dating after a year today

lawk · 2026-03-01T12:05:49+00:00

Playful, teasing - have fun yourself - initiate touch.

Domomagic · 2026-03-01T12:13:46+00:00

Yep... think of yourself as kids and it can help take the serious tone out.

Also being yourself sets up potential for getting a real "yes and" reaction helps with chemistry and you mirror eachothers energy and it builds comfort.

I talk a lot when I'm nervous so I let them know from the gate and it's nice because you're letting them know that you're human.... not some giga-chad who's too cool for real authenticity Iol. It can help lower their guard/mask and signals to them you're showing up as yourself which takes a lot more guts than performing.

Long8D · 2026-03-01T15:26:11+00:00

First of all relax, because you already did the hard part of getting her out, that means she is already showing some type of interest.

O the expressing yourself thing you do not need to drop big compliments to show sexual interest. In fact telling a girl you are so beautiful early on can actually kill the tension because it puts her on a pedestal and makes you look a little nervous. Instead of saying that directly to her, you're going to be showing it through your behaviour.

Maintain strong eye contact and hold it a little longer than feels comfortable. Slow down your movements and your speech. Touch her naturally when the moment is right, like guiding her by the lower back when you are walking somewhere or touching her arm when you are making a point. These things communicate way more than the sentence you are so beautiful ever will. Gauge to see how she reacts to those touches. If she reacts positively, you may add a little more as time goes on.

The joint will help loosen things up but do not rely on it. Use it as a bonding moment, share it, laugh, get into good conversation. Ask her things that go a little deeper than the usual small talk, people love talking about themselves when someone is genuinely curious just don't get stoned off your ass.

And if you do want to say something, instead of you are so beautiful which sounds like you are worshipping her, try something more playful and direct like "you know you are pretty cute right" with a slight smirk. It lands differently and it just sounds more confident not desperate.

Title	dating after a year today
Author	xstrxfee
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Date	March 1, 2026 12:01 PM UTC (4 months ago)
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