The idea of daygame is to find beautiful girls out in the wild, and then go up and talk to them, maybe get their umber.

But the reality is, your going to find girls of all shapes, sizes, and attraction levels in public. Sometimes these girls are attractive, but not quite enough to do an approach. It's rare for a girl to walk by with your exact taste in mind.

Which leads to a dilemma I've been dealing with, and I suspect a lot of other guys have as well. You see many girls that are "almost" approachable.

For example, your sitting at a coffee shop with a laptop, and an "almost pretty enough" girl sits next to you. You might mention something to her just for practice, but you don't do a number close. A couple hours go by, and she finally gets up and leaves.

Afterwards you feel like you might have missed an opportunity, but her looks wasn't quite enough for you. Leading to regret and feeling like a shallow person.

She could have been hot, but not quite your kind of hot. Maybe she had a couple features you didn't like. It could be her body was good but her face wasn't pretty enough, or her face is pretty but her style was something you don't care for. You only get once chance to judge your girlfriend/wife based on appearance. After that your stuck with looking at the same women for possibly the rest of your life.

Which makes getting motivated to do this harder, because I'm most likely going to be put into this situation dozens of times, and I will probably feel bad or shallow for not approaching someone who didn't quite fit the bill.

I know that some guys get more nervous and reluctant around girls the more attractive they are. For me, its the opposite. It's hard for me to put in all of my effort if the girl is not quite what I want. I actually get more approach anxiety with less attractive girls. But if they are my ideal vision, all of that goes away and I just go right up to them, no messing around.

Hopefully this resonates with some other guys out there.