Dating apps

AssaboutFuckerino · 2024-02-27T02:31:26+00:00

Kill your inner loser’s guide to dating apps is pretty solid, I wouldn’t really recommend his approach to everyone, but the bits about how to set up your profile, how to set up images, how to divide your time and how to use the paid tiers and benefits to your advantage are all pretty much correct.

The TL;DR of it is:

Use good images that make you look desirable and are attention grabbing. Put effort into it, most men fucking don’t. Photoshop, angles and manipulation are all fair game, and most women do this too so go nuts.
Bios should be witty, short and engaging. People don’t read them to decide whether or not they swipe right or not, but it might knock you over from a maybe to a yes.
Fill out every possible category in your bio you can, not because they’ll look at it, but because it boosts your ELO score and makes your profile more likely to be viewed.
Update and rearrange photos occasionally, it boosts ELO too.
Set your sexuality preferences to ‘bisexual’ in your filter, women who put bisexual are usually more likely to be open to being sexual or at the least be open to meeting you in person straight away. Swipe through those, then open it back up.
Only swipe on people you’re actually going to be into, don’t swipe right on everyone, it kills your ELO.
Whatever platform you pick, pay for the highest tier, these companies want to make money off of you, and they will reward you for paying.
Boosts and other temporary bonuses should be used at peak times, which are usually on weekend nights. Basically, think of times when women would be bored, lonely and swiping.
If the age bracket you’re into is dramatically higher or lower than your own, when you make your profile set your age to that age, then use the premium features to hide your age, even though it’s hidden their search preferences will still use it to filter people, so if you’re a 28 year old wanting to date 20-25 year olds, setting your age to 23 is ideal. Women might ask why you’ve hidden your age, but if they’ve matched with you, telling them the truth and telling them you hide it because you don’t want it to be a factor usually answers the question sufficiently.
Use the tinder app on your computer, and set a dedicated time, typically in the evening, to sit down and go through them, message matches and swipe/use boosts. Don’t have it on your phone, as you’ll sit there and absently swipe which will kill your ELO score.
You also use the computer because it allows you to copy paste your opener to a bunch of people in quick succession, meaning you message more people. It also prevents you from just chatting and wasting time on the app.
The faster you can get them OFF the app and into your phone with a date planned, the better. Women stop responding to you not because they don’t care about you, but simply because so many men match with them that they just lose you in the masses. Stick out, be direct, don’t fall for time wasters (“Aww I wanna talk to you more before I agree to a date”) and organise the date for as early and as quickly as possible.
If shit isn’t working, or a profile is notably going down in popularity, delete and reset. Using the ‘numbers game, copy paste opener, immediately ask for a date’ will usually result in being reported by sour pusses anyway, so it’ll naturally happen. It’s also worth doing because with tinder, when someone swiped left on you, they’ll only see you after a significant amount of time. They may change their mind the second time round, and resetting gives them a chance to do so.

Basically, tinder is a job, and it’s very similar if not identical to cold calling. You gotta play the numbers game, and the numbers aren’t great, but if you run through enough of them the output will be significant enough to make things happen.

letsgetwizzyy · 2024-02-27T02:37:52+00:00

Have really good pictures taken by someone who know how to take good photos. They can be taken on your smart phone, just ensure that the person taking them knows what they're doing.

Have a direct opener that is playful and fun (direct meaning romantic interest is established through first text) and then playfully banter for 2-3 messages. If she is bantering back and being playful, I ask her out on the date. If she says anything other than a yes, it's a no, and on to a next.

I ask her out by asking what her availability is to go on a date during a specific time frame and don't ask for a specific day, but a range (like availability next week). Once she gives it to me, I give her a location and time to meet there. I get her number, and send her a text telling her who it is.

Don't take rejection or ghosting too seriously. Women are inundated with options on dating apps

this article discusses how to optimize the amount of dates you get on dating apps: https://open.substack.com/pub/jackedguy/p/how-to-get-dates-on-dating-apps-a?r=31tj3q&utm\_campaign=post&utm\_medium=web

ROBYoutube · 2024-02-27T02:27:20+00:00

I'm going to guess that there is no program on earth that contains applicable information that isn't available somewhere online for free. So I'd just google around a bit.

Here's my program at the low introductory price of nothing.

Online dating is a very visual-based dating experience, and everybody hates it. Men outnumber women by as much as like 4:1 on some apps because so many women don't use online dating at all. This means that women know that the chances of them matching with literally anyone they like is close to 100%, which means only the most appealing photos will invite that click of approval.

Doomers will take this to mean that only the hottest guys get those approvals. And this makes sense if you have no imagination. But I've had similar success using online dating weighing nearly double what I did when I used online dating a decade ago. No, I didn't use pictures from a decade ago. I use pictures that accurately portray me, but also that say something interesting and true about me. I asked my last partner why she swiped yes on me despite presumably much hotter guys being on offer and her response was 'I really liked your smile in that birthday cake one' and shit, me too. That's why I chose it. It's a bad photo, borderline out of focus, but I am so childishly delighted to have such outrageously large numbered candles on a child's cake that I thought it said a lot about me: idiot. I'm fishing for women who appreciate the things I appreciate about myself.

So choose your pictures carefully. Make sure they show that you have hobbies and interests, friends and fun. Or whatever. But you have to accept that nearly nobody reads the bio. These photos need to say as much about you as humanly possible.

Title	Dating apps
Author	silk_1233
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Comments	4
Date	February 27, 2024 2:06 AM UTC (2 years ago)
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