would spiral into crazy town in no time. Please trust me on this... IT WILL HAPPEN.

You had your fun. Get out while you can.

Rkingpin · 2018-11-28T21:47:50+00:00

Any woman who uses their body for financial gain has deeper personal issues.

Enjoy this honeymoon phase while it lasts, the cracks will appear

buttgoogler · 2018-11-28T21:47:07+00:00

Just know that all strippers have sex for money either inside or outside the club. That should be your real concern.

2018-11-28T22:24:43+00:00

You have a lot to learn my friend lol. First let me rephrase that and say 98.7% of all strippers have sex for money so if you honestly believe she’s in that 1.3% then good luck. And that 1.3% are just the ones that haven’t YET because they are new to the industry. Second high class venues are more prone for this type of activity because that’s where the money is at duh... 3rd you already know it happens because she has a friend she is associated with that does that, what makes her the exception? You have your love blinders on. Also let me give you an anecdote, I had an ex who used to always talk about her friend that did x,y,z and how she wasn’t like that. It’s true her friend did do everything she said and was out there... what I didn’t realize was that my ex was actually worse and used that tactic to throw me off my game and blind me from reality. If she says she’s not like that then she is buddy. You can’t swim in pig shit and filth and not expect to get dirty. Others are doing it where she works and that she’s friends with, but she’s the unicorn that can’t/won’t? Hmmmmmm... also never take the word of a woman at face value, we all know they are natural born liars who are experts at cleverly concealing their actions and intentions. You can catch a woman red handed Doing something and she will look you in the eye and lie about it or justify how it isn’t what it is. Women lie to themselves all the time, what makes you different that you’re the one she’s gonna be 100% truthful with? Just some things to keep in mind because it seems you’re falling in pretty deep and women that work in the sex industries are master decievers, and manipulators.

testandreview · 2018-11-28T21:49:02+00:00

I dated an erotic-massage girl (both she and her clients were naked and she gave them a blowjob at the end. She had approx 3 clients a day for 1 hour each). We had the rule that she doesnt speak about her day too detailled, just how her day overally was. It hurt me just rarely really, for example when one day she told me she had that day 5 clients (so more, than usually). Now to your case: If you have feelings for her, run. I could just handle our situation because I was able to controll my feelings for her.

TheXXL · 2018-11-29T04:47:34+00:00

The problem is within you friend. Your ego is large which is only further complicating the problem. You are dating a high value girl who is surrounded by other high value men, and this makes you insecure. I really think it would not matter if she was a stripper or a waitress, you would run into the same issue.

Not only that, but this girl has led the way into a relationship. You are not in control.

I don't want to appear like I am phased by her doing this with other guys

The question isn't whether you appear like you are phased or not, its whether you are actually phased. And yes I think you are thinking too deeply into this which signals either this girl is too high value for you (which you are unable to come to terms with because of her profession) or you do not perceive yourself of high enough value to keep her.

Would your girl dancing on other men bother you even if it doesn't have any true substance behind it?

An irrelevant question, to be sure, because what matters are your values. And to not know your own values when you have clearly placed yourself deep into this situation is the heart of the problem here.

Rob-Kaizen · 2018-11-29T00:04:36+00:00

"Any sucka who believe a whore love him shouldn't have fell out his mammie's ass." - Iceberg Slim's mentor

Twobithatter · 2018-11-29T01:53:24+00:00

I haven’t dated a stripper but I’ve gotten free dances and phone numbers from strippers. The most recent one was a blonde russian. She’s petite with a pretty nice body, blonde hair with blue eyes. I games her a bit, got a few dances, she let me finger her, tried kissing me but I didn’t let it happen and then I moved on to another girl. Before I left tho she actually came back to talk to me and gave me her phone number. Told me we should hang out and talk outside the club. Then I got home and instagram actually pulled the contacts on my phone and showed me her page. She was on a full LTR with some rich looking dude. I felt kinda bad tho, he looked like he had accepted her and didn’t suspect she’s be out in the club letting a random broke dude like me finger her.

dontstopmenow1966 · 2018-11-28T22:47:25+00:00

What a clown.

Title	Dating a Stripper
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Date	November 28, 2018 7:15 PM UTC (7 years ago)
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